On Missing Stairs, Zak Smith, Libertines, Pimps, BDSM and Roleplaying

Let’s talk about Zak Smith (aka Zak Sabbath, Zak S). No, not the being terrible person thing, lots of people know about that already. Rather, lets talk about a particularly noxious kind of person who attaches themselves to libertine communities and pleasure parties: the pimp, and how he embodies a particular part of The Problem. [...]

By |2019-02-18T22:53:16-07:00February 18th, 2019|Categories: Miss Pearl|Tags: |0 Comments

Friday Femdom Fiction: Personal Sex Doll

A yup, sponsored story posts help pay for the cost of hosting. This time it’s SexDolls.com helping pay for all the porn you folks love and enjoy. “Don’t move except when I move you, don’t speak.” She held a finger to his lips, looked into his eyes. They were sitting on the edge of her bed, [...]

By |2018-10-19T08:00:51-07:00October 19th, 2018|Categories: Miss Pearl|Tags: |0 Comments

Friday Femdom Fiction: Toys For Good Boys

“It’s too hot to fuck.” She was clad only in panties, sprawled so they just touched, arm to arm and her ankle layered over his. In her perception is body was radiating heat, and she’d broken off their kissing to escape it. His boxers were covering about 3/4 of an erection, enough to keep her [...]

By |2018-08-16T20:50:14-07:00August 16th, 2018|Categories: Miss Pearl|Tags: |0 Comments

Life Updates Again

I am thinking about the particulars of self-care. Not fairy lights and lush bath bars, but the immense amount of effort it takes to keep one overly ambitious adult woman ambulatory. Since I started a lovely, bland, immensely important straight job, which, cards played right, I will do until I exit clutching a pension, life [...]

By |2018-08-16T19:54:07-07:00August 16th, 2018|Categories: Miss Pearl|Tags: |0 Comments

Reader Letter: “Femdom Housewife?”

I recently got this rather sweet letter from a long term reader, so I’m glad to get a chance to answer for everyone. It’s a topic I’ve talked about before- the awkward relationship between gender roles and power, but if people are still asking about if you can be a femdom housewife, it deserves another [...]

By |2018-08-10T19:58:36-07:00August 10th, 2018|Categories: Miss Pearl|Tags: |0 Comments

Anti-erotic Life Updates

Pleasant lashings of Vancouver rain beat down on the new city I call home, while I ineptly put together homemade pancakes (got the texture wrong because I eyeballed it and experimented with cake flour) and my long suffering roomie wrestles with their cold on sick day number two. My body is a disgusting PMS mess, [...]

By |2018-06-14T11:25:23-07:00June 14th, 2018|Categories: Miss Pearl|Tags: |0 Comments

Friday Femdom Fiction: Jerk Off Instructions

“Take off your clothes.” She spoke,  abruptly, after breaking off the kissing.  She could still feel the stoftness of his lips against hers, the right amount of wet, and the taste-that-was-not-a-taste when she had licked them. They’d been making out for maybe five minutes, although she tended not to keep track of the time, with [...]

By |2018-06-08T11:20:22-07:00June 8th, 2018|Categories: Miss Pearl|Tags: |0 Comments

Retrospective 2018 On My Femdom Life

Let’s look at the metaphoric hiking blisters and holiday snaps from my sexual journey, shall we? This blog has seen me through four relationships, and a significant part of my adult life, almost a third of it, actually. It was started as an effort to put content out there that resonated with me, in a [...]

By |2018-06-06T12:18:18-07:00June 6th, 2018|Categories: Miss Pearl|Tags: |0 Comments

Talking About BDSM With Your Therapist

— Image by © Royalty-Free/Corbis This is not an advice post, it’s a sharing post, partially just to make sense of my recent experiences. I’m dealing with a generalized anxiety disorder, and have been for a long time. Some of this is hereditary, some of this is situational damage from some less than idyllic life [...]

A Little Bit of Simple, Easy Femdom Sex

Our houseguest, my brother, was away for a date netflix and chill hanging out as friends, I had some time to spend with Wildcard without fear of noise or naughty revelations. It’s not to say we aren’t aware that we don’t mutually have sexuality but ew,ew, ew, ew… Because of this limitation, the last time Wildcard and [...]