We all know that males overflow with sexual energy. It's like the moment they first discovered sexual pleasure in their adolescence, it ignited an endless volcano of sexual desire. It seems virtually impossible for men to contain it. Erections are rampant, porn addictions are common, crude sexual jokes and comments never get old with men, and men are always looking to get laid or dreaming about it. Their sexual energy is constant and radiates from every inch of their bodies. I usually don't like to generalize about people but in this case I think it's appropriate. Sure, some guys are better at managing it on the surface, but I'm pretty sure what I described above fits 99% of guys to some degree. Guys, [...]

I am impressed with the profiles that have been submitted thus far. It is wonderful to learn background information on each of you and to hear you experiences in your WLM. I believe hearing these things help others validate that they are moving down the right path with WLM and that there are many people who share the same feelings as they do and experience the same challenges in the WLM journey. You can see there are both similarities and differences in how couples approach their WLM. There is a lot of great advice embedded in the profiles. I encourage you all to read through the profiles.I also want to point out that there are comments in the profiles and a few of [...]

I thought I'd share the "method" I use that has worked wonders for increasing my submission: "Accept-Become-Enjoy". It is based on something I saw years ago, "BEST Slave Training", but I removed the "kinky" parts as they don't apply to my Queen.Nothing complicated: "Accept" is about identity, about rebuilding the sub's identity as a sub to deeply accept submission at his core; "Become" is about really becoming useful for Her, excelling in the tasks She expects; "Enjoy" is about enjoying service as the reward, truly NOT waiting for anything else.The key to me is "accept". In my mind, subs that do this for sexual pleasure are still being self-centered & sooner or later that shows. For me this has been the most difficult [...]

I thought I could add and contribute with a post, in part, also regarding some of the previous topics. Some of my expectations and " jobs" on the WLM household come rather naturally. Perhaps this is just my demeanor and personality. Much hasn't changed, in some aspects, after commencing the WLM lifestyle. The communication and expectations of my role is clearer though. I simply like to serve her and she naturally likes to be in charge/ in control. Some main points are:Household- I do the house cleaning. She may do so too at times because she likes it a certain way. I do her laundry, buy groceries and drive her when needed. Her breakfast and coffee made. Those are the main ones, I'm sure [...]

It's been wonderful to see so many comments being posted. I appreciate all the information everyone is sharing in the comments.  Keep it up!  A few "housekeeping" items and reminders for everyone:First, it was brought to my attention that my email address was incorrect on the profile template. I have corrected it. The correct email is mzkaylee101@gmail.com. Thank you Mike for bringing that to my attention. I have published all profiles that I received. If you sent me a profile and do not see it on the blog, please resend it. I apologize for the mistake. If you have not sent me a profile, what are you waiting for - get it done :)  The template with instructions is location on the right [...]

As a follow-up to my post on 'Mindless Slave vs. Productive Slave Companion,' I'd like to share an excerpt from another author's post on female led relationships. I came across this post the other day and thought it was a very fitting example:"...my partner simply started relying on me too much and became too passive. After a while, I was doing everything for him and he acted as if he was deprived of the ability to make adult decisions."The author goes on to say that she ultimately ended the relationship because of her boyfriend's extreme passiveness. This really hits home the point I was making in my previous post, that I want my husband to be a companion and not a mindless slave. [...]

I just wanted to give my thoughts to anyone that’s new to Wife Led Marriages. If this is something you have fantasized about please be warned this may take off and become real. My extremely vanilla wife now rules the household with an iron fist. If you are a husband reading this beware this can become very real, very fast. If you are a wife be sure you will be comfortable seeing your husband in the role as submissive husband. This dynamic will make him soft and demure in your daily lives. For me it works perfectly. I am a natural submissive and my wife always had a bit of a dominate streak, which has expanded greatly as of late. At the start she [...]

For many, if not all submissive men, becoming a mindless slave to a powerful woman is a top fantasy. The mindless slave is treated with no respect and forced to cater to her every whim and even humiliated and punished by her regularly. It is a mind blowing fantasy, isn't it? The key word here is 'fantasy.' I am amazed at how many guys continually try to make this a reality with their wife. Do such relationships even exist? I am sure this type of arrangement exists with a dominatrix or mistress but I don't really count that as a real relationship. Clearly the dominatrix and mistress are appealing to his desires for financial gain and so they are acting solely for their [...]

Below is as guest post from khorina, which describes his wife led marriage.  Thank you khorina for taking the time to write a post.  Enjoy...."Royal" FemdomI want to share my experience in my real-life vanilla-flavored way of living Femdom. I call it Femdom as my wife is the public and private leader, we have rituals, orgasm control & the expectation of my submission. Having said that, the relationship is not based in sex, and I call it "Royal" as she is comfortable with me addressing her as Queen in any private/public/family context.Orgasm control - she decided on a voluntary celibate/abstinence period. We don't know how long it will last, the expectation is (at least) more than a year. We are four months into [...]