Below is an account sent to me on Fetlife by cuckolded, chastity controlled,  tiffanymaid. I thought it may be of interest to followers. Painful Reading…. Whilst awaiting delivery of Mistress Scarlets most recent Journal (Volume 12), Mistress Serena (my MistressWife) suggested my initial reading on arrival would be kneeling before Her on my knees, and any arousal from my clitty during this, would be punished accordingly, knowing full well the effect Mistress Scarlet’s Journals & blog have. On the evening following delivery, i was required to kneel, as planned, before my Mistress, CB6000s removed, initially naked, and then ordered to wear my firmest corset….thus my bare clitty and nipples both displayed. After sending me to serve Her a glass of Rioja, She [...]

Here is a comment/question I received from a lifestyle Domme and my answer. Does anyone deal with the issue another way? Mistress Scarlet, My sub and I have started reading your guidance manual and I have to say it has dramatically improved our lifestyle. I want to thank you for writing such a wonderfully informative book. We are still in the early stages of our DS relationship even though we are married and have been together for several years, but this book has become our “bible” so-to-speak, for our transition into the lifestyle. I have a question relating to maintaining the DS lifestyle in special circumstances which I am finding particularly difficult, and I welcome any advice you can offer. I recently [...]

Some early reviews of Volume 12 of my journals. COMMENT 1 Just got to the last chapter and ‘Governess Malice’ – WOW – just WOW! COMMENT 2 posting to comment on Volume12. i have only partially read the Volume at this point. (in a random order). On arrival, Mistress Serena postponed opening the package until evening, when i was stripped naked and then ordered to wear only a firm corset. i was ordered to read the book aloud before Her, and any arousal would be punished…. and it was ! i have read “The first visit of Mistress Nicola”, “Mistress Nicola’s second visit” (both aloud, on knees before Serena), and alone in locked leather Penile Pinsleeve Restrainer, “Pansy-piece’s birthday meal” & “bitch-boys [...]

I have mentioned before that in some DS relationships the Domme ALWAYS prefers DS time to vanilla time. These are the most full-on DS relationships. This post is unlikely to be relevant to them. Then there are the relationships like mine. I have my bitch-boy puppet toy on the shelf and, I can, anytime I want to, take him down from the shelf, abuse him and hurt him and humiliate him and make him very miserable for as long as I want. VERY AROUSING. (Apart from 24/7/365 chastity), the rest of the time I use bitch-boy for his vanilla attributes and company. Watching some great TV, great DVDs, fine food, travel, vanilla socialising, etc. So what is the point of this post? The quick little VERY REGULAR [...]

In my post of  28 April 2018  I mentioned placing mirrors for enhancing effect. They can be tricky to set up; what with getting the angles and distance right. A top tip is to have the mirror as close to the subs face as possible. This gives the sub the most panoramic view, so is likely to pick up a view of the Domme. But the point of this post is: Remember ladies you have a sub to do such things, you don’t have to deal with the grunt work. When I want to put poor bitch-boy into a few hours of extreme sensory deprivation bondage, involving a lot of equipment, I tell him to get it all ready and come and get me [...]

I wonder if there is an avenue into young women at colleges and university to spread the word about what a great life they could have as a dominant wife. It is widely believed that there are around 100 sub men to each dominant women and scanning BDSM contact sites, (excluding women in it for money only), that statistic stands up. I am sure this is because of societal pressures on women to be weaker than men and the incorrect notion that submissive men are weak men. If young women could understand that it is possible to have absolute power over a husband, yet he still be a powerful partner when a powerful partner is needed, this would help sway the balance. Below is another comment received [...]

I love this image from the wonderful Sardax which I think really sums up how a Domme feels owning a submissive who is helplessly addicted to his Domme, despite (or because of), all the terrible things he must endure to retain his privileged position. (I do assume there is a chastity device under his thong.) A helpless puppet who can be picked up, used and abused, and put back down, all on a whim. I often look at bitch-boy and see him as my puppet, a human doll, a human pin cushion, a whipping boy, available at my whim, to be tormented for my depraved satisfaction. And UTTERLY helpless and trapped – NO ESCAPE. A power rush, a sense of proprietal ownership and a feeling of [...]

At last I have published volume 12 of my journals. Now available on Amazon Kindle, USA,  UK,   DE,   FR,   ES,    IT,    NL,    JP,    BR,   CA,   MX,   AU,   IN.   Also available on LULU paperback and LULU ePub. It will shortly be available on Apple iTunes, Nook, Kobo, Barnes & Noble and  Ingram.             It contains more words than any other journal I have published. I hope you like it. Source: Ms Scarlet Journal 12 now published #femdomhypnosis #femdomtraining #malesubmissivetraining #femaledominancetraining #femdomhusbandtraining

Many people have a primary sense of vision. (Rather than sound or even touch, etc.) But so much of DS activity excludes seeing all that is happening, thus missing out on power-rush pleasure for the Domme and subjugating effect for the sub. The Domme should have a think about increasing access to the visual aspects wherever possible. Administering a caning of a bent over sub, with his head to one side and cheek flat against the table/bench, often means the  Domme does not see the sub’s face between strokes and the sub does not see the body and face of the Domme in pitiless, sadistic, caning mode. If possible a full length mirror strategically placed will allow each to see the other and [...]

I purchased your manual. I am very much excited to begin this journey with my husband. He is most definitely a true submissive and I am finding my dominant side which has been made much easier and clearer because of your wonderful manual. Thank you!  A comment recently received. Nothing gives me greater satisfaction than the thought that I am helping another woman enjoy the sort of life I do, and as a side effect making a true submissive content, although no doubt ‘challenged’ and perhaps regretting what he wished for. (Click on the image for more info.)   Source: Ms Scarlet Another wife takes control #femdomhypnosis #femdomtraining #malesubmissivetraining #femaledominancetraining #femdomhusbandtraining