More email…..

It always makes me chuckle when my email content numbers take a jump after I blog about an email I received.
Pardon me as I drop some one-hit wonders here as I excerpt some emails that I got in the last 16 hours or so.
(Poking fun at myself there and the answers to follow…not my readers nor the ones who do take the time to email me.)

Q) Your blog is an adult blog so why don’t you have links to other adult sites on your blog?

A) I’m going to guess you are asking why I don’t have links to other sites that have erotica or porn?
Some of the blogs in my blog roll do have erotica in them…..so check them out.
A better answer for this query:
My blog is geared toward readers who are looking for answers in a world gone off the rails because of a partner’s kink nature, not people surfing for adult (porn/erotic) subject matter.
I’m not here to promote any part of the kink world…in fact I’m not really here to promote any part of the adult world.

My topic is adult in nature…….but it doesn’t have a huge audience and I am okay with that. I started the blog for women like me…who aren’t BDSM kinky…but are trying to survive and thrive in… the kinky nature of men like my husband.

I address/talk to the men who read the blog…..but I am talking to them as a wife who has had to deal with a man like him. I hope they are reading my words and thinking
“OH holy cow….am I doing this to my wife/girlfriend? Am I getting this all wrong and hurting her in process? Am I being fair to her and her needs and wants?” I want them to walk away rethinking what kind of impact their kinky nature is possibly having on their partner and life with that partner.
I want the women who find me to think:

“OMG…you mean I’m not alone and it isn’t just me who feels like I fell down the rabbit hole and can’t get back out of it? You mean there are other women out there who didn’t just take to all this like a duck to water and there’s really nothing wrong with me because I can’t?”

I am looking to offer women…what I was looking for…..when I hit the net looking for “help me understand” information eons ago.

It was sorely lacking…..I was a lucky one…I found a mentor……not all women get this lucky……so I hope I am spreading the luck around with the blog. I want women to walk away feeling a little more sane and lot less alone…in a scary and confusing world they got pulled into because they love someone who is FemDom style kinky…or for that matter any kind of kinky…but the focus of the blog…is of course…..FemDom.

Q) Why have you stayed married?

A) Because he ass looks really yummy, sweet in cowboy cut Wranglers (makes me wanna bite it!!) . And I am sucker for a soft southern drawl and shy “do me now” blue eyes.
But also…….when his kinks aren’t making him stupid…no one could ask for a better life partner. His isn’t the sum of his kinks….the focus of the blog is about his kinky nature and how it has turned our world upside down…but there is and always has been more to our life together then just his kinky nature. You are seeing a very narrow condensed view of our life. Sort of looking though the keyhole of our home in the Burbs.

Q) Wow, your typing skills suck.

I suggest you do a better job at using spell check and proofreading.

Use a grammar-check software also!

(Okay that’s not a questions…but it had me laughing until I had tears in my eyes…and snorting coffee out my nose. I half wonder if it wasn’t a spammer that danced around the spam filter….. but here goes anyways.)
A) I have a suggestion for you.

If my typing skills…well lack of typing/spelling skills and grammar abilities….. bother you,

You might need to stop reading my blog…..

noOne furced ewe hear….nobudy iz holding u again yuur wil…u mite knead a whydur live.
(Think they just put their fist thru their monitor?????

Buuwwwahahahahahaha)

Q) My wife has been sending me links to your Suburban Domme website.

I would like to be removed from the mailing list.

A) Wow someone who may be even more clueless about the inner workings of the process of email than I am.
(Really….. I am that idiot who gets a group mail and ends up replying “ALL” when it is supposed to only go to A person…not the group.)
You will need to take this up with your wife. If she is following my blog and forwarding the “new blog post” notices to you ——–she—– will have to un-follow my blog. I have no idea if I can remove a follower and even if I could, I wouldn’t. I figure if someone is following me…I’m not being paranoid….and they have a reason for following me.

If she is sending you actual links to my blog in an email from her email to your email…..…again…you will need to take this up with her……because it would seem to me she is trying to tell you something…..but even tho your are getting the mail…you aren’t getting the message.

I have a couple more…but they will need to wait til later…..I am outta witty and pithy…. right now…

Still no word from the one who instigated the flurry of blogging yesterday…tho I did get an email telling me I came down way too hard on him and he probably wouldn’t be back to my blog.

(Was it him?

Maybe?)
All I can say is if he took the time to find my email address on my blog……he had to at least read some of the blog…if he expected kid gloves in this part of the burbs…..I guess he got a rude awakening.

I can’t /won’t apologize for not being able to change my style…to suit his needs.



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