FEMDOM SESSION – 2nd February 2025

Long term readers will know that over the years Mistress and I have indulged in regular Femdom sessions which I often described in great detail here on this blog. This started way back in the 90s, then stopped altogether for several years before restarting in the 2000s, and since then we've had consistent years and inconsistent years... sometimes making it as high as 9 in a year, sometimes as low as 1.Last year we managed just one, way back in March... but a few weeks ago, just before Christmas actually I think, Mistress and I were talking about our 'lifestyle' and our chastity contract and how we could improve it. In fact we were supposed to have a talk about this and then [...]

By |2025-02-02T17:23:47-08:00February 2nd, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Pole Kisses

The pole is a demanding and sometimes brutal mistress. She demands dedication, training, and commitment. Changes in the weather make her unpredictable. Sometimes hot days and sweat mean slipping and sliding. Other times hot days mean grip that pulls and tears at your skin. On those days, the pole leaves kisses to remind you about what happens when you go on holidays for too long. PS I want to participate in #FebPhotoFest but honestly I don’t think I could get myself organised for five images per week. Good luck to those who are participating!!

By |2025-02-02T13:23:45-08:00February 2nd, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Modest Holiday Pegs #sinfulsunday

“Well … you just sit down there and close your eyes, and I’ll explain exactly why I’m ‘just hanging-up a single piece of string’.” I said to SubbyHubby as he pulled up a chair on our holiday balcony. “Now do you see why???” I said to him after quickly grabbing his un-expectant cock. “I’m hoping that having you attached to our washing line for an hour or two, may stretch some extra length into that disappointingly tiny dick of yours!!!” For more teasing and stretching at this week’s Sinful Sunday, just pull gently on the lovely lips below! Xxx – K P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content [...]

By |2025-02-02T01:43:00-08:00February 2nd, 2025|Categories: Dommes|0 Comments

On Numbers and Casual Encounters

When I first saw this meme, it irked me. I posted some comments on good old FB land, but my ideas were too complex to tie into a few short sentences. So let’s delve in. The Science Stuff Oxytocin is a hormone. For the non-nerds out there, hormones govern our body. They are chemicals that tell your organs when to speed up, slow down, turn on, or turn off. There are more hormones than just sex hormones. In fact, there are hormones involved with the working of every part of our body. Oxytocin is a hormone that is associated mainly with childbirth and lactation. It stimulates that contraction of the uterus to push the baby out during labour. It also stimulates the breast [...]

By |2025-01-31T14:59:29-08:00January 31st, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Modest Nails #boobday 378

It’s always nice to feel the summer sun on my … freshly painted nails! Particularly as I can show them off on my #boobday Friday post today. Please do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own warming #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!! Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women. Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in [...]

By |2025-01-31T02:17:00-08:00January 31st, 2025|Categories: Dommes|0 Comments

Back to School

All over Australia, Young People are starting the new school year this week. Many of them are a bit like Mark. Photo by Quenani Leal on Pexels.com Ever since he was in kindergarten, Mark had hated the first day of the school year. When the alarm dragged him out of his sleep on the 29 January 2025, the only consolation was that it was the first morning of his senior year. Sun streamed through the window, promising another sticky late summer day.   As it was every day, his cock was hard and ready for action. Automatically, he reached down and stroked himself. His head filled with thoughts of the woman who lived across the street. She always seemed to be watering her [...]

By |2025-01-29T14:23:45-08:00January 29th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Storm Sunset

In the land Down Under the weekend just gone was the Australia Day long weekend. The official national day is 26 January. Which gives cause for a public holiday. But, when the date is a Saturday or Sunday, the holiday is moved to the following Monday. Ta-dah! A long weekend. Something of a holy grail for Australians. Given that it is the middle of summer, camping is a VERY popular activity. So, with about half the population, we found a stream and booked a campsite with a large group of our friends. Sunday evening saw us watching several storms pass us by. Fortunately, we could watch them go by and enjoy the spectacular sunset they created without feeling the effects of wind, hail, [...]

By |2025-01-28T13:23:49-08:00January 28th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Long-Term Anal Training: A Guide for Dedicated Submissives

In the world of femdom dynamics, long-term anal training is an act of deep submission, trust, and devotion. It represents a submissive’s willingness to relinquish control over their body while prioritizing their dominant’s pleasure and preferences. For many dominant women, encouraging their submissive to embrace anal training isn’t just a physical journey—it’s a profound psychological shift that cements their control and power. This guide will explore the steps for long-term anal training, while ensuring the submissive finds their sole sexual fulfillment in being penetrated by their dominant’s strap-on and serving her orgasmic needs. Understanding the Purpose of Long-Term Anal Training At its core, anal training goes beyond the physical aspects. It’s about conditioning the submissive to associate all their pleasure, arousal, and [...]

Modest Shave #sinfulsunday

“If there’s one thing I can’t abide on holiday … it’s a 5-o’clock shadow … now just sit still and stop your shaking!!!” To get to grips with all the fun at this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, simply grab hold of the lovely lips below! Xxx – K P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here. The post Modest Shave #sinfulsunday appeared first on Modesty Ablaze.

By |2025-01-26T02:00:00-08:00January 26th, 2025|Categories: Dommes|2 Comments

Modest Lily #boobday 377

The lily is normally associated with purity and renewal apparently! So they are, of course, entirely appropriate for my #boobday Friday post today, aren’t they? And please do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own warming #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!! Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women. Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with [...]

By |2025-01-24T02:41:00-08:00January 24th, 2025|Categories: Dommes|0 Comments