Thoughts on Chastity

It has been awhile since I have spent this many days locked in MrsL’s Steelheart.  Couple that with the fact that I was at home by myself for half of this period, I have had a lot of time to ponder a few things; specifically, some questions I have received via this blog, FetLife, and Twitter. There are; inevitably, two major themes drive most of the questions/comments.  First: you are not really living a chastity lifestyle because you are not locked.  Second: my masturbation doesn’t take a toll on my sex life. Let’s start with the obvious:  I’ve been told by several men and women alike that I can’t say I am chaste unless I am in some type of chastity device.  Let’s [...]

By |2019-12-11T10:09:53-08:00December 11th, 2019|Categories: Chastity|Tags: |0 Comments

The Streak Ended

Our weekend was awesome. MrsL got home later than she expected Friday.  There was a minor issue with her Dad Friday morning…a cap on his front tooth came off over night and after trying to buy some dental repair stuff at CVS she decided to call his dentist office.  His dentist didn’t call back until 11 a.m.  When her Dad found out his dentist wasn’t going to come by until Sunday, since he was out of town, he shooed her out the door. Oh, I promised a summary of why she was back in Tennessee…so here is the Reader’s Digest version: her Dad is an 83 y/o man’s man, hip surgery 10/29, recovering nicely, 3 weeks post surgery went to Y, 10 minutes [...]

By |2019-12-09T09:44:55-08:00December 9th, 2019|Categories: Chastity|Tags: |0 Comments

FEMDOM SESSION: 7th December 2019

Before I start this post, I'd just like to say it's good to see that Good Hubby is posting again, head over to his blog if you have a penchant for hardcore ball abuse, humbling, mallets and needle play... definitely not something I would indulge in, but interesting all the same!So our last session was on the 29th of September, not sure what happened in October and November but we're here now and that's the main thing. Even more disturbing is that that post is still on the front page of my blog... indeed I have only posted four times since then and one of those was that fucking weird Dir En Grey video!Hmm... it's a wonder I still have any readers left [...]

By |2019-12-08T07:34:00-08:00December 8th, 2019|Categories: Chastity|Tags: |0 Comments

This!

I try hard to create my own content and put my own thoughts here on this blog. Sometimes, someone you have followed and use as a role model in your chastity journey writes something that speaks volumes. When I first started down this path four years ago , one of the first blogs I found was Denying Thumper. I read his blog from the first article to most current at the time. Many of his post spoke to me then and his post from yesterday spoke volumes. The irony of reading his post this morning came as I was replaying the beautiful sensual sex MrsL and I had last night when she got home. I will save that for a different post. If [...]

By |2019-12-07T03:47:08-08:00December 7th, 2019|Categories: Chastity|Tags: |0 Comments

The New Play Space, Finale

Erotic fiction.  Enjoy. Becca kicked off her high heels then began to settle into the oversized bean bag.  It seemed to wrap itself around her as she wriggled into a comfortable position.  She reached over to a small table she had pulled beside the bean bag to pick up jar of coconut oil.  She had found that coconut oil was by far the best lubricant for her toys plus she knew Adam loved the taste of it mingled with her own sexual juices. She giggled knowing Adam might not get that chance tonight…or he might.  She hadn’t really decided. She dug her fingers into the jar and locked eyes with Adam. Adam was struggling with the maintaining the proper balance. He knew it [...]

By |2019-12-06T07:36:54-08:00December 6th, 2019|Categories: Chastity|Tags: |0 Comments

Something New & Exciting

MrsL and I use Snapchat for fun sexy texting. I think they call that sexting? Well, tonight we used it for something a bit more interesting! We were actually talking on the phone when I mentioned I was heading up to go through my nightly cleaning routine for the Steelheart. She asked me the craziest question: “Can’t we video chat on Snapchat?” When I said yes she told me to video call her when I got upstairs because she wanted to supervise me. So, we had our first video snapchat call while I cleaned the Steelheart. The really awesome part…she was sitting watching her Mom decorate her Christmas tree with the volume down on the call…just watching! A couple of times she laid [...]

By |2019-12-05T12:23:13-08:00December 5th, 2019|Categories: Chastity|Tags: |0 Comments

Feeling Great in Her Steelheart (NSFW)

This week has been amazing. MrsL locked me in her Steelheart before leaving for the week to go see her Dad, who had a major health scare and needed surgery…more on that later. She has been sending random Snapchat messages and photos driving me crazy with desire or instructing me to do certain things, i.e. keeping the house warn enough so I have nothing on but her Steelheart and socks or nipple clamps while on a 1 hour long conference call yesterday. Then, when we Facetime to say goodnight she insist on seeing her Steelheart and the sealed envelope before ending the call. I am not sure if it is the fact that I don’t have access to a key (well I do [...]

By |2019-12-04T23:07:45-08:00December 4th, 2019|Categories: Chastity|Tags: |0 Comments

Being Generous

MrsL has continued her generous streak. Yesterday morning, I let her sleep but placed a note and her cellphone by the bed (she keeps her phone downstairs). The note simply stated to let me know if she wanted anything when she woke up.  It had been a long week visiting 29 and fiancee, 24, and her grandparents, so I wanted to let her sleep.  I got a text at 10:45 a.m.: “I need to be shaved.” I grabbed the trimmer then headed upstairs.  I stopped outside the door and stripped out of my clothes then entered the room. When I walked up there, MrsL was laying o a towel on  the bed legs spread.  After admonishing me for letting her sleep too long, [...]

By |2019-12-02T08:50:07-08:00December 2nd, 2019|Categories: Chastity|Tags: |0 Comments

The New Play Space, part 2

Enjoy part 2 of this erotic fiction Becca generously lubed the ball of the ass hook before walking behind him and inserting it in Adam’s ass.  She placed the ball against his ass then gently pulled up enough for it to pop inside.  Adam let out a cute grunt when it landed in place causing her to giggle.  As she began pulling up Adam’s head tried to turn.  She pulled up on the rope enough to get Adam up on his toes then leaned in to whisper in his ear. “Don’t try to turn around…just relax and enjoy being my sex toy for the evening.” She then eased up on the rope letting him be almost flat footed on the floor once again. [...]

By |2019-12-02T07:35:41-08:00December 2nd, 2019|Categories: Chastity|Tags: |0 Comments