This post, like my previous post, is a dose of reality, from detailed example experiences of myself and fellow Dommes, with whom I have had the pleasure of double-domming their uxo. Reality about how real-life Domes in real-life FLRs usually wear no special outfits at all, except outfits that might, with no effort or acknowledgment, subtly create enduring, gnawing, desperate sexual frustration in their chastity-restrained uxo, who knows it will be a very long time, if ever, that that frustration will be eased. Enduring, gnawing, desperate sexual frustration which is often, it seems to him, completely ignored, but the Domme may well smile inside as she observes her uxo notice and suffer the visual source of his frustration that has taken her no effort at all to [...]

A dose of reality, from detailed example experiences of myself and fellow Dommes, with whom I have had the pleasure of double-domming their uxo. Reality about how real-life Domes in real-life FLRs usually wear no special outfits at all, except outfits that might, with no effort or acknowledgment, subtly create enduring, gnawing, desperate sexual frustration in their chastity-restrained uxo who knows it will be a very long time, if ever, that that frustration will be eased. Enduring, gnawing, desperate sexual frustration which is often, it seems to him, completely ignored, but the Domme may well smile inside as she notices her uxo notice and suffer the visual source of his frustration that has taken her no effort at all to include in her [...]

This post discusses consensual adult relationship dynamics. “Femdom” here refers to a power-exchange relationship built on trust, communication, and mutual respect — not coercion, pressure, or fantasy taken out of context. Many men who are drawn to the idea of female-led relationships or femdom dynamics assume their wife will eventually “come around” if they explain it enough, ask nicely, or show enthusiasm. In reality, most wives don’t reject the idea because they’re closed-minded or prudish. They reject it because, from their perspective, the proposal often feels confusing, risky, exhausting, or even insulting to the relationship they thought they had. If you are the submissive husband hoping your wife will be interested in femdom dynamics, the most important shift you can make is this: [...]

My Facebook page is continually subject to imposed sanctions. The current one is as set out below.. If anyone knows all about Facebook pages, what does it mean that my page does not get recommended? And: What have I done, exactly, to cause this? Thank you in advance for helping.

. You have had him dressed for over an hour. He has been pleading and pleading, he has been begging for a postponement, it has been so enjoyable rejecting all the begging and pleading while describing how your new friends, a lesbian married couple, are true man-haters and they are so looking forward to making him wish he had never been born a male. He has been physically trembling for the last ten minutes, and now, with ten minutes to go, the involuntary dropping-to-kneeling begins, and the tears flow. The intensity is thrilling, the power-rush is off-the-scale! You remind him that they can’t wait to cane a man, having never done so before, but having always wanted to. You also remind him you [...]

It is quite fascinating to observe the two quite distinct types of AI FLR art. The art from those uxos who have experienced real life domination, and the art from those uxos who it seems, have not. There seem to be two elements of ignorance in those who have not experienced, (1) the ease with which a woman can have total power over an uxo, and (2) how rather mundane activities can totally meet their uxo need for true misery. So, from the ignorant we have scenarios of a world dominated by women, or men in prisons with sadistic women-only guards using hugely complicated and expensive bondage paraphernalia and equipment, or commercial riding stables with lots of beautiful cruel women riders and male [...]

I will start by mentioning that, for those lucky readers who live where it is hot enough to be outdoors for much or all of the year, I am quite jealous; when I think of the fun I have when outdoors is warm enough to relax and sit. (Although I would very much miss the differences each season offers in places like the UK). But this post is about what can bring enjoyment on lovely summer days in places with weather like the UK; enjoyment for the Domme, but misery for the uxo I’m afraid. (But that misery they need, to feel they are helplessly in the power of a dominant woman with a mean streak. The feeling all uxos need in order [...]