Hello Miss Becky, Recently there were quite a few disciplination clips on your blog. As you mentioned, you do have quite a few implements yourself: floggers, whips, paddles and the like. Which one is your favourite? Does your bf have a least favourite one? Say does he really dislike the cane, but is OK with e.g. the flogger? Does he even have a favourite implement? My favorite: my black riding crop. But I like variation, like with everything. Don’t know if he has a favorite implement. Doubt if he has one, haha! But the cane may well be his least favorite. Even if I use it somewhat sparingly, i.e. I don’t really lash out - I find the impact too harsh. So I [...]

I'm curious, what sort of things do you keep your boyfriend in the dark about? finances? This blog? World events? As a man sworn to serve and obey you, I'm sure there are things that he simply is not allowed to know. Anonymous I was going to say ‘nothing’. I don’t have the feeling I’m keeping much from him. I don’t feel there are things he is ‘simply not allowed to know’. But indeed I decided to keep this blog to myself, not even sure why exactly.  And indeed finances. He knows he’s well take care of, in any eventuality. But other than that, in financial matters all he has to worry about is making sure that the money I give him for housekeeping is [...]

In a world where the dominance of one partner is explicit and expected would you feel more comfortable befriending female led rather than male led couples? Do you believe that your boyfriend would prefer hanging out with male or female led couples? Anonymous Don’t care much for ‘what if’ questions, but… I suppose I would feel more comfortable with female-led couples. And so would he, probably. But even though I sometimes may seem to bemoan the fact that femdom is still not mainstream (and therefore something to remain private about), I actually also like it to be just ‘our thing’ - in real life that is, outside tumblr. Source: Boss Ms Becky

Belts Dear Miss Becky, (sorry if the message is a bit long) I am a guy and I just wanted to say that I LOVE your page. I just have a couple questions regarding some of your photos.  http://bossymsbecky.tumblr.com/post/33878481912/looking-up-to-his-queen The photo (from this above link on October 18, 2012) above is my favorite! I just wanted to know if this is actually you in this photo?? Or is it someone you know or just a random photo?? I have a fetish for seeing a strong woman wearing jeans with a thick leather belt (with a big belt buckle of course!) through her belt loops, and this photo really shows it perfectly! I could stare at her buckle all day. It’s hypnotic! Do you [...]

You've indicated a few times that you like to keep your man naked while you're at home together. Are you in the habit of tying (or cuffing) his hands behind his back as well? It's great way of maximising a guy's exposure and highlighting his powerlessness. And of course you can be sure that the only hand that will ever touch his cock is yours. Anonymous It would not be very practical if tying his hands were a habit of mine. Most of the time he is busy working for me. But there are times I do tie him up - to teach him a lesson, or if I feel I’m not getting 100% attention when he is pleasuring me. Source: Boss [...]

Do you think your sub finds keeping up to your standards hard? And if so is this good for a submissive? To be kept on their toes at all times or is it better to have consistency and keep it easier for them as you get all the benefits of orgasm/service when they don't, so they get something back? Im curious as to your opionon. Anonymous I’m very demanding and very much the perfectionist, so yes, I’m sure he finds it hard. And yes, I believe that is good - it’s the only way in my view. So he’s kept on his toes at all times and I’m very consistent that way. That way I indeed get all the benefits I’m looking for. [...]