beautifulsecrets42: Okay, you have your husband, boyfriend, sub or whatever he is in the palm of your hand (instead of his own). But how can you keep him interested in pleasing you all day, everyday? You need to come up with some ideas on how you can tease him, humiliate him, or just plain make him think about getting into bed with you all day long. Here are a few ideas to get you started…While he is at work:-Make him wear a pair of woman’s panties to work under his regular clothes. Believe me, he will think about you all day…-Send him text messages at random times telling him erotic things, such as, how much you want to suck his cock, or [...]

i-love-my-keyholder-wife: Our life is quite full.  Family = lots of various kid activities. Add to that a wife that is in a masters program which includes an internship and you end up having difficulting finding personal time to develop a quality D/s FLR style relationship.  As noted in one of my earliest posts I went WAY too fast in sharing all of the things I was interested in and setting expectations unrealistically high (See Slow & Steady Wins The Race).  A few times I told her that maybe we should wait until she graduated so that we could take more time to make things work out.  She would always just say something along the lines of “just give me time - I want [...]

mschristined: Anything… We used to have quarrels about house work. Minor and light, but still quarrels. No quarrels now ? And no, not all chores are his duty, only those I tell him to do. ? ??? CLF Source: FLRmschristined: Anything… We used to have quarrels about house work. Minor and light, but still... #flrblog #flrhypnosis

mistressvaliant: obedientpetsforuse: mistressvaliant: Few men understand this. If you give me you, all of you, no games, no pretenses, all of you, I’ll give you the world. That’s what a man does, he gives his heart, his soul, his body to the woman that he loves, in return a woman gives everything to that man. Build him up, give him a safe place to be himself, listen when he speaks, let him be strong, but also allow him to be weak, protect him always, make him feel special, appreciate him, show him the pleasure that comes with letting go. It all stems from trust. Give me your time, make me feel important, cherished, worshiped. Tell me I matter. Tell me you can’t [...]

livingmyflrdream: beautifulsecrets42: Getting started I hope the information in this article is enough to get you started with this new and wonderful aspect of your marital relationship. I promised this page on getting started, but I honestly don’t have much more to say on the subject that isn’t already covered in the site. But I will try to offer something helpful here. If your husband has already told you he is interested in trying Domestic Discipline: In this case your next step is easy. Take him up on it! You’ll want to begin by sitting down with him to lay out the rules. The rules may be as simple or as complicated as you like but they must include these two primary [...]

willfullydenied: Every relationship has its own dynamics, and no advice is ever universal. Lara and I are both switchy. What works for us, may not work for others, but I still hope that our advice can help out other couples. We keep our kinky play light hearted. Even if earlier in the day she might be ruining my orgasms or slapping my junk around, we still make sure that we end the night cuddling up together, laughing at the latest episode of our favourite cartoons and shows. The most important advice we have is to always communicate with each other. Make sure you’re clear about what you want, what you enjoy and what you dislike.Things don’t always go according to plan. Sometimes [...]

willfullydenied: To be fair, Tumblr and porn in general is very visual. A giant strapon, a chastity cage with a timer set for weeks, cum and fluids flying everywhere - these all are visceral images, easy to portray with a picture or a few words. Content is catered to the audience. If the paying audience is mostly male, things will be exaggerated and portrayed from the man’s point of view. Even our understanding of what women want sexually comes from a male bias. Guys like getting their junk squeezed and tugged fast till they blow their load all over the place. Why should girls be any different?As far as porn lets on, women enjoy only two things: either hard, fast penetration or [...]

musingsofmysecretmind: Every word of this is truth Source: FLRmusingsofmysecretmind: Every word of this is truth #flrblog #flrhypnosis