I want to dispel a myth or rumor that you may have heard. Often times I hear of people who think or have the impression that submissive men are weak and inferior people. That is far from the truth. Submission does not mean weak or that a person is inferior. From a hierarchy or power point of view they are inferior to someone else but it does not make them an inferior as person. A submissive man is also not automatically submissive to others. My husband is 100% submissive to me but at work he is a leader and has employees reporting to him. He is well respected among his friends. I would not expect or want him to feel that he is submissive to others.

I do tease him that he is weak. That is part fantasy play but let’s also acknowledge that he is weak for me; not a weak person but my feminine power over him makes him weak for me. That’s no different than other guys, right? The most macho men, the most intelligent men, even powerful men are weak in the presence of  women that they are attracted to or women who know how to seduce him and press his hot buttons. So there you have it, both submissive men and macho men have the same weaknesses when it comes to women.

Now let’s talk about some of the qualities of the submissive man that I consider much better qualities than the typical non-submissive man:

  • You are great communicators and for the most pat open and honest about feelings. I have learned to be a better communicator because of my husband. Because of this we have very few arguments and resolve differences quickly and without holding grudges.
  • You listen and pay attention to your wife. Your primary focus is on her and family and not your friends. This is huge! I can’t tell you how many guys I see that are more interested in hanging out with their friends than their wife. That’s an issue! Your wife should be your #1 priority. 
  • When you are asked or told to do something, you do it without arguing or giving an attitude (most of the time :).
  • You say “I love you” a lot and are more open to showing your vulnerability. 
  • You do many things on your own to show appreciation for your wife such as buy her flowers just to make her day better.
  • You do all the chores that  your wife does not like doing.
  • Orgasm denial has trained you well.  You have stamina and endurance that can outlast most men
When I read the above list, I do not see weakness. I see a strong, caring, and hardworking man.  I see man that I would be lucky to know and lucky to be married to.  Guys – do not be ashamed of your submission or view yourselves as weak or inferior to others. Embrace your submission, be proud of it, and recognize that you are a strong person with great qualities.
-Mz Kaylee.



The Strong Submissive Man