Her Delicate Touch

Here’s something sweet to start the week. This image is from the SF based pro-domme Mistress Wild Iris, via this tweet. Ironically, I find one of the things that makes a great pro-domme isn’t their ability to crack a single tail, or rig a fiendishly complex bondage scene, it’s the delicate touches they bring to their [...]

By |2019-03-25T04:41:25-07:00March 25th, 2019|Categories: Female Led Marriage|Tags: |0 Comments

Pride in her Work

I normally don’t post images that feature the cliche of the domme staring into the camera while also engaging in a scene. I understand the idea – allowing the viewer to feel engaged with the domme while also enjoying the activity – but the images always feel very fake and disconnected to me. They emphasize [...]

By |2019-03-23T00:13:23-07:00March 23rd, 2019|Categories: Female Led Marriage|Tags: |0 Comments


Writing yesterday’s post about bucket lists reminded me of another type of list – the BDSM checklist. If you’re not familiar with the concept it’s basically a quick and easy way to build a list of activities that you’re interested in exploring or absolutely want to avoid. Typically they’re used as an aid to negotiating [...]

By |2019-03-21T02:19:09-07:00March 21st, 2019|Categories: Female Led Marriage|Tags: |0 Comments

Bucket Lists

I’m not sure if I should be entertained or depressed by this article on ‘Sexual Bucket Lists’. On the one hand, it makes me feel like a crazed hedonist pushing the boundaries of sexual depravity. Which, given that I’m perceived by my friends as a quiet introvert who doesn’t date much, makes me smile. On [...]

By |2019-03-20T02:09:47-07:00March 20th, 2019|Categories: Female Led Marriage|Tags: |0 Comments

It’s all in the Mind

The NYT has a short but informative article  on the complex relationship between brain and body when it comes to pain. It’s tempting to think of the body as the source of all physical pain and the brain simply reporting on the signals it receives but, as the article explains, it’s a lot more complicated [...]

By |2019-03-19T03:40:22-07:00March 19th, 2019|Categories: Female Led Marriage|Tags: |0 Comments

Enjoy the Glove

I think this is one of those images that’s both not pornographic and yet incredibly sexual all at the same time. There’s just a pair of gloves, a glimpse of a shoulder and a sleeved arm, yet it conjures in the imagination all manner deliciously dirty invasive medical fantasies. I can almost hear the snap [...]

By |2019-03-18T04:35:43-07:00March 18th, 2019|Categories: Female Led Marriage|Tags: |0 Comments

John Willie

In writing yesterday’s post I stumbled across this page, featuring a series of photographs by John Willie. I primarily knew about Willie as an artist via his famous Sweet Gwendoline series. I hadn’t realized quite what a talented and prolific photographer he’d been. The photographs featured have a surprisingly modern feel to their kinky dynamic. [...]

By |2019-03-15T03:44:46-07:00March 15th, 2019|Categories: Female Led Marriage|Tags: |0 Comments

Ostra Studios

Fans of vintage erotica might want to check out the Ostra Studio site. It features the work of Jacques and Charles Biederer, two brothers from Czechoslovakia, who produced a large number of erotic and fetish photographs in Paris in the 1930’s. There’s a tendency to think of fetish art and photography beginning in the 1950’s with the likes [...]

By |2019-03-14T00:46:28-07:00March 14th, 2019|Categories: Female Led Marriage|Tags: |0 Comments