As a woman contemplating this new dynamic in your relationship, you must understand that the single most important component to making this work to your advantage is having your male put in a chastity device. Men will cheat and masturbate behind your back, and the honor system will not work.  If you want to give this lifestyle a try, you need to put him chastity.  Period.  The length of time for you between orgasms for him is entirely up to the two of you.  You will read varying opinions on this subject but the only right answer is what works for you and your partner. Having your male in chastity does not mean no sex in between release dates.  It simply means no [...]