Relinquishing Control

I published this story on Medium a little while ago. I was feeling generous, so I thought I would share the whole story with you. Photo by Tomas Andreopoulos on Pexels.com “I don’t want to be involved.” Mel finished applying her lipstick and straightened her skirt. “Really?” Brad shrugged, buckled his work pants and reached for his shirt. “Mmmm.” Mel slid her hands around his waist and under his waistband. “What time did you say your first job is?” Taken by surprise, Brad struggled with his shirt, trying to get it in place before giving up and throwing it in the corner. Bare chested, he turned to face his wife. “Don’t you have that early meeting?” Brad’s mind whirled. His wife had just [...]

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Relinquishing Control

I published this story on Medium a little while ago. I was feeling generous, so I thought I would share the whole story with you. Photo by Tomas Andreopoulos on Pexels.com “I don’t want to be involved.” Mel finished applying her lipstick and straightened her skirt. “Really?” Brad shrugged, buckled his work pants and reached for his shirt. “Mmmm.” Mel slid her hands around his waist and under his waistband. “What time did you say your first job is?” Taken by surprise, Brad struggled with his shirt, trying to get it in place before giving up and throwing it in the corner. Bare chested, he turned to face his wife. “Don’t you have that early meeting?” Brad’s mind whirled. His wife had just [...]

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TMI – Senses

Welcome to another edition of TMI where you can never find out enough!! 1. Do you believe in ESP (extrasensory perception)? Do you have those abilities? I believe in premonitions or sensing that something is going to happen. I don’t really think I possess those abilities, though. 2. Do you laugh when someone tickles you? Mr Jones is very ticklish. When tickled, he does this very different, girlish kind of laugh, which I take pleasure in extracting from him. I am not that ticklish and given that I have tickled him so often, I work hard to not react when people tickle me. I won’t say that I am always successful, though. 3. Do you like teamwork? Team work makes the dream work. [...]

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Foot Worship Protocol: A Domme’s Expectations for Her Submissive

As a dominant woman, I find immense pleasure in the devotion and adoration of my submissive, particularly when it comes to the worship of my feet. My feet are not just a part of my body; they are a symbol of my authority, elegance, and power. For my submissive—my devoted foot slut—the act of worshiping my feet is a sacred ritual, a tangible expression of their submission, loyalty, and reverence. This longform article outlines, in exquisite detail, my expectations for how my submissive should worship my feet, focusing on oral service, massage, licking soles, and other acts of devotion. I will also establish a precise protocol for when I return home from work, ensuring my foot slut knows their role and performs it [...]

Shemale Cock Affirmations – Suck, lick, and enjoy shemale cock.

Hello, my darlings! I’m Lara, the proud owner of femdomtraining.ca, here to guide you on a delicious journey of self-discovery and pleasure. Below are 20 shemale cock affirmations crafted for a straight man ready to embrace his desire to suck shemale cock. These affirmations are designed to ignite your passion, banish any shame, and celebrate this thrilling part of your sexuality with confidence and joy. Repeat them daily to fully embrace the empowering freedom of your desires, always with respect and consent for yourself and others. I embrace my desire to suck shemale cock as a natural part of my sexuality. Engaging in oral intimacy with shemales feels thrilling and true to who I am. I find joy in sucking shemale cock, [...]

Understanding Heterosexual Men’s Attraction to Trans Women: A Clinical Perspective

Understanding Heterosexual Men’s Attraction to Trans Women: A Clinical Perspective As a clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience counseling couples, I have worked with numerous individuals and partners navigating complex questions of attraction, identity, and intimacy. Among these, I have supported couples where a heterosexual man has expressed attraction to trans women—individuals assigned male at birth who identify and present as women. This attraction often raises questions about sexual orientation, relationship dynamics, and personal identity. My role has been to facilitate open, nonjudgmental discussions, helping couples understand these desires, accept them as valid, and decide together whether and how to act on them. Below, I explore the psychological, social, and relational factors behind this attraction, drawing on clinical insights and [...]

The Click

Photo by Tirachard Kumtanom on Pexels.com Something that vanilla people often find surprising is that I don’t fuck every swinger that I know. Even more surprisingly, I don’t fuck every swinger that I am friends with. There are people that I fuck that I am not friends with and probably never will be. And, perhaps because I am a complex human, there are people I fuck that I am really good friends with. Being in this lifestyle is sometimes a really effective way to grow your emotional intelligence and experience a range of relationships that you wouldn’t in the vanilla world. So what is it that determines these different relationships? These people have the same values as me. We have all turned our [...]

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Paula’s Anal Slave – A short story

(fictional story, haha, sort of, a few embellishments) Paula, the ever-dominant and demanding Mistress, had a particular taste for keeping her submissive lover, Chase, perpetually prepared for her whims. The gleaming chrome plug nestled snugly in his ass was both a symbol of her power over him and a practical tool for maintaining his readiness. It was a constant reminder of his role in their dynamic, a silent sentinel of his submission that accompanied him throughout every moment of his day. As the sun set on another weekend, the anticipation in the air grew thick with the scent of leather and lubricant. Chase knew tonight would be no ordinary evening, as he heard the clink of  Paula's stiletto heels approaching the bedroom where [...]

Clinical Psychologist Perspective: How Femdom Dynamics Can Strengthen a Marriage

Clinical Psychologist Perspective: How Femdom Dynamics Can Strengthen a Marriage As a clinical psychologist specializing in couples therapy and relationship dynamics, I have observed that unconventional approaches to intimacy and power dynamics, such as female-led relationships (FLRs) or femdom (female dominance), can, under certain circumstances, revitalize a marriage. When approached consensually, with clear communication and mutual respect, femdom dynamics can address common marital challenges, including division of labor, emotional disconnection, sexual stagnation, and entrenched relational ruts. Below, I outline how femdom can contribute to a healthier marriage, followed by credible resources supporting these observations. (most of this article is for gold members, or gold lifetime members only) 1. Redefining Division of Labor Marriages often falter under the weight of unequal domestic [...]

How to Encourage Your Wife to Take Charge as a Femdom in Your Relationship

Embracing a female-led relationship (FLR) where your wife takes charge as a femdom can be a deeply fulfilling journey for both partners. It’s about trust, communication, and mutual exploration of power dynamics that bring you closer together. If you’re interested in encouraging your wife to step into a dominant role, this guide offers practical, respectful tips to help her feel empowered and confident while ensuring the process strengthens your bond. We’ll also point you to a fantastic resource on our website, A Complete Step by Step Roadmap to Dominance for Women – By Charlotte, to support her journey. Let’s dive into how you can approach this with care and enthusiasm. Understanding Femdom and Its Appeal Femdom, or female dominance, is a dynamic [...]