How do you meet people without going to a munch?

I recently read the most amazing trainwreck of a rant about how people who want to meet people in person at a munch are the absolute worst and are actively screwing over people who don’t want to go to munches, and it made me think, is there actually any advice out there about meeting other [...]

By | 2017-05-28T23:12:00+00:00 May 28th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

Yes, you are kinky enough

It makes me sad to see people online wondering if they’re a good enough dom/sub/top/bottom/etc because they don’t want to perv as hard as they can as often as they can. It’s not that there’s anything wrong with going hard, it’s just not the only choice. Not all doms want to micromanage their subs. Not all [...]

By | 2017-05-28T23:12:07+00:00 May 21st, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

What I’m playing lately

Who doesn’t like talking about videogames? Lately I’ve been playing Rusty Lake’s Cube Escape series, which is a bunch of point and click room escape games you can play right in your browser, assuming you have flash enabled, or on iOS or Android if you’d rather play on your phone or tablet. They’re kind of weird [...]

By | 2017-05-28T23:12:12+00:00 May 7th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

Take your “women have it easier” and fuck off

You know what’s funny? I just wrote half a blog post and realized I’ve actually already written another version of it when I went looking for a link. The first version of this post is “Women can get laid any time they want” and the quote I was looking for was: Virtually all heterosexual men are [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:11:54+00:00 April 30th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

What do you bring to the table?

I’ve been thinking about the advice to talk about what you bring to the table in a relationship in your profile and there seems to be a lot of confusion about what that actually means. It does not mean that you have to, say, learn how to repair stuff around the house or give manicures or clean gutters or [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:11:55+00:00 April 24th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

Dating profile tips for dominant women

Another one from the search terms, thank you random person for giving me an interesting post topic to run with Most of my profile advice is aimed at men because frankly they can be pretty fucking terrible about thinking with their dicks instead of even vaguely considering what a dominant woman might want to know [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:11:58+00:00 April 9th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

Happiness is for sale

You know what irritates the shit out of me? Okay, okay, you know one of the thousands of things that irritates the shit out of me? When douchebags tell people “money can’t buy happiness!” Just to get it out of the way, money can’t buy things like friendship or a sense of accomplishment, there is certainly [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:11:59+00:00 April 2nd, 2017|For Women|0 Comments

What’s so bad about verbal consent?

Some time ago JeffMach posted an excellent writing on Fetlife tearing down the moronic idea that explicit verbal consent isn’t sexy. It’s not terribly long and you should go read it. My favourite part is the last paragraph: If you, as a dominant, can’t make informed consent sexy, that’s not because informed consent can’t be sexy, [...]

By | 2017-05-07T15:12:02+00:00 March 26th, 2017|For Women|0 Comments