Spanking your sub – Instrument selection for pleasure or behaviour modification.

Spanking is a form of impact play that involves the act of striking another person's buttocks with an open hand or an implement, such as a paddle or a belt, for the purpose of sexual arousal or punishment. It is important to note that any form of physical intimacy should be consensual, meaning that it is willingly and eagerly agreed upon by all parties involved. There are a variety of instruments that can be used for spanking in a femdom (female domination) relationship, including: Hand: The most basic and common instrument for spanking is the open hand. This can be an effective way to introduce impact play and allows for a high level of control and sensitivity. However, it is important to be [...]

By |2022-12-16T11:04:56-08:00December 16th, 2022|Categories: atonement, BDSM, Bondage, Discipline, Dommes, Spanking|6 Comments

30 ideas for a femdom relationship – Femdom Idea List

Femdom, or female domination, is a subgenre of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism) in which a woman takes on a dominant role in a sexual or non-sexual relationship with a man. Here are 30 ideas for activities a dominant woman could do to a submissive man in a femdom relationship: Restrain him using handcuffs, ropes, or other restraints Blindfold him to restrict his sense of sight Use a ball gag or other device to restrict his ability to speak Spank or whip him as a form of punishment Force him to perform tasks or chores for her Require him to ask permission before speaking or doing certain things Force him to wear certain clothing or accessories, such as a collar or leash [...]

Forceful ropework

Continuing on from the last post, this is another F/m rope bondage scene, but has a very different dynamic. This is less about tender and more about control and pain. It’s still sexy as hell though. I think it’s the hand to the back of the neck that does it for me. She doesn’t just want him tied up, she wants him exactly in the position she demands. I found this on the ‘Please Take My Control’ tumblr. I’m afraid I haven’t managed to track down an original attribution. If anyone can help with that then please leave a comment. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

Tender ropework

Something beautiful and simple for the weekend. This doesn’t really need any additional comment from me. You can see the original (in full size) along with others images shot in the sequence here. Rigged by Misungui. Model is Faun Sencible. pPhotographed by Ombilik. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

Feel the burn

I noticed that I’d inadvertently published two consecutive posts featuring fire. That wasn’t intended, but given that I have a strange compulsion to post in trios, here’s a third on the subject on flames and heat. This image caught my eye purely for the look on his face. It makes me yearn to feel like that. He looks lost in the moment. You can see another shot from the same scene here. This is from a Divine Bitches shoot featuring Bobbi Starr and Trent Diesel. I originally found it via this post on Femdom Times. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

Shit or get off my face

This paper mag article on the NYC BDSM scene is pretty short and light on detail. However, I have to salute the writer for its opening line – ‘Shit or get off my face’. That’s memorable. It’s a phrase that provokes an initial ‘huh?’, until you realize the writer is a dominatrix. Then it generates more of an ‘Ewww!’. This artwork is by Rodzo. Fortunately for those of a delicate disposition he’s an artist big on the face sitting part, but not so much on the poop. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

This little piggy got stabbed with a wooden skewer

Apologies for the lack of posts in recent days. I’m having to deal with some job related bullshit that’s stressing me out and sucking up a bunch of my time. Pacing around my apartment cursing the name of some asshole from work is not a good mindset for sex blogging. This post is actually a bit of a cheat, as I’m stealing from a recent Bondage Blog post. I liked it for the smile on the dommes face in the first image and the fact it features one of the rarer forms of sadistic play. Foot worship is a common enough femdom theme, but foot torture doesn’t seem to push as many buttons with people. Personally I have a love/hate relationship with this [...]

In the zone

I liked this short article on BDSM as a form of meditation. It doesn’t go into a lot of detail, but it captures some of my feelings on certain types of BDSM play. I’m by no means an expert on the topic, but the mindful meditation it describes does remind me of subspace. Some activities seem to lend themselves more than others to this kind of mental state. Personally I’ve found that needle play (particularly when decorative), heavy bondage and very formalized corporal punishment are particularly good for it. Moments of stillness combined with ritual and rhythm definitely help. In contrast things like predicament bondage, electrical play and energetic fucking really don’t work. They’re fun, but tend to constantly pull your mind out [...]

Vintage Japanese Femdom

I believe this is artwork from the 1950’s and a publication called ‘Kitan club’. I’m afraid I’ve no idea what the text says, but I do appreciate the artwork. The couple in the top image seem to be particularly enjoying themselves. You can see some other images from the same series on Homer’s blog. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

Wrapping the rope

Time for a change from politics. Let’s start the week off with something cute and sexy – a man having roped wrapped around his head. There’s also some interesting arm bondage going on. This is 1 of 4 images I found in this tumblr post. The original posters tumblr has been taken over by spammers, but I believe the rigger is June St Paul. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By |2017-04-21T14:26:18-07:00June 27th, 2016|Categories: Bondage, Fm, Gag, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: |0 Comments