Where’d You Go, Miss Vivian?

I know, boys. I have disappeared again. I do this periodically. Don’t I? It’s very bad for business. If you’re someone who pays for domination—definitely online—and probably offline too, but I don’t do that, so I can’t speak for in person dommes—there is something you should know. Paid domination is a lot of work. Yeah, yeah. I know. You’re saying, “Work? But Miss Vivian, you just lie around eating frozen grapes, and I worship you. How is that work?” It isn’t manual labor. Well, maybe in some cases. It depends how hard you hit. But it is a lot of emotional labor. It’s a lot of reading the people you talk to and catering to their fantasies, even when you don’t particularly feel [...]

By |2023-01-17T06:23:17-08:00January 17th, 2023|Categories: For Men|Tags: |0 Comments

Why Is Erotic Humiliation So Hot?

Who’s a Good Boy? Are You My Good Boy? You know what? I don’t totally know. I’m not a therapist, although sometimes I feel like one. But I will tell you a little secret. It’s possible that the reason I excel at dishing out verbal embarrassment, belittlement, chastisement, and occasionally downright scorn—is because I kind of like it myself. Now, this isn’t an invitation to any Domme breakers out there. I’ve only rarely attempted to allow anyone to erotically humiliate me, and it’s never gone very well. I think this is because the fantasies I have in my head (I’ll never tell), are so terrible that I’d never actually want to act them out—and my partners are too nice. Just calling me a [...]

By |2022-12-22T19:35:41-08:00December 22nd, 2022|Categories: For Men|Tags: |0 Comments

My Kid is Trans. I Do Online Domination. It’s Confusing.

Last year, my daughter came out as trans. I’m on a bunch of support groups for cis parents of trans kids, and I could have written about this there. I mean, I have written about various aspects of this experience there. But there are other aspects of it that get more confusing for me that I cannot talk about in vanilla spaces, because I do online domination work. And if you are not familiar with online domination work, it involves a lot of male-identifying people who like to be erotically humiliated for presenting as feminine. (Did I say that politically correctly? Basically, a lot of guys want to be treated like sissy whores who like to be fucked in their boy pussies or [...]

By |2022-12-06T09:58:24-08:00December 6th, 2022|Categories: For Men|Tags: |0 Comments

I’m a Top Sex Blogger? I’m a Top Sex Blogger!

I came in at 40 on the 100 Top Sex Blogger list for 2022 ! Not bad for someone who has almost completely ignored her blog for a long time! Maybe it’s resting on my laurels from when I was posting semi interesting material on the regular. (Sheepishly slinks away….) This is great motivation to start to actually write here again! I do have a few things coming up, so if I can manage to wade through my 20,000 spam comments that need to be moderated, perhaps I will write again! Thank you to Molly’s Daily Kiss and Chaturbate for the recognition! And congratulations to all of the other sexy bloggers on the list! I’m a Top Sex Blogger? I’m a Top [...]

By |2022-12-05T06:13:11-08:00December 5th, 2022|Categories: For Men|Tags: |0 Comments

Secret Blackmail Fantasy!

(30 Minutes) It’s time for another one of our little secret conversations. You can just relax and listen and let go. It’s okay, sweetie. I’d never tell. Or would I? What if I did tell. What if “she” found out—that you’d been listening to me, submitting for me, turning your orgasms over to me? You wouldn’t want that to happen. Would you? No. So, you’re going to be a very good boy for me—falling deeper and deeper in lust with me, needing my permission, playing with fire just for my amusement, saying my name during sex with her, fucking her FOR me, to prove how much you love being my obedient submissive pet. (Hypnosis, Homewreckin-Fantasy, Blackmail-Fantasy, Love Addiction, Goddess Worship) Secret Blackmail [...]

By |2022-10-17T04:47:00-07:00October 17th, 2022|Categories: For Men|Tags: |0 Comments

Shrinking and Selling My Husband’s Cock—Part 2!

(15 Minutes) Now that your cock is just a little nubbin, we need to set down some new rules. You’re going to be obedient oral servant from now on. Rule number one. No clothes in the house. Rule number two. You clean from now on. In fact, I want you to get started right now because we’re expecting some special guests…you ex girlfriends. They didn’t believe that I could convince you to shrink and sell your cock, and I want to show that little clitty of yours off to them. I know. It will be embarrassing. But if you’re a very good boy, I’ll let you pleasure them and worship them and maybe even let that teeny tiny dicklet of yours have a [...]

By |2022-10-16T04:47:00-07:00October 16th, 2022|Categories: For Men|Tags: |1 Comment

Shrinking and Selling My Husband’s Cock

(15 Minutes) Hi, babe! Tough day at work, huh. Well, come sit down. I want to tell you about something…interesting. Remember that fantasy you have about having a small penis. I know…you don’t REALLY have a small cock, but there’s just something about imagining that you do. Right? It makes you feel so cute and submissive. What if I told you that I’d found a magic fleshlight that REALLY could shrink your cock? And not only that—but that there were guys who would pay to buy it so theirs could get bigger? Oh, well…yes. That would mean that yours would stay permanently tiny. But they would pay a lot! Like enough that you wouldn’t have to work anymore and you could just be [...]

By |2022-10-15T04:47:00-07:00October 15th, 2022|Categories: For Men|Tags: |0 Comments

Becoming My Cock Sucking Beta Boy

(10 Minutes) It must be hard being such a pathetic little loser that you can’t get off except when you think about sucking cock. Hmmm? Especially when you know it’s just because you wish you could be worshipping a strong, powerful woman like me? But a little bitch like you? Sweetie, you know you’d be lucky to be allowed to worship my feet…let alone my pussy. You know that’s not for you. No. But it would amuse me to watch you sucking the nice big fat cock of a real man just for the privilege of getting to kiss those pretty feet of mine. So open up, beta boy, and be a good little cuck. If you do a good job, maybe I’ll [...]

By |2022-10-14T04:47:00-07:00October 14th, 2022|Categories: For Men|Tags: |0 Comments

Premie Listens to His Wife Get the Fucking She Needs

(10 Minutes) Oh….wow…that was quick. I know that sometimes guys get excited when they’re swapping partners. It happens. It’s totally fine. I’m sure it’s unusual for you. Oh….it’s not? Well, it certainly does sound like your wife is having fun with my husband. Wow. That’s some impressive moaning. Does she always sound like that when she’s getting a good fucking? I guess you wouldn’t know, huh. I wondered why she was so eager. She really needed this–Didn’t she? If you always come so quickly? My husband? Oh, he can last for a long time. Missionary. Doggie. Woman on top. He likes to get in at least one orgasm for her in every position. Awww. Don’t be embarrassed. Maybe it’s better this way. At [...]

By |2022-10-13T04:47:00-07:00October 13th, 2022|Categories: For Men|Tags: |0 Comments

You Gave It a Good Try! Premature Ejaculation Sweet Humiliation

(10 Minutes) I know this might be difficult to hear. But as your wife’s best friend, I feel like I need to be honest—for her sake. Look. You’re a good guy. And I know you try really hard. But the thing is that I know…you know about what. About your little…problem. About how quickly you cum? Like two minutes on a good day. Of course she’s not going to tell you how much it bothers her. She loves you. And yeah. You give good oral but, let’s face it. Sometimes she just needs a good dicking, honey. And you know you can’t handle that. I think that if you’re honest with yourself—like deep down—you know that she deserves more. So, I have some [...]

By |2022-10-12T10:11:00-07:00October 12th, 2022|Categories: For Men|Tags: |0 Comments