In honour of Valentines Day a flashback to TMI Tuesday of Feb 9 2026

1. List 3 benefits of living with your significant other.

1. Having someone to unzip that dress that is a bit too snug
2. Knowing that you will get honest feedback about how your outfit looks
3. Having someone around that can lift the heavy stuff

2. Have you ever reunited with a past lover and begun a relationship? Was the latest relationship as friends or lovers?

Not really. For me, once a relationship is done, I tend to move on. Being in The lifestyle means that this is not always possible. Sometimes you move in the same circles and so you run into each other at events and stuff. The difference, I guess, is that you have grown up enough to see the sexual interaction you had for what it is. Two people having fun with no emotional attachment. Well, that is the theory anyway. Sometimes you end up moving social circles because apparently there were some emotions.

3. Do you think someone is more sexy if they regularly read books or work out regularly at a gym?

The problem with all-or-nothing ideas is that they don’t leave room for too many options. If I HAD to choose, I would choose someone who looks after their body and keeps themselves looking good. If they can’t make good conversation, then they can keep their mouth shut though.

My ultimate preference is an intelligent man whose body shows that he has worked hard in his life. His physicality comes from being outdoors and doing stuff like looking after animals or building stuff.

4. How likely do you think it is that your marriage will end in divorce?

Unlikely. Like all couples, we have things to work on. But the strength of the partnership shines through when we think about things like we can get a yacht from Brisbane to Cairns without any blood being shed or any bodies being thrown overboard.

5. Who has more power in your love or romantic relationship–you or your partner?

Power is as power does. If you have power and don’t exercise it, do you still have it? Conversely, if you are not the strong one, but you act like an entitled princess, do you become the powerful one?

Bonus: Describe the best Valentine’s Day you’ve ever had.

Valentine’s Day is a commercial enterprise. With that in mind, this household takes it with a grain of salt. Has Mr Jones ever constructed a fantastical romantic experience? No. Has any other partner? No. Have I ever done that for someone? No. I guess I am the Valentine’s Day grinch.

What are your plans for Valentine’s Day?

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