Welcome to another edition of TMI where you can never find out enough!! 1. Do you believe in ESP (extrasensory perception)? Do you have those abilities? I believe in premonitions or sensing that something is going to happen. I don’t really think I possess those abilities, though. 2. Do you laugh when someone tickles you? Mr Jones is very ticklish. When tickled, he does this very different, girlish kind of laugh, which I take pleasure in extracting from him. I am not that ticklish and given that I have tickled him so often, I work hard to not react when people tickle me. I won’t say that I am always successful, though. 3. Do you like teamwork? Team work makes the dream work. [...]

Photo by Tirachard Kumtanom on Pexels.com Something that vanilla people often find surprising is that I don’t fuck every swinger that I know. Even more surprisingly, I don’t fuck every swinger that I am friends with. There are people that I fuck that I am not friends with and probably never will be. And, perhaps because I am a complex human, there are people I fuck that I am really good friends with. Being in this lifestyle is sometimes a really effective way to grow your emotional intelligence and experience a range of relationships that you wouldn’t in the vanilla world. So what is it that determines these different relationships? These people have the same values as me. We have all turned our [...]

This set of questions was originally posted on 23 June 2015 on TMI Tuesday 1. What would you eat for your “last supper”? I really enjoy trying different cuisines and I can’t think of one that is my absolute favourite. I would love to be someone else’s last supper, though. Either with sushi, as pictured, or food of their choice. 2. Name 3 interesting and unique things to do in your town/city/region. A few years ago, we hosted a few Japanese homestay students who were visiting Australia on an English immersion program. It was a very interesting experience, to say the least. On the weekends, we would try to get them out to experience different things. As is the way some of the [...]

Get your week started right with a sexy story Photo by Nothing Ahead on Pexels.com “Let’s blow this popsicle stand.” Mike rested his butt on the edge of Molly’s desk and draped his arm along the partition. Experience had taught him that this vantage point would give him a nice view of Molly’s spectacular cleavage. Especially when she leaned forward over her keyboard. “What?” Molly frowned at her screen, completely lost in her work. “It is sunny out there,” Mike straightened up a little as he noticed Molly’s co — worker across the corridor frowning in his direction. “I just thought you might like to get some air.” “Stupid, stupid program!” Molly threw herself back in her chair in disgust. As if she [...]

I have been existing on the periphery of a Medium process called “Just start writing”. Today’s exercise was to write about something we explained recently. Technically, we aren’t posting, but because this is Pride Month, I wanted to share this with you all. Photo by Carlos de Toro @carlosdetoro on Unsplash In his piece ‘Same Love” Macklemore comments about the phrase ‘that’s gay’. When that expression came into common use. I wasn’t familiar with the song. I was well on my Lifestyle journey and unapologetically exploring my bisexuality (Pansexuality??). Until that point, I wasn’t really familiar with very many gay people or had much to do with gay culture. Even so, I knew that persecution of these people is wrong. The Macklemore lyrics [...]

I loved TMI Tuesday when it was running. In my contemplation of what I want to do with this blog, I have decided to use some old sets of TMI questions that tickle my fancy. So welcome to TMI Tuesday revisited. This set of questions is from 14 July 2015 1. What places have you visited in the last year that you know you will never visit again? This time a year ago I was travelling across the Canadian Rockies. I absolutely want to go back there. The second part of that journey was a cruise through the Alaskan Inside Passage to Anchorage. It is highly unlikely that we will ever do that again. 2. We often hear, “You can do anything you [...]

As I type this, I am sitting in the cafeteria of a large public hospital. Upstairs, Mr Jones is waiting to see the Opthamologist. He has been in this clinic for several years now. We are both familiar with uncomfortable waiting room seats and hours of being in a queue that seems to have no rhyme or reason. Rightly or wrongly, I have abandoned him to sit here where the noise is more, but the seat is more comfortable and I can type these words. I have had communications from more than one person about the lack of posts in this space. Sorry, not sorry. 2025 started with so much promise. I was no longer tied to a job. It seemed my life [...]

Photo by Cynthia Frankvoort on Unsplash A while back, I wrote a post entitled “What is a Swinger”. In the discussion that followed, a friend asked a question that I felt warranted a bit more discussion. She asked, “Do you consider couples who only engage with single women to not be swingers?” It has taken me a few weeks and a fair bit of pondering to get my thoughts about this lined up. Before I delve and start spouting my opinions, I want to emphasise that while I have a lot of experience in this lifestyle, I don’t know every person and I don’t speak for every person. What I write is my opinion. I have read and spoken to many people, but what I write [...]

Photo by Jason Villanueva on Pexels.com “I love the way that dress clings to you,” Michael’s voice whispered in her ear, sending tingles through Cindy’s body. Underneath the table, Cindy pressed her thighs together as she lifted her coffee to her lips. Under the table, Michael stroked her knee. Cindy took a sip of coffee and looked around the cafe. Behind her young lobbyist was talking passionately with his colleague about gay marriage. To her left, two business executives discussed the finer points of financial reporting. Overhearing snippets of these conversations made what was happening underneath the table even more delicious.  She placed her cup carefully back on the table and leaned forward. Her finger pulled her neckline down so that Michael could [...]

Two weeks ago we had the kind of cyclone. A weather system that dumped lots of rain and blew certain parts of our coast. We then had a weekend of nice weather, which allowed for some camping. Which provided an opportunity for photos of course! Unfortunately there is another weather event on the horizon. More wet T-shirts in my future!!! To see who else is sinning this Sunday click on the lips!!