Spanking, Pegging, and Beyond: Exploring the Kinks of Femdom

Spanking, Pegging, and Beyond: Exploring the Kinks of Femdom The world of femdom is vast and intricate, offering opportunities for exploration and growth for those brave enough to venture into its depths. Among the many kinks under the umbrella of femdom, spanking and pegging stand out as two of the most electrifying and transformative experiences for male submissives. When combined, they create a potent cocktail of psychological, physical, and emotional stimulation that can deeply satisfy both the dominant and the submissive. But what exactly is happening in the submissive’s body and mind during these acts? Let’s dive into the psychological rush and the release of chemicals that make these kinks so powerful. The Psychological Rush of Submission For male submissives, the allure of [...]

Modestly Why – Questions Asked?

Re-published in January 2025, (from my original post in August of 2019), as part of my, then regular, #Wicked Wednesday and #Food4Thought blog-site memes (both sadly now retired). But as I still receive occasional email questions such as “what motivates you to keep blogging”, I thought it relevant to re-post here once again. This week’s theme at Food 4 Thought Friday asks “The Why of Blogging” and in particular, “What is it that compels you to write?” I have posted before . . . in July 2014 actually . . . on how Modesty Ablaze first came about in my “Past, Present and Why I Blog” Wicked Wednesday post. But as to the how’s and why’s of continuing to post??? Well . . [...]

By |2025-01-14T02:19:03-08:00January 14th, 2025|Categories: Dommes|0 Comments

TMI Tuesday – Forbidden Fruit

This set of questions originally appeared on TMI Tuesday on November 12 2013. It has also been answered on the blog of JR Vincente. 1. Did any teachers in your high school have sex with a student? Did any students act out on a teacher crush? There was a rumor of a female staff member who “initiated” several older male students. I have no idea how much fact was the foundation of this rumor. Excited teenagers liked to repeat stories of tight skirts and flirtatious poses, but honestly, I don’t know. The Ex-Policeman however, did have a dalliance with his high school art teacher. She initiated it. He assures me that he would never have even known how to approach a woman like [...]

By |2025-01-13T14:23:49-08:00January 13th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Modesty Ablaze reviews the Double-E Vibrator G Spot @tracydog_Update

It’s been a long, long time since I last posted a Product Review here on my blog pages, especially of Vibrators and Dildos. I’d actually decided that I’d probably found my ideal, preferred and most regular “go-to” favourite toy for whenever I needed a special “me-time” indulgence session. So searching for another option wasn’t a high priority!But late last year I received an email request from a … new-to-me anyway … company whom I’d not heard of before, with the rather unusual name of “Tracy’s Dog”.“Unusual, and not a particularly, enticing name for a Sex Toy Company” I thought to myself.But nevertheless, I was intrigued. So I duly followed the slightly Art-Deco looking logo and link, and began to browse … and read [...]

By |2025-01-13T00:46:23-08:00January 13th, 2025|Categories: Dommes|0 Comments

The Ultimate Guide to Tease and Denial for a Femdom Wife

The Ultimate Guide to Tease and Denial for a Femdom Wife Tease and denial is one of the most powerful tools a femdom wife can use to dominate her husband, heighten his desire, and deepen his submission. By keeping him perpetually aroused but under your strict control, you assert your authority while giving him a daily reminder that his pleasure is entirely at your discretion. This guide will show you how to implement tease and denial effectively, combining physical and psychological control to create a dynamic where your husband lives to serve you. 1. Understanding Tease and Denial At its core, tease and denial is about keeping your husband in a constant state of arousal without allowing him the release he craves. [...]

The Ultimate Guide to Making Your Husband Do All the Femdom Chores in a Femdom Relationship

The Ultimate Guide to Making Your Husband Do All the Femdom Chores your house. In a femdom dynamic, control and authority are core principles. One of the most effective ways to assert dominance while ensuring an efficient and well-maintained household is to delegate all chores to your husband. By enforcing these responsibilities with a mix of discipline, structure, and rewards, you can create a harmonious dynamic where your needs are prioritized, and he feels fulfilled by serving you. Here’s how to make it happen: 1. Establishing Your Authority The first step is to set the tone of authority in your relationship. If your husband has agreed to a femdom lifestyle, he needs to understand that his primary role is to serve and [...]

Creekside Camping

It is summer in the land Down Under. Usually this means very hot and sometimes very humid days. Mr Jones and I took our new van out for a few days to a delightful spot near a creek. Despite the expected hot days, it was quite cool and rainy. The creek,, coming straight from the mountains, was quite cool, and we didn’t swim as much as we would have liked. It did provide a nice backdrop though.

By |2025-01-12T03:23:56-08:00January 12th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Mistresses Cock Watch #sinfulsunday

“Yes, it is a swatch watch actually!” I told him as I tightened the strap around his shaft. “And I’m going to activate the stop-watch to time how long it stays on before you drop-it”. “Perhaps if you try to concentrate on what sort of reward may be in store, then you may be able to hold it on for longer”!!! And I hope you will all take the time to visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, to discover lots more fun, by stroking the lovely lips below! Xxx – K P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We [...]

By |2025-01-12T03:01:00-08:00January 12th, 2025|Categories: Dommes|0 Comments

Boobday Shower Trio #boobday 375

For last Friday’s #boobday posting I shared a photo of myself and my lovely friend SheLover. And … what could be better than the two of us enjoying some sexy-soapy-fun you may have asked? Well … being joined by the equally lovely HeLover as well of course!!! And if you use the Search Button here on my site and type-in HeLover … you may well find several more occasions that he’s joined us for some 3-some fun as well!!! Don’t forget to let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more [...]

By |2025-01-10T02:38:00-08:00January 10th, 2025|Categories: Dommes|0 Comments

17 Creative CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) Ideas in Femdom

Breaking Free from the Femdom Closet: The Best Way for a Submissive Man to Admit His Fantasies to His WifeCum Eating Training – Training your sub to ALWAYS eat his cumHarnessing the Dichotomy of Pain and Pleasure: A Mistress’s Guide to Spanking with a Vibrating Butt PlugCaning Your Husband: Tips for Safe and Intense BDSM Play Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) is a thrilling aspect of BDSM that explores the boundaries of physical sensation, submission, and control. For dominant women (and anyone interested in femdom dynamics), CBT can be a powerful tool to establish dominance, tease, and push limits in a consensual, erotic way. Whether you’re a seasoned dominatrix or a curious beginner, these 17 ideas will inspire your next session. Remember, [...]