whisper-to-my-soul: mistress-marlene: Mistress-MarleneTips for…

whisper-to-my-soul: mistress-marlene: Mistress-MarleneTips for New Dominants1. You will fuck up.New Dominants WILL make mistakes. It’s a fact of life. To be fair, experienced Dominants will make mistakes. Intermediate Dominants will make mistakes. If you are a Dominant or think you want to be a Dominant, you will make a mistake.Accept it and move on.The only thing that makes a mistake worse is not learning from them. Use them as opportunities to grow and learn. Talk to people about them. Figure out what went wrong then incorporate that and try not to do it again.If you act like everything you do is perfect and without flaw, then you are an idiot and whoever plays or submits to you will also be an idiot. [...]

By |2018-03-14T12:12:14-07:00March 14th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

Always a Surprise "Ending"

eroticshortstories4women: I receive this question quite often, which (I think) gets to the very heart of (FLR) Tease and Denial:Q: If I'm playing with and edging my young virile male every night, Should I “Let Him Cum” at the end of each nights session (Due to His Begging & Desperation) or only when “I” feel like it?  What’s the correct and proper way to Train & Subjugate Him, What Do You Do with your Guy?  We’ve Only Been Married For Two Months But I’m So Eager Learn MORE…It’s a Basic Question, But a Really Great One for Young Inexperienced Beginners …My answer: Definitely not!  It’s sexier and much more fun for me when he truly doesn’t know if I’m going to make him cum, all [...]

By |2018-03-09T15:47:17-08:00March 8th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

shyexhibitionists: His choice… kind of. Any of you who follow us probably know that I’m not big on…

shyexhibitionists: His choice… kind of. Any of you who follow us probably know that I’m not big on promising him that if he does a certain thing, that he is guaranteed a satisfying orgasm. I find that when I do that, he just behaves well until the reward, and then slides back for a few days after and doesn’t behave until the urges from being locked up start again. However, you probably also know that we both love it when I fuck with his head and keep him confused and off balance. I was thinking about this last night after I unlocked him, sucked him hard, rode him for a bit to get that full pussy feeling that I love getting from [...]

By |2018-03-07T04:16:48-08:00March 7th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

“Rules” For Living In A Female Led Relationship

iamsubmissiveproud: Ignore all the BS you find on tumblr about the rules you are supposed to follow in order to live this lifestyle.  First off, I believe 9 times out of 10 those rules were written by a male…so the purpose is to fulfill that individual’s Femdom pornographic fantasy of what a FLR is (which is going to differ from reality).  How do you spot the crap?  Anytime a rule says that the Female MUST do this or the Male MUST do that.  As a couple, find what works for you, today.  You can always adjust when necessary.  Interests and intentions are going to change over time.  As you progress, you will find what works and what doesn’t.  It’s fine to look [...]

By |2018-03-05T13:16:30-08:00March 5th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

dedicateddisplay: deniedhubbyhappywifey: ontheknees2: Mistress…

dedicateddisplay: deniedhubbyhappywifey: ontheknees2: Mistress Guide - Tips for getting what you want Be confident – There’s nothing more sexy than a woman who knows what she wants. Erase your insecurities. Revel in your sexuality. Make sure he knows that you’re in love with who you are. Tell him what you want – Your most powerful tool is your mouth. Tell him what you want him to do to please you – and do it daily. Don’t wait until you’re in the bedroom. Whisper it in his ear as he leaves home. Tuck a note in his pants pocket. Call him at work. Send him an e-mail or a text message. Use nudity as a tool - Keep your man naked as much [...]

By |2018-03-04T07:16:39-08:00March 4th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

A Day in the Life of my FLR

thefemdomdiary: [be warned…it’s not what you think…]7:00: the alarm goes off.  He begs me to hit the snooze and snuggle with him for 10 more minutes.  I do.  I snooze, then bite his earlobe while I tease his cock.  Uh oh…snooze alarm goes off…no time for more, work calls.7:10 - 8:10: He walks the dog.  I make coffee.  Showers.  He brings me breakfast (coffee and toast).  He says his mantra and eats, as well. He tells me about his work schedule for today and I catch him up on mine. I inform him if I want him to run any errands.  I kiss him goodbye, slap his ass, and we’re off to work.5:30-6:50:  I’m usually home first.  I walk the dog, get [...]

By |2018-02-24T17:16:12-08:00February 24th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

The Art Of Worshipping…

simmer-until: cryanisback: beautifulsecrets42: Men in Female Led Relationships enjoy showing appreciation for the women in their lives in ways that are a little more emotionally involved than the average man. We call this type of appreciation worship because it demonstrates a man’s willing devotion to the happiness and satisfaction of the woman he loves… Every man should learn how to worship the woman he loves. Here are 7 ways to excel at the art of worshiping a woman. Oral Sex Offering a loving session of cunnilingus is the number one way to worship the woman you love. When you kneel before her treasure and your focus is only on pleasing her, you are showing her that you honor her in the most [...]

By |2018-02-18T11:16:12-08:00February 18th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

sime15: ontheknees2: 25 Rules for The Submissive Husband You…

sime15: ontheknees2: 25 Rules for The Submissive Husband You are going to be more submissive today.  You will submit to all women, you will not quarrel with them, you will always be respectful and obedient.  You must understand that you must obey me.  You will demonstrate your obedience by giving thanks every day.  You succeed in life, because you obey me.  Your physical appearance is the perfect expression of your love for me.  You are obedient, docile, and listen to what I say at all times.  I know what you want, and it is your complete submission and obedience to me.  You are going to exercise daily to make your body more attractive to me.  Your body is a machine that is [...]

By |2018-02-12T12:16:18-08:00February 12th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

What did your closest friends said when they knew about your lifestyle with your boy and who told them about it? When out on nude beach do you ever make him wear a cage or a butt plug or a collar or anything like that? I'm sorry I'm just really curious?

While I’m out and proud when it comes to being a Domme to the people around me I’m also a firm believer of not outing my partner. I’ve had vanilla partners before just like I had subs before. When the occasion arises and my partner proudly and casually mentions being my sub, it goes without saying my instincts will kick in and our pda will change accordingly. Some of our friends are very well aware he’s my sub, others are not. When I “came out” people’s reactions went from why am I not surprised to whatever rocks your boat, babe to so, you have whips and shit? to mad respect for owning who you are. There was nothing but acceptance and respect. [...]

By |2018-01-25T12:26:53-08:00January 25th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

I am new & exploring being a domaninat. Is there any suggestions or guidance you would be able to give? I would like to be well informed & learn how to be stern. I feel I am much to soft. Thank you & anything would be much appreciated.

I was much too soft at the start too, so don’t worry! It’s all about confidence at the end of the day. I quite like looking at it like playing the villain in a movie. You get to be bad, you get permission to be bad, and it really is as fun as it looks. Best guidance I can give you is this one golden rule: If in doubt, be meaner. Kyle gave me that piece of advice himself when I was once struggling with some doubts about how I was Dominating him. Ultimately, subs want to feel powerless, they want you to be mean. Often, actually, a sub plays up and misbehaves specifically to challenge the Domme to strike him down [...]

By |2018-01-24T13:12:25-08:00January 24th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments