Malevolent Females – the good and the bad

It seems to me, by my study of submissives, that there are two types of Malevolent  Females. One type generates awe in submissives, the other type does not. Yet the relevant behaviours of both types are almost identical. Some women are mentally weak and let down the gender I’m afraid. A woman who has easily lost her temper and is out of control, not thinking about the effects of her actions, while slapping a male’s face a few times. Not very awe inspiring. BUT, a woman completely in control of herself, calm, fully aware of the shame she is bringing to the male, while slapping his face a few times, and enjoying herself – well that inspires considerable awe in a submissive. Same activity but very different outcome. Replace slapping [...]

Four stages of cuckolding

Well it seems to me that, when circumstances allow, it is worth stretching out the cuckolding experience for the sub to make the most of the subjugating effects of each stage. (The sub’s lifestyle restrictions. For each of the four stages the following lifestyle restrictions apply. The sub is a born again virgin, in chastity, has not had an orgasm for a good while and will not be having one for a good while.) Stage 1: A different location. You leave him in the house all alone, possibly with a list of chores to be done, while you go out to have sex with another. He knows exactly what will be happening. You have told him. When you get home, he can be [...]

Writing About Porn Panic and Porn Influence

If you want to boil Porn Panic into a single concept: It’s about the breathless trembling shock  people write about facials with. In porn, it makes a great visual to have the guy finish by wanking all over the model’s face.  The visual nature of the medium means that the positioning and nature of communication of the erotic puts the semen produced somewhere into the picture and facials are an alternative to creampies, pearl necklaces, whatever slang term for festooning the buttocks, etc. Something particular about putting semen on the face causes a tizzy. It’s a newer behaviour in the sense that it meandered over from Japanese porn in my teenage years to be a standard in pretty much all western porn.  [...]

Leash Fantasies for Him

My arousal is a suffusion from the nape of my neck to my knees, a warmth and skin hunger that buzzes away in my breasts and the softness of the inside of my thighs. I think about a thing he doesn’t want to do and it is erotic. At the party, I took his necktie, parading him about with the enjoyment of my casual ability to inspire obedience. Blame a friend joking, oh no now that we’re dating “[Brick] wrangling is your job” and that I got the leash now. I sent back that nobody told me there was a leash in full enthusiasm, kink hiding in the plain sight place we use humor to fig leaf.  Hahaha, you want your boyfriend [...]

New chastity cage

I have decided I need a third chastity device for poor bitch-boy. I have decided his homemade tube gives too much access to the root of the shaft and the head. I also have some activities in mind which mean his CB6000 provides too much protection to his little clitty. More on those activities later in this post. I am choosing between a number of metal cage devices and am seeking from you dear readers of my blog, either first hand experience of such devices, or comparison web pages/fora that can be trusted so that I can pick the most suitable.  I would make sure the device was inescapable by a padlock through the wire at the tip of the cage and through his [...]

Yet more from Christine M

Christine has left another extended delightful comment on the blog post entitled  : Ignoring heartfelt pleading and tears Source: Ms Scarlet Yet more from Christine M #femdomhypnosis #femdomtraining #malesubmissivetraining #femaledominancetraining #femdomhusbandtraining

Spike topped shoes torment!

A lovely tableau during my recent visit to Mistress Nicola’s. I was wearing the shoes in the photo and we had poor pansy-piece sit on the floor, legs spread wide apart and his wrists bound behind his back. I pushed my spiked shoe tight up against his genitals. Nicola reached down and rested his clitty on the top of my shoe on the spikes. She then came in close and placed the sole of her shoe onto pansy-piece’s clitty pressing it down onto the spikes. She kept her shoe there. She and I embraced and kissed and caressed while Nicola varied the downward pressure of the sole of her shoe pushing his clitty down onto the spikes.     A lovely tableau [...]

Ignoring heartfelt pleading and tears

I do point out in my BDSM manual that one way to very deeply affect a sub and get delicious arousing pleasure as a Domme is to get the sub to the point where they are truly pleading with all their heart and soul for something to happen, or to not happen, or to stop happening. (But one can go further, see levels 2 and 3 below.) Level 1 – A sub truly begging with all its heart, has no doubt they are utterly helpless, the domination is REAL and they are at the mercy of a cruel person. I would almost say it is essential. Level 2, Once the begging with all its heart has been attained, add a mind-fuck, the sub must believes the mind [...]

Puzzles and Problems

It’s there, but goodness only knows where it is. No amount of standard levers will shift this particular boulder, slap him, push him, sit on him and none of these things push him there. It’s day 3 of his visit and he’s finishing off the crunchy bakery bread toasts and fluffed up scrambled eggs I made for him. We’ve been having sex in a cycle of squirming, fucking and recovery for the last two days and I am giving my cunt a break after a combination of size and first time tension has left it a little beat up. He’s giving his cock a break, every so often checking it for bruises with the care of a man tending to horse after [...]

Problems with Lulu?

I apologise for asking about such a boring matter, but has anyone experienced a technical problem with purchasing my BDSM Manual from LULU.COM? I have to say my BDSM Manual has been ‘flying off the shelves’ from day one from the other outlets like AMAZON KINDLE and continues to do so, and although the same was true with LULU.COM to begin with, there has been a very sudden drop off with LULU.COM. Given nothing has changed with the outlets, I have to ask the question about LULU.COM. Perhaps I should change my paperback outlet from LULU.COM to Amazon, but I have several reasons to not want to use Amazon for this. LINK to my published journals. LINK to my published BDSM manual.   Source: Ms [...]