I told my wife that she deserved to be my Queen and that I was prepared to make that happen about 3 weeks ago. She is not into all the kink. But in 3 weeks, we have lists of chores for me,  I lotion and rub her feet in bed (and kiss each one when I done).  Today I am ordering a chastity cage for myself.  I fairly sure she is going to order that I go on a diet/exercise program soon.  I am hoping that as she sees progress in asking me to do things , she will start ordering me more and more.