Take your “women have it easier” and fuck off

You know what’s funny? I just wrote half a blog post and realized I’ve actually already written another version of it when I went looking for a link. The first version of this post is “Women can get laid any time they want” and the quote I was looking for was: Virtually all heterosexual men are [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:11:54+00:00 April 30th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

What do you bring to the table?

I’ve been thinking about the advice to talk about what you bring to the table in a relationship in your profile and there seems to be a lot of confusion about what that actually means. It does not mean that you have to, say, learn how to repair stuff around the house or give manicures or clean gutters or [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:11:55+00:00 April 24th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

Dating profile tips for dominant women

Another one from the search terms, thank you random person for giving me an interesting post topic to run with Most of my profile advice is aimed at men because frankly they can be pretty fucking terrible about thinking with their dicks instead of even vaguely considering what a dominant woman might want to know [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:11:58+00:00 April 9th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

Happiness is for sale

You know what irritates the shit out of me? Okay, okay, you know one of the thousands of things that irritates the shit out of me? When douchebags tell people “money can’t buy happiness!” Just to get it out of the way, money can’t buy things like friendship or a sense of accomplishment, there is certainly [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:11:59+00:00 April 2nd, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

What’s so bad about verbal consent?

Some time ago JeffMach posted an excellent writing on Fetlife tearing down the moronic idea that explicit verbal consent isn’t sexy. It’s not terribly long and you should go read it. My favourite part is the last paragraph: If you, as a dominant, can’t make informed consent sexy, that’s not because informed consent can’t be sexy, [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:12:02+00:00 March 26th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

Fantasies and terrible surprises

Another rant about people who can’t tell the difference between fantasy and reality! This one is inspired by a pretty old Ask Dr. Nerdlove post (I started drafting this post ages ago and forgot about it, good job me!) about some poor bastard who is infatuated with a camgirl. Dr Nerdlove’s answer, not terribly surprisingly, [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:12:07+00:00 March 19th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

Stabbity’s pet peeves part AFGERSDF

One of my many, many pet peeves in written profiles is the mating call of lazy little brats everywhere: “if you want to know anything about me, just ask.” What that actually means is “I’m too fucking lazy to write a profile so I’m going to ask you do to all the work based on [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:12:10+00:00 March 12th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments