When it comes to sex, there are so many ways to experience pleasure and reach orgasm. For some couples, traditional penis-in-vagina intercourse is the go-to for achieving the Big O, but for others, it’s not always the case. Pegging is an increasingly popular sexual activity that allows a woman to use a strap-on dildo to penetrate her partner’s anus, providing a different kind of pleasure and even the possibility of orgasm without penis stimulation.

What is Pegging?

Pegging is a sex act in which a woman penetrates her partner’s anus with a strap-on dildo. It is a popular activity among lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender couples, as well as heterosexual couples who are looking to spice up their sex life.

Pegging can be a pleasurable experience for both partners in a number of ways. For women, it can be a way to explore new sensations and a different way of giving pleasure to her partner. For men, it can provide new kinds of stimulation and even lead to orgasm without penis stimulation.

Preparing for Pegging

Before engaging in the activity of pegging, it’s important to make sure both partners are comfortable and prepared. Cleanliness is key and it is recommended that both partners bathe before engaging in any kind of anal play. It is also important to use a condom on the dildo and to use lots of lube.

It is also important to start slow and work your way up. Start with external stimulation, such as touching and licking, before inserting anything. Once both partners feel comfortable, then you can start to insert the dildo, but be sure to use plenty of lube and take it slow.

How to Peg

Once both partners are comfortable and the dildo is inserted, the woman can start to move in ways that provide pleasure to her partner. She can start slowly and increase the speed and intensity as her partner’s pleasure increases. She should also pay attention to her partner’s reactions so she can make adjustments as needed.

It is possible to reach orgasm without penis stimulation through pegging. It is important to remember that everyone’s body is different and it may take some trial and error to find the right position and stimulation that works for both partners.

In a female dominant relationship that exercises male chastity, it might even be easier.

This is where orgasm denial plays in.

The male refractory period is the amount of time it takes for a man to become aroused and ready for another orgasm after they have just experienced one. It is typically longer than the female refractory period and can vary greatly from person to person. Taking longer breaks in between male orgasms can provide several benefits. For example, it can help to prevent over-stimulation and allow the body to recharge. It can also help to prolong sexual pleasure, as the longer breaks can make the next orgasm even more intense. Additionally, taking breaks can help to prevent premature ejaculation, as the body has time to become aroused again before the next orgasm.

This is why I recommend to peg your submissive 3-4 times per week, and do not allow him to cum at all, until it happens without any intervention with your hands or stimulation to his cock.  The purpose of pegging 3-4 times per week, is 1 to condition him to like it more and more, and also to milk the prostate without giving him pleasure.   The orgasm denial will ultimately lead to him having an orgasm while being fucked in the ass.

There are 2 positions I can make Paul cum while being pegged without stimulation.  One is him flat on his back with his legs on my shoulders on the edge of the bed.  Once in a while, I can squeeze his cock and let it go, just to get it wanting it so badly.  A lot of this is psychological for him to cum without stimulation.

Another position is bent over the bed with his cock pressed against the bed.  In this position I make him back onto me and fuck me while I stand there.  The pressure of his cock against the bed and not against the bed, provides some stimulation.

Through practice I have made it so this is the only way Paul orgasms.  But I peg him 3-4 times per week, and maximum let him cum twice per month.  Anymore then that, and his male ego dominant side starts creeping in again.

For me, I get him to go down on me at will, OR, I get him to wear a strap on while his cock is locked up in chastity adding to his orgasm denial and making him relentlessly horny for pegging as I have conditioned his pleasure around that.  This is what I call a perfect female dom relationship with her male sub.   For some you can can take it farther.

I would only advise that if both of you are into it though.

Conclusion

Pegging is a pleasurable activity that can provide both partners with new and exciting sensations. It is possible to reach orgasm without penis stimulation through pegging, but it may take some time and experimentation to find the right position and stimulation that works for both partners. With proper preparation and communication, pegging can be a fun and intimate experience.

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