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One of the most powerful things you can do as a dominant woman is turn your submissive’s mind into putty before you ever slide a single inch of strap-on into him.

Today I’m sharing my complete 14-day protocol for making him absolutely desperate to be fucked by you. Not just willing — I’m talking whimpering, begging, rock-hard-while-denied, can’t-stop-thinking-about-it craving.

Why Tease-and-Deny Anal Craving Works So Well

Most women rush straight to the lube and the harness. That’s a mistake.

The real power isn’t in the penetration itself — it’s in the anticipation you create. When you spend days or weeks making him associate your strap-on with pleasure, humiliation, dominance, and deep submission, his brain rewires. By the time you finally take him, he’s not “trying anal.” He’s dying for it.

This protocol combines daily verbal teasing, a specific physical ritual, denial, and escalating begging.

Pre-Game Setup (Before Day 1)

• Buy a quality strap-on harness and a few beginner-to-medium plugs (for visual teasing only).
• Choose your favorite lube and keep it visible.
• Decide the exact begging phrase he must use (example: “Please fuck my ass, Goddess.”).
• Keep him denied — the hornier he is, the better this works.

The 14-Day Protocol

Days 1–3: Verbal Teasing – Plant the Seed

Every morning and every night, spend 5–10 minutes talking to him about what’s coming.

While he’s on his knees or beside you in bed, stroke his hair or cage and say things like:

“I can’t stop thinking about bending you over and sliding my cock deep inside you… hearing you moan like a desperate little bitch while I own your ass.”

Describe exactly how you plan to fuck him:

• “You’ll be on all fours while I take you slow and deep.”
• “You’re going to thank me after every thrust.”
• “Your little hole is going to stretch so nicely for me.”

Always end with: “But not yet. Good boys have to wait.”

Make him repeat: “Thank you for teasing me, Goddess. I can’t wait to earn your cock in my ass.”

Days 4–7: The All-Fours Ritual – Daily Mock-Fucking

This is the part that drives them crazy. Do this every single day.

1. Command him: “All fours. Now.”
2. Make him spread his knees wide, arch his back, and present his ass.
3. Give him a slow, sensual spanking to warm him up.
4. Stand directly behind him and press your hips against his ass.
5. Start slapping your pelvis against him in a steady rhythm — exactly like you’re fucking him.
6. Grab his hips and talk dirty in his ear:

“Feel that? This is exactly how I’m going to fuck you soon. You’re going to take every inch while I slap against you just like this.”

Keep the rhythm for 2–3 minutes. Make him count the “thrusts” out loud if you want.

Afterward, keep him in position and say: “This is what’s coming for you. But not today. Beg me nicely.”

Force him to beg out loud and clearly. If it’s not desperate enough, repeat the hip-slapping.

End by making him kiss the strap-on and thank you for teasing him.

Days 8–10: Escalate the Begging + Visual Teasing

• Make him watch you put on the harness and lube the dildo while he’s on all fours.
• During the mock-fucking, press the tip of the strap-on against his hole (no penetration) while you continue the hip-slapping.
• Demand longer, more detailed begging.
• Send him teasing texts or voice notes during the day.

Days 11–14: Total Mindfuck – Maximum Denial

• Do the all-fours ritual twice a day.
• Briefly slide just the tip in and then pull out while saying “Not yet… you’re still not desperate enough.”
• Make him edge (if allowed) while you describe the upcoming pegging in graphic detail.
• Have him write a nightly journal: “Why I need Goddess to fuck my ass” (minimum 10 sentences).
• Require him to beg every single time.

The Payoff

On Day 15 (or whenever you decide), give him what he’s been craving for two weeks. By this point he will be shaking with need. The psychological conditioning makes the actual pegging far more intense for both of you.

Bonus Tips

• Keep the strap-on visible in the bedroom as a constant reminder.
• Use the same harness and dildo every teasing session so his brain links that specific toy to overwhelming desire.
• After the first time you peg him, immediately start planning the next level (longer sessions, bigger toys, ruined orgasms while being fucked, etc.).

Queens, this protocol works extremely well. I’ve seen hesitant subs turn into desperate anal sluts in under two weeks.

The secret isn’t the strap-on.

The secret is making him obsessed with it before you ever use it.

Now go turn your good boy into your eager little anal slut.

You deserve this power.

Drop a comment below and tell me:
How many days do you think it will take before your sub is begging you to fuck his ass?

I read every comment.

— Lara 💋

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