Introducing Spanking to Your Husband: A Guide to Loving Discipline and Deeper Connection

In the dance of marriage, roles can sometimes blur, leaving one partner—often the woman—feeling unheard, unappreciated, or overburdened. If you're ready to reclaim your authority with grace and intention, introducing spanking to your husband can be a transformative step. It's not about anger or retribution; it's about structure, fun, intimacy, and accountability. This practice, rooted in loving dominance, can reignite passion, foster vulnerability, and ensure your needs are met with devotion. But how do you begin? The key is communication—clear, calm, and confident. Start by sitting your husband down in a quiet, private moment, perhaps over a shared glass of wine or during a relaxed evening at home. Look him in the eyes and speak from the heart. Explain that this isn't [...]

Sliding Doors

I have lived in different areas of the same city for most of my adult life. As a child, I visited this same city several times a year. Sometimes I drive through areas of the city I haven’t been in for a long time, remembering things from my teenage and early twenties years. This morning as I drove Mr Jones to a hospital appointment (the joys of aging!) I found myself stopped at a set of traffic lights and remembering something that happened many years ago at the same set of traffic lights. In my twenties, I was driving from my workplace in a rural town just outside the city to my boyfriend’s house in the inner suburbs. A car with two young [...]

By |2025-11-07T07:41:25-08:00November 7th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training, Mrs Jones|0 Comments

You can’t have cake and eat it too

Photo by ERIC MUFASA on Pexels.com In the swinger lifestyle, consent is a cornerstone. Everyone has a right to say no. No explanations, no justification, no negotiation.   Every time.  Right?  Except of course, when they don’t.   I bet as you are reading this you are thinking of a million scenarios when a man didn’t listen to a woman’s refusal. When he nagged her, or gaslighted her, or got her drunk so she was more compliant. We have all seen this happen. We have all read the countless social media posts, articles and blog pages about men who do this.   But what happens when a woman doesn’t respect a boundary or accept a refusal for sexual contact?   “That would never [...]

By |2025-11-05T07:40:51-08:00November 5th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training, Mrs Jones|0 Comments

Fifty Filthy Questions – 26 – 31

As I said in the last Filthy Questions post I have combined so many of the original questions I am not sure that I will reach fifty. However, I have not finished yet, so six more for your voyeuristic pleasure. 26. Have you ever watched another couple get it on without them knowing? In the vanilla world, I cannot remember doing this. Although as I typed, I kind of remembered that maybe once in a park somewhere, I did see people having sex. It wasn’t anything spectacular though, so it doesn’t rate a mention. There was this one time at Pineapple Camping that we were camped next to a group of friends. Our camping set up is a roof top tent which [...]

By |2025-11-04T08:04:16-08:00November 4th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training, Mrs Jones|0 Comments

Fifty Filthy Questions; 32 – 35

Welcome to another edition of Filthy Questions. If you are interested you can find my source of inspiration at the blog of Alex McDonald. 32. Have you ever propositioned a total stranger? This is an interesting idea. I have had sex with people whose names I never found out. I have had sex with people I just met before we exchanged details. Is this having sex with a stranger? Technically yes but I guess it feels a bit like a cop out. We both went to a place where this was normal behaviour. We both knew that was what we were there for. It is a bit of a swinger fantasy to go to a regular vanilla bar and pick up someone. [...]

By |2025-11-04T07:35:59-08:00November 4th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training, Mrs Jones|0 Comments

Five More Filthy Questions

36. Have you ever had a naughty dream about a close friend or family member? Typically, I don’t remember my dreams, so I can’t answer this question properly. Also bear in mine that a lot of my close friends are the spicy kind and so having naughty dreams about them is actually a good thing. The only time I can remember having naughty dreams about people who aren’t in my spicy world is dreaming about some work colleagues. I can’t remember the details and the person in the dream was not someone I would have considered fucking. I guess the subconscious mind is a weird and twisted place. 37. Have you ever woken up humping your pillow? I sleep hugging a pillow. [...]

By |2025-11-04T07:35:21-08:00November 4th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training, Mrs Jones|0 Comments

Maiden Voyage

About fifteen months ago, Mr Jones and I said goodbye to the yacht we voyaged on in 2021. It was a shitty situation that was the result of some poor choices and some unchecked male egos. Since then, we have discussed and thought about a lot of things. We have purchased a caravan and done some land travel, which is another passion of ours. Early in our recent trip to Western Queensland, a yacht broker contacted us about a yacht that had recently come on the market. She ticked most of the boxes we had identified. In short, we are now the owners of a Leopard 39 catamaran. Over the last few days, we have been getting to know her. We have [...]

By |2025-11-04T07:12:22-08:00November 4th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Fantasy vs Reality

Photo by Anna Shvets on Pexels.com Swinging is about many things. One thing that is at the forefront of many people’s minds when they enter the lifestyle is living out fantasies. Especially those that fall into the kinky realm. Group sex, a plethora of different scenarios. When we were at the start of this journey, we found that the more we explored, the wilder our fantasies became. One thing we also learned is that playing out a fantasy in real life can be intensely exciting and rewarding. However, when other people are involved, it becomes difficult to keep the scene on track. How things play out in your mind does not always translate when you explain it to others. Sometimes their fantasies [...]

By |2025-11-04T07:08:58-08:00November 4th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Sunday Selfie

I never really considered myself an erotic photographer. Or an OF content creator. When I started writing on these pages, my thinking was that they were for words. I admired the people who contributed to Sinful Sunday because their creativity seemed well out of my reach. But over time I became a contributor and even had my images highlighted several times. I was sad when Sinful Sunday ended and frustrated for the reasons behind its demise. You can visit the Sinful Sunday page, in particular here for more information. Since the end of Sinful Sunday, I had continued to post some Travelling Boob and other images with the encouragement of a particular follower. The majority of images that I post are selfies [...]

By |2025-11-04T07:10:11-08:00November 4th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Caning Your Submissive for Correction in Femdom: A Detailed Guide

Caning Your Submissive for Correction in Femdom: An Expanded Guide with Examples of Caning Your Submissive Disclaimer: This guide is for consenting adults only. Caning is a high-intensity impact play tool. Always prioritize safety, consent, and aftercare. Never strike the spine, kidneys, tailbone, neck, or joints. Use safewords/signals and maintain first-aid access. Introduction Caning your submissive is a powerful, precise, and symbolic form of correction in femdom dynamics. The sharp sting of a cane delivers clear feedback to a submissive, reinforcing rules, boundaries, and protocols. When done responsibly, caning your submissive strengthens trust and obedience while providing both a physical and psychological reminder of expectations. Why Use Caning Clarity of Correction: The impact is unmistakable, leaving no doubt about disobedience. Psychological Conditioning: Anticipation [...]

By |2025-11-09T10:18:23-08:00October 3rd, 2025|Categories: BDSM, Bondage, Cane, Discipline, Femdom How to articles, How To For Women, Obedience, Spanking|1 Comment