lifelockedinacage: A man’s orgasm is a symbol of his... | Femdom Training

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A man’s orgasm is a symbol of his masculinity. Spreading and spraying his seed is his way of marking his territory; claiming what he thinks is his.

No man ever wants to taste his own cum – that’s for ‘sluts’. He looks down on those who willingly take his seed as less-than him.

It’s a symbol of dominance. That’s why ‘suck my dick’ is considered a degrading insult, and not an invitation for intimate sharing.

In the process of reconfiguring a power dynamic with a man, repurposing his orgasm (whether through chastity, tease and denial, or milking) is a powerful tool that most women do not fully appreciate or understand.

Men will do almost anything to cum. They’ll beg, lie, cheat, steal, fight, pray, compete, and get naked in a crowded room. The thing is, they still view this as an act of dominance; a sign of masculine power. Even submissive men will promise the world, including the popular fantasy of consuming their own ejaculate – so long as they’re horny. It’s amazing what sexual lust and psychosis will do to a man’s logic and reasoning.

While tease, denial, chastity, and milking are a way to regulate his urges, they don’t mess with his psychology as much as forcing him to eat his own load does.

In order to truly invade his psychology on a deep and impactful level, the consumption of his own cum MUST occur especially when he decides or fights against it after his orgasm. He will attempt to talk you out of it, to pretend not to hear you, or get up and clean up. All the promises, confidence, and flattery will have evaporated – something women no doubt have experienced before.

It’s in this moment that you must seize your power, rather than shy away or get steam rolled by him.

During orgasm, men will experience a rush of dopamine which gives them unbelievable pleasure for a few short moments. Within seconds, the overdose of dopamine will be counter-acted by the body’s response to neutralize it with prolactin – the hormone responsible for his sexual dis-interest, tiredness, irritability, and moodiness. A hormonal recovery that can take up to 2 weeks in some men! His own body is turning him off sexual desire, so in order to lead him, you must take control.

The longer the pause between his orgasm and his consumption, the harder it will be for him, not to mention it will get cold and become more difficult to consume anyway. It’s highly emotional and intellectual, so choose whatever demeanor, negotiation, or technique you feel is best – just do not bend on the end result.

For the advanced and sadistic types, a longer waiting period only amplifies the suffering and effect. For those starting out, be sure not to waste a moment, lest you make it harder for both of you. This is why one of the most popular positions is to have him shoot into his own mouth so at the moment of his extreme pleasure, he is also being made to swallow. It’s a true assault on his senses, but one that results in net positive results.

With enough practice (like anything), you will train and condition his mind to normalise the act, the taste, and thus the expectation. In time, not only will he do it without asking, but may even need to do it in order to feel fulfilled.

And the upside? By consuming his own semen, his recovery period will be significantly shortened from days/weeks to potentially hours. This is much more valuable to you – he won’t lose focus, service, or momentum, nor waste days being moody or dis-interested.

This is because men who swallow their own ejaculate don’t tend to experience the hormonal crash as badly, potentially due to most of the hormones, testosterone, and proteins being re-consumed rather than ending up in a rag.

Think of this as one of the winning cards in your deck; one that will leave you both fulfilled and content in the right mindsets.