Hello all, I hope everyone is ready for the fast approaching holiday’s. I thought Tony and I would share with everyone how doing a reset on our relationship (to a flr) has changed our lives together. We have been flr for about 1 year now. I admit it is trying at some points, Tony is becoming a better communicator, he has explained his points such as, he now is solely dependent on me for all of his pleasure. His way of acceptably initiating sex is to offer me some head, its cute though he has become so needy now, I have a difficult time engaging him sexually as often as he would like (daily). I have only given him ruined or prostate orgasms for about 2 months now. We have not had piv sex for around 4 months. I have a low sex drive an Tony gives me great orgasms without piv sex. I see a huge difference in his attitude, body language, interests, and sexual abilities. I don’t peg him often enough an its really wearing my fingers out, he has been begging me for more pegging but we dont have a good set of gear that I am comfortable with. I am plus sized so if anyone knows of some true to size gear please let us know. Flr is allot of responsibility, at times overwhelming for me though we have made some good progress forward, I peg him for my pleasure, I having vibrogasms during pegging, trained him to give me proper oral, made many discoveries about myself and boyfriend, I decide most everything about our relationship where, when, & how down to dressing for the day. I feel very empowered by most of this, sometimes I would like Tony to make more of the decisions or at least have a opinion about things. Yesterday after pegging, Tony told me he has blue balls. I want to fix this for him but I love the added attention he is giving me. I am becoming quite the expert at causing him to prostate orgasm. He gets so vocalized during those its HOOTTT. There is very little refractory period with them if any an these orgasms seem to last upto 3 minutes each so far. The shortest prostate orgasm Ive seen him have seemed more intense and longer lasting than the best penis orgasm I can remember him having in the 8 years we have been together. His penis plumps when having sex. We practice cfnm at home so if I see him become stiff, I tell him to assume the position, fyi (face down ass up) and enter him until the erection subsides. He is very needy at times. He is so sexy from behind. I suggest that anyone interested in having a real flr google “thepeggingwife” she has some good advice to offer in addition to this website. I hope you all find this post informative and useful on your journey in female led relationships.
Happy holiday’s Ericka