How to introduce male chastity to your wife

One effective way for a man to introduce male chastity to his wife is to have an open and honest conversation about his desires and feelings. It is important for him to express his reasons for wanting to explore chastity, whether it be for heightened arousal, to deepen emotional intimacy, or to explore power dynamics in the relationship. He should approach the topic with sensitivity and care, emphasizing that his desire to explore male chastity is not a reflection of any dissatisfaction with their relationship or her as a partner. It may be helpful to share resources or articles on the benefits of male chastity, and to assure her that their communication and mutual consent will be paramount throughout any exploration of [...]

17 reasons a woman might want a submissive man.

Here are 17 reasons why women are attracted to submissive men. 1. She may feel more confident and empowered in a relationship where she is the dominant partner. 2. She may enjoy the feeling of control and authority over her partner. 3. She may prefer a more passive and obedient partner who is willing to follow her lead. 4. She may enjoy the thrill of being the one in charge during intimate moments. 5. She may find submissive men to be more attentive and considerate of her needs and desires. 6. She may appreciate the opportunity to explore her dominance and assertiveness in a safe and consensual way. 7. She may prefer a partner who is less assertive and more willing to [...]

What is Feminization in BDSM?

As a professional Dominatrix, I have the pleasure of indulging in a wide variety of kink activities. One of my absolute favorites is Feminization. Transformation and challenging cultural norms are key aspects of BDSM. Social expectations regarding what is “male” or “female” are a rich environment for transcendence, allowing participants to explore their feelings of gender non-conformity in a controlled way. There is something delightful about watching a man transform into a feminized form and seeing the change in attitudes and behaviors that result. What is Feminization Exactly? Feminization is a type of BDSM role-play that involves imposing traditionally female attributes onto a male-identifying submissive partner. This is typically achieved through cross-dressing where the submissive partner wears traditional female clothing. It also may [...]

By |2024-04-23T10:37:19-07:00April 23rd, 2024|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Male Submissive Training – 5 steps on how to become a male submissive through training.

Creating a dynamic of submission within a relationship involves open communication, trust, and mutual understanding. Here's a five-step plan: Establish Open Communication: Initiate a conversation with your wife about your desires and intentions regarding submission. Express your willingness to explore this dynamic together and ensure that both of you are comfortable with the idea. Listen actively to your wife's thoughts and feelings on the matter. Understand her perspective and any concerns she may have. It's crucial to ensure that both partners are on the same page and that there is mutual consent and understanding. Define Roles and Boundaries: Clearly define the roles each of you will play within the dynamic of submission. Discuss what submission means to both of you and how it [...]

Outstanding FemDom Content

Whether you prefer in person meetings or online training, everyone can appreciate great content and indulge in clips/videos from time to time.  Since I have been visiting the House of Sinn, I have definitely upped My game. The film slaves there are top notch. Recently I went with one of My Own collared boys and we made some real treasures together.  The first of those is out and it’s a bit different from My usual fare.  Check it out here – Getting off while I tease and torment you. Some of My new favorites: Tickle Party – 8 hand tickling – so much fun Training My first human puppy – My first puppy play video Out of chastity for ball busting – a double with Ezada Sinn [...]

By |2024-03-06T12:30:42-08:00March 6th, 2024|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Let’s make 2024 the year of the submissive

Let’s shake things up a bit this year. I did that last year with a move to Europe and it’s only been positive.  This year is your year to make some changes and get out of your rut.  I suggest you embrace your submissive/feminine side and see just how good a submissive you can be.  Submission may just set you free. If you have gotten out of the habit of seeing a Domme in real life, I can help with that.  Let’s start with some distance training and then I will send you to a reputable Domme I trust – if I can’t see you Myself. If you have gotten into an indulgent cycle with anything from food to masturbation, I can help [...]

By |2024-01-01T10:19:36-08:00January 1st, 2024|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |1 Comment

An open letter about chastity

by Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy Five years ago, in 2018, i reached out to Mistress Ayn, whom i had served only a few times in session as a submissive, after many decades of submitting to other professional Mistresses, and asked if She would consider being my Keyholder and placing me in chastity.  In retrospect, i honestly really did not fully understand what i was asking of Her or the multiple dimensions or aspects of chastity, but thankfully She was knowledgeable, experienced, and willing. For Her services, which have far exceeded my expectations and fantasies, She explained that there would be a monthly fee (a financial aspect of chastity), not exorbitant but fair given Her time commitment.  This was the first reality check of being [...]

By |2023-11-07T07:44:02-08:00November 7th, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |1 Comment

Returning to The House of Sinn

Once again I will be visiting My Friend, Ezada Sinn at The House of Sinn.  The last visit was a great combination of filming and socializing and more is on the plate for this visit because two additional Ladies will be visiting while I am there.  I love the opportunity to film with HOS’s well trained chattel so if you have a request or want to commission a custom, this is your chance.  Ezada usually doesn’t entertain custom requests but if you have something that is not too scripted, She might say yes . . .   Plus I will be filming solo with Her slaves for one day. The trip is planned for mid November, so get your requests in now. [...]

By |2023-10-31T11:30:10-07:00October 31st, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

EPIC ENEMAS and so much more

5 hours of surprise enemas and predicament bondage- why it is so erotic, intimate and exciting. In the world of intimacy and exploration, sensation play stands as an exhilarating gateway to pleasure, where the body becomes a playground of delightful surprises. At its core, sensation play is an art form, weaving together elements of touch, temperature, texture, and anticipation to create a symphony of sensations that tantalize the senses. However, one of its most enchanting aspects lies in the element of surprise, where the unexpected becomes a source of profound enjoyment and connection. The joy of sensation play is deeply rooted in the art of surprise, where partners or individuals revel in the unknown, embracing the anticipation of what comes next. In the [...]

By |2023-10-18T17:43:49-07:00October 18th, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments