accidentallydomme my story

accidentallydomme:

accidentallydomme:

I had just got my
divorce through, i had been married for 15 years, and had been with
him several years before. He was an abusive and controlling man he
was never physically violent but he was mentally abusive and could be
mean when we had a fight, he was certainly the boss in the house. Our
marriage had come to an end and when he moved out I was a lot happier
and didn’t miss him at all. I decided to move closer to my sister
and had found a place about 15 miles away so I wasn’t too far but
certainly not to close either. My niece was going out with a boy who
treated her terribly, he was rude, obnoxious, arrogant, he turned up
late or not at all borrowed money and didn’t pay her back and they
argued all the time. It was strange as when ever my sister or I tried
to talk with him he would be quite nice and a little shy and seemed
like a normal boy, He would listen and could have a pleasant
conversation with him but just went back to the same when he was with
my niece. One day after about 3 months of knowing him I was round
there and he smelled of smoke so I said to him just jokingly that I
didn’t know how my niece kissed him when he smelled so bad. A week
later my sister told me that he had quit smoking. The next time I saw
him a few weeks later he was was visiting my niece and he was leaving
her to go to the pub with his mates, I made a comment of that he
drinks to much and again my sister told me he had cut right down on
his drinking. I really thought that it was just a coincidence but
would test my theory. On the weekend I went to my sisters knowing he
would be there and told him he could do with dieting as he was
getting chubby and ate to much junk food and sure enough my sister
said he had started to eat healthy and was exercising I knew he was
doing what I said, I didn’t know what it meant but thought it was
sweet that maybe he had a crush on me. At this point I had known him
about four months. One evening I pulled up to find my sister and
niece leaving as they had been arguing again, I didn’t want my niece
to end up in this kind of relationship so after they had gone I told
him that we should have a serious talk. As usual he calmed down and
went into this quiet shy normal boy, we chatted for a fair while
going over why he was like he was, why he behave the way he did, and
he didn’t really have any answers saying he liked her but just got
frustrated and he couldn’t tell me why. now the conversation had gone
on a while, he was talking about his family and in a joking way I
went into lecture mode when I said “well maybe your mom should have
spanked you and then maybe you would have more respect” at this he
looked up at me very sheepishly and blushing said stuttering “maybe
that what I need” and I still don’t know why I said what made me
say it but I said” well if it makes you behave better, so come here
then” I expected him just to laugh it off but he came over to me
and on instinct I lightly tapped his butt 3 times saying in a light
hearted manner” there I hope you’ve learnt your lesson” I was
slightly embarrassed I had done that and he was blushing bright red
which I found really sweet, he just said jokingly something about
that would make him good from now on, we both found it a bit
uncomfortable so we left it there and we both went. I went home but I
couldn’t stop thinking about what I had just said and done. I kept
going over that I had spanked him, he was only joking surely I
thought but still that look on his face looked like he wanted it. I
found myself having all these thoughts and playing out all these
different scenarios in my head but just told myself not to be so
stupid he wasn’t interested in me and I was reading to much into this
as I had been alone for six months. I didn’t see him for two weeks
but my sister told me that he had been better behaved since I spoke
to him but I kept telling myself it was just a coincidence next time
I saw him I felt nervous around him and I could see he was as well
.As soon as we were alone he told me he needed to talk to me so my
niece went out to get take away and my sister went outside to have a
smoke and talk to her husband who works away. We went into the
bedroom upstairs, he was clearly uncomfortable and stuttering, we
went through some small talk before I said to him I had heard he was
being well behaved lately he said well you know why that is,i
pretended not to saying no why, he replied sheepishly I think you
know why maybe I need a top up to keep me behaving good, I was
wondering” if he was serious or was he black mailing me to spank
him again, I found myself saying to him, well if its going to keep
you good for my niece”. To this day I still don’t know what made me
say that, it was like somebody else had took over my mouth and then I
found myself saying “well come here then” and I spanked him, not
hard but harder and longer than the first time. I walked out thinking
this is to strange we were both a bit uncomfortable but again he was
blushing and I found this quite arousing. Later that night I couldn’t
help but think about spanking him and I masturbated to the thought of
it, the first time in 3 months but my orgasm was really strong. Two
days later he texted me to say he had just finished with my niece and
I not to blame my self as it was his fault but even without me he
still would have split with her as he knew what he wanted and if I
wanted to see him text him and that he would give me seven days and
if he hadn’t heard from me in that time he will know how I felt and
he wouldn’t bother me again. Of course my sister phoned to tell me
what happened, I felt really guilty knowing I was part of the reason
for five days I couldn’t stop going over and over everything in my
head I just didn’t know what I was going to do but in the end I
thought, well I’m on my own and bored why not lets see where this
goes even though I knew that if my sister found out it could damage
my relationship with her but was excited by the danger. I contacted
him and we sat in the park to discuss what had happened and what he
thought had happened between us, he explained that he had submissive
fantasies since he was 11 and they had got stronger and stronger as
he had got older. I didn’t know if it was me that he liked or the
fact I was an older woman and that he thought I could be dominant. I
went back home and told him that maybe I would have to think about
all this. I looked up flr as I hadn’t heard of it before until he had
said and after reading about it I was fascinated and found it quite
erotic. I told him to come over the next day I was really nervous but
excited. I started by just kind of telling him off about the way he
had finished with my niece until I told him to turn around and to my
surprise just spanked him harder than I had before, I then told him
to take his jeans down and I spanked him again and he was really
embarrassed. I made him stand in the corner as I had read this on the
internet of things to do. He left and I was so high on excitement it
was such a turn on and I was addicted I needed more of him, i kept
reading all about flr. He came the next day and this time I took his
jeans down I could tell he was hard and had to pull his jeans out to
take them down, I looked at his face and he was so red and this time
I put him across my knee to spank him, I could feel his erection on
my leg as I spanked him. At this point I was still telling him off
and then I said to him that his pants were making the hits softer so
I pulled down his shorts just enough to expose his bottom, at this
point I was really turned on and now looking at this cute little
white ass that I then continued to spank. I got him up and as he was
about to get dressed I told him that I hadn’t given him permission to
pull up his jeans. I made him stand there looking really embarrassed
as I layed down some rules he needed to follow. And then with his
pants still below his buttocks I reached into his shorts and grabbed
his pubic hair pulling it I told him that only real men had body hair
and that he needed to be shaved smooth from now on and with that I
gave him different shavers and hair removal cream and told him to
come tomorrow smooth. I still remember that day he came round the
following day and I made him strip naked he stood there head bowed
face bright red he was young, tall, slim smooth and naked before me
the complete opposite to my ex, and I said to him if this was going
to work he would have to do as I said and he replied” I will do
anything you tell me to do without question “and to this day he has.So basically i got into this life from just one sentence,and that was when i said to him that he should have been spanked when he was younger and i said this as a joke but that changed my life and my boy turned me into accidentallydomme.

I have had 10 requests lately how i became a domme so here it is.