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There has certainly been a lot of interest and chatter on the topic of cuckolding among the readers of this blog. If you’ve not read the comments in the last post on cuckolding, please do. The discussion has been enlightening. I’m delighted to share another real world experience of cuckolding from Debbie. Debbie is a regular reader of the blog and has submitted a few guests posts in the past. After reading through the comments on cuckolding, she was kind enough to share how cuckolding works in her marriage. Thanks so much Debbie! Here is her post:

I came across Mary’s comments concerning cuckolding and felt it was a good opportunity to share some of my experiences with cuckolding David. David loves the submissive lifestyle and the F/m rythms of our daily lives.

Why Cuckolding? In short, David is inadequate in the bedroom, little blue pills not withstanding. He’s fantastic at oral sex but I need a man inside of me to be fully satisfied – David wasn’t meeting my needs – and he knew it – so I looked outside. Honestly though, I’d cuckold him even if he was more sexually capable, I love the excitement of another man. I traveled a lot on business – so did David – and this gave me opportunities for sex – lots of it. On more than one occasion David called my hotel room only to have a guy answer. David would get excited by such encounters. No, initially, I didn’t tell David but, as I said, he knew. And, our prenuptial agreement, set the stage for cuckolding since it said I could have ‘friends’ and this meant BOY friends as far as I was concerned! Additionally, there was some precedent in my family since mom had boyfriends and was pretty open about it.

Cuckolding was a thing with us going back to David and I having nights out together.Getting ready for an evening out was a big deal. He loved suggesting an outfit, usually something like a club dress with a plunging neckline and high hem line. Guys would hit o on me and David was such a sweetheart about it. A guy would come up to me at the bar and David would excuse himself leaving me alone with the guy to talk and dance. David would sit across the bar and enjoy watching me have fun. I don’t know if he ever felt humiliated; he never said so. He seemed to enjoy the attention I was receiving.

Nevertheless, I wanted to come out with my dating but wasn’t sure how he’d react. I was tired of having guys on the road or when David was out of town. One day when David was at my mother’s cleaning the house she casually mentioned that her married daughter had a boyfriend who she was seeing regularly. David’s only response was an excited, “Oh, that’s nice!”. It set the stage for my being open about boyfriends.

He’d done some shopping, buying a new club dress, a pair of heels, and some expensive perfume. David helped me dress, fit-to-kill, right down to spraying some of the expensive perfume he’d bought on my panties. When Rob arrived I sent David to his room. He was as excited as I was, but he had concerns. He didn’t want to meet Rob and I assured him he wouldn’t have to; like Mary I totally separate David and my boyfriends. I told him it was “only a date” and added that this wasn’t much different from our going clubbing. I told him Rob and I were going to dinner and then to his’s place. The date was fantastic; Rob was tremendous in bed. When Rob dropped me off at 2:00 AM David was there to greet me with a mixed drink. As excited as ever David wanted to know about my date but I told him it was “my little secret”. I never give David any details about my dates He told me he only wanted me to be happy and I assured him I was but that he could make me happier. I pulled up my dress, took off my panties, and sat on the couch. David knew what to do and he knelt between my legs and did a fantastic job eating my pussy. WOW! If that’s not worshiping a woman I don’t know what is.

What have I learned? Well, a lot:

Cuckolding is a thing to both of us; he accepts it to the point where he is open about it within our circle of friends
David is concerned about our marriage and his submissive lifestyle. He doesn’t want this to change and neither do I. I don’t want to lose my housekeeper!
David has accepted that he comes up short in bed and that I need other men to fill the void.
Getting ready is a big deal and David loves preparing me for a date. He’s really into it picking everything right down to the shade of my pantyhose. If I tell David I’m going to dinner with ‘a friend’ he’ll pack clothes for me for the evening as well as for the next business day.

Rob and I are a number, regularly dating and going to dinner and the clubs. We’ve even vacationed together, going to Vegas and on a cruise together. Rob and I have an open relationship and agreed we can each see other. It’s good since I love the excitement of a new man now and again. And David? He’s totally accepting of my dating regarding it as the ultimate submission. That’s nice since I do too. He’s rather proud of my being attractive to other men.

More later,

Debbie

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