I am an almost total newbie but not a young man any more, born 1962. I am married and live a vanilla life, but have always(?) have had submissive fantasies.

During my 30 years of marriage I have never been able to treat my wife fully the way she deserves, especially when it comes to chores, and I seriously want to become a better and more service minded man to her.
I am typical monogamous and am not interested in cheating, so I am not on the market, but I am willing to submit to a trainer and allow relevant discipline.

I know that it will take a lot of effort to change, and hope that hypnosis and the resources here can help in the process.

I don’t expect to recruit my wife to Femdom, at least not with the resources here, due to her poor knowledge of English, but I hope to receive training so that I can be the man she deserves.

Finally, I am interested in getting in contact with a female disciplinarian in Norway, to help my training effort.