Zero vanilla time = extreme lifestyle?

I cover this topic in my BDSM Manual but I thought I would post about it firstly, because the greater number of lifestyle couples I learn about, the more interested in the topic I become, and secondly…………. you will read later on in the post. When a couple are in a Femdom relationship, it seems to me that the most [...]

Those Innate Drives- Good and Bad

So humans are born with powerful drives already installed. For males that drive to make offspring has handily morphed into the more simple drive to orgasm, (without another human present if that is the only option when the drive kicks in). Two or three times a day if many of them could. So control those [...]

#EuphOff2018: The Semi-Moist Treat Stick Edition

In which I enter a bad sex competition. Wish me luck as I try to pack the most cringes into a sub 500 word story, in my chosen genre. Worst Intentional Femdom Story of 2018! She was not like other dommes. Of course she charged hundreds of dollars to provide intimate and erotic control, [...]

Times have changed.

Obviously not in every country in the world have times changed, and some countries are going backwards in freeing women from oppression, (Turkey being the worst regressing country at the moment). But overall in the civilised world, women’s oppression is being eradicated and the images in this link are fascinating and amusing, (one example [...]

Huge Ribbon Bows

Before addressing huge ribbon bows, regular readers of my blog will know that when forcing a sub into sissy attire or parody of a little girl attire, (or parody of a schoolgirl attire),  I favour a little dress that comes down only to the hips. Huge humiliation is inflicted from the front if the shaved genitals [...]

Want what they can’t have

Its human nature for many to want most what they can’t have and this can be used to manipulate many submissives. If your sub, does not show a clear indication of the privilege they enjoy from licking your pussy, try telling them they are banned for a couple of weeks; perhaps a month. Don’t let them get [...]

February Petticoat Discipline

The Petticoat Discipline site of readers letters has, over the years, given me many, many delicious forced petticoating, extreme humiliation ideas for using on helpless grown males who HATE every second of their petticoating. I thought I should broadcast that the February edition had some letters of high quality which is very pleasing.         [...]

Stinging Nettles Arrive!

Only mid February and the stinging nettle shoots are up. Delightful. They may be only the length of a finger, if that, but if you are a follower of my blog you will know that the early nettles, before they have flowered, sting the most and the stings last for ages! And the leaves [...]

Popular Tumblr site

Well my Tumblr site now has over 15,000 followers. What I like most about the continued growth of follower numbers is that those themes I like have a popularity possibly larger than just niche. It is a constant unanswered question though. What percentage of the population of the civilised world are aroused, (if just [...]

Fantasies On The Weekend

I wonder about how he’d look helpless. We haven’t had that opportunity to restrain him completely, although I know he’s game (no leashes though, no! Noooo! It’s kinda cute how resistive he is, even if I’m going to respect that hard limit). Coy man will hide what he wants behind what I want, but [...]