The next time your husband asks for a blow job, oblige. When you get close to bringing him to orgasm, let him know that this will be the last time he ever gets a blow job unless he kisses you deeply after you finish him.  At this point he will almost agree to anything for you to finish. When he does finish, if he chickens out, do not ever give him a blow job again.  If the time comes and he is really desperate, remind him of your pact, hold strong, and say you won't do it unless he follows through this time. If he says yes, say to make sure he does not chicken out, that you will only do this if [...]