Trans-Mortem

The whole process of my breakup is not done. We are still in awkward close quarters, negotiating the logistics of the seperation as we each move into our own household. Lots of crying. He took a week off work to grieve and has been pretty much high half the time. I have tried to get [...]

By | 2017-08-16T05:12:13+00:00 August 16th, 2017|Dommes|0 Comments

bitch becomes seriously dominated 24/7

I received this wonderful comment (below) regarding the impact my manual has had on one couple. What a fantastic dominant woman. Hoping this would happen for a few people around the world was exactly what motivated me to write the manual. Dear Mistress Scarlet I feel that I must message you to let you know that [...]

By | 2017-08-12T04:12:04+00:00 August 12th, 2017|Dommes|0 Comments

Poor bitch-boy double dommed again!

My new Mistress friend I mentioned in my blog post of July 22 is visiting again this week. She is coming in the middle day of three solid days of use and abuse to which bitch-boy will be subjected to; with no vanilla time during that period. Mistress Nicola is quite the sadist and bitch-boy [...]

By | 2017-08-06T03:12:01+00:00 August 6th, 2017|Dommes|0 Comments

Email domination begins

Well I know some of you will be horrified and full of disrespect for me but I have begun email domination. I have been experimenting with one submissive and it has gone well.  He is very satisfied and I am enjoying the experience. My desire to experience and continue to learn about submissives and DS I [...]

By | 2017-07-29T08:12:24+00:00 July 29th, 2017|Dommes|0 Comments

The Tower and the Chariot

The news of my estranged mother’s breast cancer adds one more variable in the tornado of shrapnel that is my life. Good news on my insurance paperwork is the trade off. Probably getting paid for my month of sick. Can pay Wildcard back for last month’s rent. Got to figure out the rest of my [...]

By | 2017-07-28T07:12:21+00:00 July 28th, 2017|Dommes|0 Comments

The visit of my new Domme friend

So my new Domme friend spent the afternoon with us. I provide only a flavour of highlights here because I have started working on Volume 12 of my published journals and the visit will be a full entry in that volume. With half hour to go before Mistress Nicola arrival, bitch-boy was dressed in his black and [...]

By | 2017-07-22T07:12:20+00:00 July 22nd, 2017|Dommes|0 Comments

A new Domme friend

Well I am about to spend time again with a new Domme friend I first met a short while ago. This week she is visiting bitch-boy and I and he has the nightmare of being introduced to, and suffering for a new Domme. It seems she is rather more into inflicting physical discomfort and restrictive bondage than [...]

By | 2017-07-20T09:44:03+00:00 July 17th, 2017|Dommes|0 Comments

Not firm-but-fair, its firm-AND-UNFAIR in my household

There is the disproportionate punishment. The sub is sent to tidy the kitchen. The tidying is done and I am feeling like being a bitch so an inspection of the ‘tidied’ kitchen  is undertaken. In reality it is perfect, but I behave with incredulous annoyance. although I am acting, my voice carries controlled irritation. ‘Look at the [...]

By | 2017-07-08T22:12:00+00:00 July 8th, 2017|Dommes|0 Comments

Tribal Solutions To Old Problems

Once upon a time I was assaulted. Three times, the last time I fought back and punched him in the head. I learned like all niafs in the BDSM scene that not everyone respects you. I grew up. I first made a space without him, got braver and called him out. In the mean time [...]

By | 2017-07-08T22:12:07+00:00 July 4th, 2017|Dommes|0 Comments