Orgasms, Orgasms, Orgasms A late night posting tonight. I was a rather busy woman today and recovering from a rather intense reunion with my lover. It had been two weeks (I had strep and didn’t leave my bed and not in a fun way). My lover’s thing is making me cum. As a Domme, pro or lifestyle, I do not let my submissives experience my orgasms. Well, I should say, I rarely let my submissives experience my orgasms. It find it very freeing that I can share these moments with him. Anyway, back to the subject at hand, well his hand more specifically. He loves making me cum. He can spend hours making me cum without so much as an [...]

How To Triage a Fuck A girlfriend and I were having a talk last night. She spent a night with a new lover. Has potential right? Wrong, apparently it was not so good. The question came up on how one can triage their potential sexual experience later. I am not talking about a relationship here. I am talking about sex, one night stands, an experience purely for the carnal desires that require little to no intimacy. I am not really a one night stand kind of woman. I have those moments, the ones where a girl just wants to get laid. I have enjoyed them in the past and will likely enjoy them again in the future. My friend desires [...]

Delays As Usual So I wanted to start my 30 Days of Domme Thoughts on October 1st. But as usual with my slightly unhappy body, I got sick. This time strep. Because I my history with rheumatic fever and heart disease there was no playing around. And because I handle medication so well (she says full of sarcasm and oozing contempt), I was pretty well useless for the ten plus days I have spent in bed. All this to say that now my fever is gone, my sickness expelled from my physical existence and now I am ready to continue or rather start my Daily Domme Thoughts for the next 30 days. Some of my posts are planned and [...]

Return of 30 Days of Domme Thoughts 30 Days of Domme Thoughts returns for another run. A new post for every day in October. À bientôt, Ambre Jade Source: Domme Thoughts

Enjoy Your Sexual Experience This is my new favourite thing on the internet: So many sexual experiences are clouded by shame.  Shame affects us all, even when we least expect it. I have always been lucky in that the majority of my sexual experiences have been empowering. I feel very little shame when it comes to sex, or whom I am attracted to. It always shocks me when people say, “I can talk to you about this but I would never tell anyone else.” When I ask why, it is usually something along the lines of being judged by others. I understand that not everyone was raised in a sexually empowered environment like I was. That not everyone talks [...]