A few thoughts about pegging from your truly on the 13th birthday of my pride and joy, Pegging Paradise!

That’s a long time to be talking, thinking, teaching, and let’s not forget, (still) learning about the act of pegging. As I am fond of saying, I went down the rabbit hole and I’m still there! (I know my use of the word ‘hole’ begs for a bad pun, but I’m gonna pass.)

More than anything I am happy to look back and see what I have created. A wealth of knowledge about a very misunderstood sexual activity. An activity that during these 13 years, is slowly but inexorably coming into its own.

According to Clips4Sale the popularity of pegging has grown an average of 44% every year for the past 5 years. This was true until until 2022, when it it almost doubled. They expect soon pegging will be as popular as rimming. This is why they announced at the end of 2022 that pegging was going to be “Fetish of the Year for 2023”. What are the reasons for this rise in popularity? I certainly want to claim responsibility for a part of it, with all my efforts to educate. But I have a couple of other theories.

Vulnerability

I believe societal changes in the expectations of gender norms explain part of the rise in pegging popularity. Every day more receivers are discovering that the vulnerability inherent in pleasurable male anal penetration can offer a kind of balance to society’s unhealthy demands of ‘masculinity’. Men are realizing that being in charge, in control, and never allowing themselves to be vulnerable absolutely takes its toll.

The vulnerability offered them in pegging is a welcome relief from the demands of following society’s rules about masculinity. Many men crave being able to completely let go and just receive. Also, that vulnerability happens privately with their partner, which can dramatically reduce the possibility of societal blowback due to rigid gender stereotypes.

Pleasure and Intimacy

Then there is the reality that prostate stimulation offers intense pleasure for the receiver, even multiple orgasms and full-body orgasms. Receivers wax poetic about the intensity of the pleasures they experience, and the emotional bonding that happens with their partners. The role reversal inherent in pegging allows more understanding and compassion for their partner’s usual role during sex, often resulting in a deeper intimacy.

Other receivers wax poetic about the thrills of having their ass lusted after and being taken. They revel in the experience of feeling sexy and receiving all that attention instead of being in charge and running the fuck. Pegging can offer receivers the opportunity to experience submission and being dominated by a partner, even including chastity in the mix.

The recurring theme here is the willing and consensual loss of control. This can happen whether it’s from the intensity of the pleasure that leaves them trembling and speechless, or the voluntary ceding of control that is involved in submission and chastity.

Tell me why you think pegging is becoming more and more popular! I want to hear your theories!

So how am I going to celebrate the 13th Birthday of Pegging Paradise? I will have a margarita, and take a long, hot perfumed bath. Later I will celebrate not only this 13th birthday, but masturbation month, too! In case you hadn’t noticed, I have a pretty steamy story going on. It starts here.

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