Recently I experienced something called an ‘Orgasm Headache’… or in my case perhaps more accurately an ‘Edging Headache’. This is an intensely painful sensation that starts in your neck and travels up into the back of your head. In fact I would go as far as to say that it was perhaps the second most painful thing I’ve ever experienced after a ruptured disc in my back many years ago.

Looking online it seems there are two causes for this, one is to do with blood pressure and one is to do with the muscles in your neck and shoulders contracting as you approach orgasm. Well I went to my chiropractor and my doctor and I’m happy to say that the worst of it seems to have passed. My neck and shoulders are still very stiff, but thankfully that terrible stabbing pain in the back of the head during sex has gone.
I’m pretty sure it’s not to do with blood pressure, though my reading was a bit high at the doctors so they got me doing that at home for a couple of weeks. But anyway, the blood pressure kind of ‘Orgasm Headache’ apparently comes on when you actually orgasm and hits suddenly, where the muscular variation builds as you get closer. I’m seeing my chiropractor again tomorrow and hopefully this problem will continue to recede, but at least I am able to enjoy sex with my wonderful Mistress R again!
Speaking of which, on Saturday Mistress and I retired to the bedroom for some R&R and while we were kissing before I went down on her my cock got very hard and as I knelt between her open thighs she reached down and stroked me. This felt so good, not least because I have not had the most responsive cock of late; in fact it’s been quite a number of months since I’ve been teased without using a cock ring.
I had hoped that losing weight would have helped, and maybe it is helping, but it seems age and my nerve damage is working against me here. Still, feeling optimistic, after settling down between Mistress’s beautiful thighs and licking her to orgasm I decided to try without the cock ring for a change, not least because I really miss having my balls slapped ‘properly’ and that’s just too painful when they are trapped with a ring behind them.
At first it went well, and I got a decent erection, but unfortunately Mistress is used to being able to tease me very gently with a cock ring on with me still being able to stay rock hard. But in this instance that didn’t really work and I quickly lost it. Mistress continued for some time, sucking and stroking me, without a tremendous amount of success, it must be said, until she stood over me and made me beg to lick her delicious ass. 
As usual, this did the trick and I was soon hard again, and of course I absolutely loved every second of it! Mistress rose up and made me beg a second time, before allowing me another bout of heavenly ass worship that left me teetering on the brink of orgasm. As Mistress moved to my side, I warned her I was close and she let go, moving to kiss me as I fought to keep control.
Mistress looked down at my throbbing cock and curled her fingers around it, stroking it very slowly and gently until my cum began to leak out. Mistress asked me if I thought was a ‘ruin’ or a proper ‘orgasm’ and we agreed that it was definitely ruined as I definitely hadn’t enjoyed any kind of ‘release’ from it.
Then she said ‘Well, you know what you have to do now…” and she scooped up my cum with her fingers and told me to lick them clean. 
It was truly wonderful! 😊

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