In the realm of intimate relationships, power exchange dynamics offer couples a unique way to deepen trust, enhance connection, and explore boundaries. One particularly potent aspect of these dynamics is orgasm control—often referred to as "edging," denial, or chastity play—where one partner surrenders authority over their sexual release to the other. But what happens when this control lacks structure? Without discipline, orgasm control can devolve into frustration or resentment rather than the thrilling journey it's meant to be. In this longform article, we'll delve into why controlling his orgasms is a cornerstone of many dominant/submissive (D/s) relationships, the critical role of discipline in maintaining balance, and how brutal corporal punishment—such as whipping or paddling—can serve as an effective, consensual tool for enforcement. [...]