Originally posted on The Disciplinary Wives Club: Hello Aunt Kay, I wish to share the transformation in my marriage with my lovely young wife ever since she showed me the DWC website four months back. I would like to inform the readers that both me and my wife are from northern India and are settled in California. We have been married for three years now and I have very much been the person who has been dominant in our marriage. My wife is a shy housewife who enjoys having fun but till recently, in traditional ways. One evening, she made me read some of the DWC stories aloud and giggled and teased me saying that she was thinking of using DWC techniques on [...]

Welcome to Better Spouses! By Vivian This site is intended primarily for the woman who wants to improve her marriage. The information and techniques described within are tried and tested and will accomplish the following results. Improve your husband’s attitiude toward his marriage. Assure that your husband enjoys remaining faithful to you. Make your husband more cheerlful, less cranky, and much easier to live with. Assure that your husband does his share of work around the house. Increase the intimacy and communication in your marriage. Energize your sex life –making it more satisfying for you and your husband. Increase the happiness, satisfaction and security you feel in your marriage. Make your husband more romantic and attentive to you. It is unbelievably simple to [...]

TOWARD A FANTASTIC MARRIAGE: How and why Domestic Discipline works. An essay by Vivian (part 1). Do you remember how your husband treated you when you were first dating? Was he more thoughtful then? Did he look forward to being with you? Didn’t he try to please and impress you? If you’ve been married for any length of time you’ll probably find that the man you married is a bit (or a lot) differnent from the man you’re married to. Lets talk about the reasons for that difference. When your husband first became interested in you, he was unsure of the extent to which you were interested in him. He wanted you and he wanted you to want him. He looked to signals [...]

TOWARD A FANTASTIC MARRIAGE: How and why Domestic Discipline works. An essay by Vivian (part 4). Why this works There are few levels to this question. One is why would he submit to me, follow my directions, do as I tell him, accept harsh discipline from me? Another facet of this question is why is it effective at changing behaviors he hasn’t changed in years? The third way this question may be interpreted is why does discipline and restriction (forced chastity) make him behave generally better and more lovingly toward me? Let’s examine each of these layers separately. 1. Why would he cooperate with this? This is pretty simple. Most men will cooperate with domestic discipline because it is a game. It’s only [...]

TOWARD A FANTASTIC MARRIAGE: How and why Domestic Discipline works. An essay by Vivian (part 6). The gift of hope Many of the concerns I have heard from women for the past two years as I have been promoting Domestic Discipine is that its techniques may be demeaning to him, hurt his self-esteem, cause him to be resentful of me, encourage immaturity in him, etc…. On the face of it, it seems a difficult argument to make that punishing, humiliating, and controlling a man’s genital functioning will result in greater self-esteem and psychological health, but it is true. A good place to begin is with an understanding of consensual Dominnant/submissive sexual relationships (AKA D/s). As I’ve said, Domestic Discipipline is not S&M, but [...]