Discreet Collaring at Home: A Guide to Deepening Ownership in Your D/s Dynamic

Hello, fellow Dominants and kink enthusiasts. If you're here, you're likely exploring ways to strengthen the bond in your power exchange relationship, particularly with a male submissive who thrives on reminders of his place as your cherished pet. Today, I want to dive deep into the art of collaring at home—done discreetly, consensually, and with intention. This isn't about flashy public displays or elaborate ceremonies (though those have their place); it's about weaving subtle, everyday symbols of ownership into your shared life to reinforce that profound sense of belonging. Whether you're new to D/s or a seasoned player, collaring can be a powerful tool for reminding him who holds the leash—literally and figuratively—while keeping things private and intimate. Let's start with the foundation: [...]

Back in My Happy Place

A few weeks back, I posted about being back on the water. It has been a journey from May last year, when we handed the keys over to our beloved first big catamaran, Twoflower, to now. It took much searching and disappointing inspections ti find Velella. Most people selling something that has been a big part of their life see their yacht through rose-coloured glasses and place a value on her that is much higher than buyers in the marked are prepared to pay. The last couple of years of Covid craziness, however, have seen people paying silly prices for everything, especially luxury items like yachts and caravans. We encountered some people who were completely taking the piss both with their price, and [...]

By |2025-11-25T07:48:54-08:00November 25th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training, Mrs Jones|0 Comments

Wrecking Holes at Lady Sara Borgia’s Legendary Strapon Party

Wrecking Holes at Lady Sara Borgia’s Legendary Strapon Party Reigning Peg Queen: Lady Sara Borgia Lady Sara Borgia is the undisputed queen of UK strapon parties. This stunning looking, wickedly cruel, yet approachable and experienced prodom hosts many kink events, … Continue reading → The post Wrecking Holes at Lady Sara Borgia’s Legendary Strapon Party appeared first on Mistress Sidonia's Femdom Blog.

By |2025-11-25T01:32:48-08:00November 25th, 2025|Categories: Uncategorized|0 Comments

A Letter from Ma’am to Her Houseboy in Training

My sweet, quiet boy, You’ve been talking too much. Not loudly, not rudely; just too much. Every time you offer an opinion I didn’t ask for, every time you fill a silence with “I think…” or “Maybe we could…,” you step out of your place. I feel it immediately. The energy shifts, and for a moment I have to share the room with a man instead of owning it with my boy. That ends today. From this moment forward, you will remember the simple truth I am about to burn into you: You have two ears and one mouth for a reason. Two ears to listen to me, always open, always attentive. One mouth to be used only when I decide it should [...]

Embracing CFNM Housecleaning: A Path to Deeper Submission in Femdom Dynamics

In the world of BDSM and power exchange relationships, few practices blend everyday domesticity with erotic submission as seamlessly as CFNM (Clothed Female, Naked Male) housecleaning. This dynamic, where the submissive male performs household chores while nude, under the watchful eye or directive of his clothed dominant female partner, serves as a powerful tool for reinforcing roles, building intimacy, and heightening the sense of vulnerability and obedience. Far from being a niche fetish, CFNM housecleaning can become a standard protocol in a femdom household, transforming mundane tasks into rituals of devotion. In this longform article, we'll explore the origins, psychological benefits, practical implementation, and how to integrate it into beginner-level femdom training—specifically by week two of level one. We'll also empower submissives [...]

What is Edging? The who, what, where, when, and why of edging.

Browsed https://trends.google.com/trends/explore?q=edging What is Edging? Edging, in the context of sexual pleasure and BDSM dynamics, is a practice that has gained significant popularity for its ability to intensify arousal, build anticipation, and deepen the connection between partners. At its core, edging involves bringing oneself or a partner to the brink of orgasm, only to pull back just before the point of no return. This repeated cycle of approaching climax and denying release can transform a standard sexual experience into a prolonged journey of heightened sensation and psychological intensity. But edging isn't just about the physical act—it's a tool for mental reprogramming, especially in dominant-submissive (D/s) relationships, where it can teach a submissive to replace their instinctive urge for orgasm with a craving for [...]

Ultimate Guide to Sissy Training in the Femdom Lifestyle: Embracing Acceptance and Growth Together

Ultimate Guide to Sissy Training in the Femdom Lifestyle: Embracing Acceptance and Growth Together In the world of BDSM and alternative relationships, sissy training in the femdom lifestyle stands out as a deeply transformative journey for many couples. If you're a sissy exploring your feminine side or a dominant partner eager to support and guide your submissive through this process, you're in the right place. This comprehensive guide is designed to be incredibly helpful for both the sissy and their dominant partner who accepts and celebrates their sissiness. We'll dive into the fundamentals, practical steps, emotional aspects, and advanced techniques to make your femdom sissy training experience fulfilling, safe, and empowering. Whether you're new to the femdom lifestyle or looking to deepen [...]

Wonderful Triple Teasing and a Ruined Orgasm!

Following on from our wonderful Femdom last Sunday, on Thursday night Mistress again had me worship her delicious pussy and then teased me to another wonderful edge, I noticed her slaps were a little harder, her teasing a little more 'intentional'... perhaps it's all in my head but I have reason to be optimistic.You see, at the start of the week Mistress and I sat down and reviewed our Femdom/Chastity contract. This was written in 2020 believe it or not, and probably hasn't been revisited since. We both realise now the folly of writing a contract and then shutting it away in a drawer. There is just zero point. In fact this contract was so out of date that we had to discard [...]

By |2025-11-23T07:50:53-08:00November 23rd, 2025|Categories: Uncategorized|0 Comments

Femdom Small Penis Humiliation Ideas: The Ultimate Guide to SPH Play in BDSM

Femdom Small Penis Humiliation Ideas: The Ultimate Guide to SPH Play in BDSM If you're exploring the thrilling world of femdom and searching for femdom small penis humiliation ideas, you've landed on the ultimate resource. Small penis humiliation (SPH) is a popular kink within female-led relationships and BDSM dynamics, where the dominant partner (often a femdom or dominatrix) playfully or intensely teases the submissive about the size of their penis. This guide dives deep into why SPH can be an empowering and exciting form of play, offers a massive list of private and public humiliation ideas, and breaks it all down into multiple categories for easy navigation. Whether you're a seasoned domme looking to spice up your sessions or a curious sub [...]

FEMDOM SESSION – 16th November 2025

Last Sunday morning Mistress and I enjoyed our latest Femdom session, having unfortunately missed our 'October' session. Despite that we're still doing better than most years and once again the session was fantastic.I started the session kneeling blindfolded and when she came into the bedroom Mistress wasted no time, standing in front of me and using her feet to get my cock hard before telling me to get on my hands and knees. A couple of days before this I had admitted to Mistress that I had completely forgotten about the fact that I was supposed to report to her any 'illegal touching', only realising when I opened her drawer and saw the 'Book of Corrections' sitting there. Eek!I don't think I touched [...]

By |2025-11-22T07:50:50-08:00November 22nd, 2025|Categories: Uncategorized|0 Comments