Do Clothes Maketh the Man?

The ex-policeman has been sharing his thoughts and experiences over at Journey of a Swingle Guy. He entered the lifestyle as a newly divorced single man and has had many enriching experiences. Which has led him to start publishing on a platform like this. Over the course of our friendship we have ihad many conversations about the place and attitudes of men in the lifestyle both coupled and single. Of late our conversations have included discussions about the level of effort that some men seem to think is appropriate when they are either trying to get into or participate in the lifestyle. As I have indicated in an earlier post on a similar topic (this may have triggered a blog post conversation, sorrynotsorry!) [...]

By |2026-05-19T18:21:56-07:00May 19th, 2026|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training, Mrs Jones|0 Comments

The Last Day

As I type I am sitting in the lobby of a San Francisco hotel waiting for my ride to the airport. I have been in The United States for a total of twenty five days. It has been a journey that we made up as we went along. In doing so we have visited four states, two major cities (and a number of minor ones), five national parks and a number of national forests / state parks. It is going to take me some time to process everything I have seen. When I left home I thought I would have time to write and had vague plans of working on a longer series. For some reason as I sank into cruise boat life [...]

By |2026-05-18T13:19:28-07:00May 18th, 2026|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training, Mrs Jones|0 Comments

Sailing the High Seas

The Pacific Ocean is the largest ocean on Earth. On 2 April Mr Jones and I boarded a cruise ship with about 2500 of our closest friends. We were bound for San Francisco via Fiji, Tahiti and Hawaii. Over the next 22 days we did what people on a cruise ship do best; eat, watch entertainment, play silly games, eat, sleep, sunbathe and just to be sure we weren’t hungry, eat some more. It took a few days for us to change mindsets from the incredibly busy couple of weeks leading up to this journey. But we got there in the end. Life in a cruise boat is like stepping into an alternate universe. Being disconnected from the internet and regular routines and [...]

By |2026-04-26T11:04:27-07:00April 26th, 2026|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training, Mrs Jones|0 Comments

Roadside Picnic – this is not!

Bangkok Bdsm Dominatrix Jaa4u >> Roadside Picnic – this is not! Ok so Roadside Picnic is my 8th book. That’s a lot of reading since August. This the first page of all the books I have read where I was stopped cold not quite believing what I had just read … and then went back and read it a few more times. The first few just to confirm what I had read, and then each time after that simply to marvel at how much it shocked me. As a mom, I think this line will haunt me forever in a good way. Like, it really hit me hard and I went from loving the book – oh say 10/10 which you know because [...]

By |2026-04-13T12:12:05-07:00April 13th, 2026|Categories: Jaa Femdom|0 Comments

Slave’s Surprise Visit Causes Cuckhold Hell part 1

Bangkok Bdsm Dominatrix Jaa4u >> Slave’s Surprise Visit Causes Cuckhold Hell part 1 Before I recount the story in the ppv section below for my Patreon and FanVue subscribers – let’s go over what “Cuckhold Hell” truly is. This is the grand sum of all cucking session requests we’ve ever had at jaa4u.com : “Oh Mistress, can you tie me up and force me to watch one of your lovers with a huge cock fuck you while you look at me to laugh and humiliate me. You can even put me on the floor under your pussy so I can watch his 10 inch cock pound your pussy and make you moan then I’ll have no choice when you make me slurp out [...]

By |2026-04-10T07:41:06-07:00April 10th, 2026|Categories: Jaa Femdom|0 Comments

The $400k Pavlovian Sexual Setup

Bangkok Bdsm Dominatrix Jaa4u >> The $400k Pavlovian Sexual Setup Take any man, not just a submissive one.  Empower him.  Give him space to do what he believes he does well – encourage him and most importantly, reward his triumphs with every sexual fantasy he has ever dreamed of – and you don’t just have a slave, you have a king who has voluntarily surrendered his entire kingdom to you, he just doesn’t know it yet. And yes, I know how that sounds coming from a woman who still forgets to take the laundry in when it begins to rain as just happened and once tried to “dominate” a jar of pickles that wouldn’t open … but this is the part they never [...]

By |2026-04-08T07:55:05-07:00April 8th, 2026|Categories: Jaa Femdom|0 Comments

This Tease & Denial Video went Viral | Part 3

Bangkok Bdsm Dominatrix Jaa4u >> This Tease & Denial Video went Viral | Part 3 When you watch the concluding part of the video, keep in mind that this was the fifth hour of non-stop edging, face sitting, piss feeding, spit feeding and ball massaging. Which is why his cock is so beat red … and is why he can no longer stand even one finger touching his penis any longer. The quivering – the cock self-vibrating, that’s what happens when a man has been pushed to the brink of insanity via a simple prolonged Tease & Denial. Like I told you though, there is a very long story that goes along with what you’re seeing in the video for if you notice, [...]

By |2026-04-05T14:59:06-07:00April 5th, 2026|Categories: Jaa Femdom|0 Comments

This Tease & Denial Video went Viral | Part 2

Bangkok Bdsm Dominatrix Jaa4u >> This Tease & Denial Video went Viral | Part 2 There are times where one doesn’t really need words.  Greatness speaks for itself – always. That’s what you have here – greatness. The video that is. However, to go along with the video – tonight being part 2 of the greatest Tease & Denial every captured – there is an equally epic story that will also be greatness – once I write it in part 3. I can’t write it for you tonight because like Ashe in Alien … I’m collating with Mother:     That’s a private joke between me and my former full-time “slave” as I call him Mother since he holds all the information about [...]

By |2026-04-04T08:01:50-07:00April 4th, 2026|Categories: Jaa Femdom|0 Comments

This Tease & Denial Video went Viral

Bangkok Bdsm Dominatrix Jaa4u >> This Tease & Denial Video went Viral On a normal day – back when all four Mistresses were doing femdom sessions in early 2012 – our inbox would have collected 8-12 session requests per day, a bit more on the weekends from people looking for a spontaneous experience but to no avail because we were always “sold out” – of time that is. One morning I woke up, flipped open my Nokia flip phone – yes that’s how far back we’re going with this story – just wanting to get a snapshot of how many emails had come in while I was asleep. That Nokia screen was such a tiny square that it could barely fit in three [...]

By |2026-04-02T09:04:11-07:00April 2nd, 2026|Categories: Jaa Femdom|0 Comments

Today is a Serotonin | Dopamine ‘spike’ day

Bangkok Bdsm Dominatrix Jaa4u >> Today is a Serotonin | Dopamine ‘spike’ day Days like today are why my Fanvue blog means so much to me – it’s like a personal teddy bear that helps me through “brain spike days” as AI calls it. I think today is a perfect example of what one of those “off” days are like in my life … one of someone neuro divergent.  See, over the years as I’ve gotten older and wiser and have gone through all the experiences I’ve gone though – I’ve learned to find ways to cope with my brain when it does what it wants to do.  Today was one of those marvellous days where I grabbed a hammer in my left [...]

By |2026-03-31T06:07:06-07:00March 31st, 2026|Categories: Jaa Femdom|0 Comments