What are your thoughts on consensual blackmail in a female led relationship? Personally I would love the idea of threats of exposure keeping me in check as much as discipline and humiliation. I have never considered it. And now that you’ve brought it up: I will not consider it either. Blackmail is wrong, we all agree. And consensual blackmail, sounds like a silly game to me. But I’ve said it before: if people like games, let them go ahead by all means. For me, ‘consensual blackmail’ is not the way for a dominant woman to assert herself. Lastly, he would call my bluff. Yes, I could make embarrassing pictures of him, but I’ve got as much if not more to lose than he. [...]

This may be a strange question, but I feel it's relevant. When you guys take the car out, who usually drives? This may be a surprising answer, but I guess it’s about fifty-fifty. Never given it much thought. Guess it would be possible to think of it as “me driving like a boss” or “me being driven like a boss”, but somehow it’s outside the ‘lifestyle’.  Yes, it’s me who decides, but it’s just whatever feels most logical at any given moment and that may be me or him getting behind the wheel. Source: Boss Ms Becky

Mistress u said 'world is not yet ready' i suppose almost as much FLR as MLR .. y u say so? Anonymous I’m not really sure what you’re saying. Then again, I’m not really sure whether the world is not ready yet for FLR. The world is ready - there’s just some people who are not. Source: Boss Ms Becky

Dear Miss Becky, The exciting lifestyle you choose is a private world of female supremacy complete with a sternly disciplined personal servant. I do believe closed doors can intensify experiences, certainly. Having a secret makes the downhill curves feel faster or the illegal firecrackers pop louder. Yet you write this wonderful blog to share with the world. Are your efforts here a way to shorten the fuse and scream about your lifestyle from the mountain top. Anonymous I don’t know about the downhill curves or the illegal firecrackers… no images that spring to my mind! Same with shortened fuses and screaming from mountain tops… (no offense). But I suppose there is this wish to share my lifestyle, even anonymously. Source: Boss Ms [...]

She had seen him - her head of accounting - glance at her, so many times… her cleavage, her legs, her skirt, her stockings, her boots, her shoes… He had been an average employee at best, not worth his generous salary.  It was time to either fire him or subjugate him.  Her unsmiling face and her authoritarian voice - coupled with the threat of summary dismissal - were enough to make him kneel in front of her.  She told him she was aware, not only of his meagre job performance, but also of his improper glances. He apologized clumsily, but she cut him off. “How would you like it if I took off my panties?” He could not believe his ears.. “Erm… would you? [...]

Did your genes or upbringing contribute more to your dominant personality? Anonymous The eternal question… I wouldn’t know. My mom is clearly the dominant factor in the relationship with my father, but do I have her genes then? Or did she provide an example for me to follow? A bit of both perhaps? (To be sure: I do not know how far my mother’s dominant trait goes, just like she doesn’t know about mine.) Source: Boss Ms Becky