I get a lot of email from my blog readers. Mostly older men (my readership is almost 90% men, and 65% of the men are over 45 years old). I love these emails. I've received thousands since I've started my blog. I try to answer each one. Sometimes they get a bit lost in the inbox, and if so I apologize and please remind me!Many times my boys like to share with me their hopes and their experiences. There's not a lot of people they can talk to about these sorts of things, and submissive men I think feel much more comfortable sharing these things with a sympathetic non-judgmental and accepting top woman. I suspect they also get a little thrill from it [...]

Are there any words in the English language that can get a spankos heart racing more than the phrase "A Bare Naked Over-the-Knee Public Spanking?"But that is exactly what I received during my last adventure, Punished by Mistress Violet. If you have not read it yet, you simply must.There was a lot of playfulness, a lot of sexiness, a lot of role-playing, a lot of communications, and a lot of mutual consent. But bubbling underneath the surface, powering all of that, was a legitimate punishment spanking.I never really fully understood this dynamic before. Oh, I could have explained it to you before, and used it effectively, but I didn't really understand it before. Now I think I do more so.In my blog, I [...]

Well, it happened! A very wonderful three-way scene with my david and Mistress Violet Mays. My bottom got toasted and she popped my girl-cherry as well!!!! (david had fun also)As I described in Outed to Mistress Violet!, this Toronto-based Pro Domme, Mistress Violet Mays  with whom david and I have played a couple of times under our real names, contacted me out of the blue through my Julie account, playfully "scolding" me for having described our scenes without asking her permission. Long and short of it, we set up a session where we would co-top david, but then where the tables would be turned on me as "punishment".We needed a pretext for the table-turning (as david does not know about the blog), so [...]

It's true! First time ever. Outed!!!! Though person doing the "outing" is very responsible and will be discrete, I am positive.  This is how it happened and what the fallout will be.I received the following email the other day to my strictjulie account:Dear Julie, A while back (about two weeks now) I was turned onto your blog by a regular client of mine. He's been a fan of yours for quite some time, but I had never before come across the blog myself. I admit that I was sucked in by the kinky adventures as well as the writing style, and found myself glued to the pages as I scrolled along. After reading I did locate a couple of entries that seemed uncannily [...]

As related in my last blog post, e-Subbie's First Assignment, I gave a new eSubbie my standard first assignment. As it turned out, however, he had not been completely forthcoming with me regarding his previous experience, and as a result it made me seem unoriginal.I solicited some ideas for punishment, and from those synthesized my response. Previously t had written an abject letter of apology to me after he had read my blog post. I told him I was teasing him. He wrote me another email where he seemed relieved by that, and referred to us as "BFF's now". He referred to me as "Julie" and asked if it was correct o lower case his name. Here was my response:Yes t, of course [...]

I every now and then receive requests from my readers e-Domme them a bit. Always happy to do so. Today's little victim we shall call t. t pissed me off a bit by not telling me enough about his background, so he is being punished by me. His punishment is that I am not replying to his email privately, but rather will reply to it publicly here. I am hoping you readers will help me to chide t for his deceitful behaviour.First, for context, here was his initial e-mail to me:Julie -  hi! Enjoy your blog, even though I'm just a lurker.  :-) I thought I'd take the plunge and ask for an assignment from you.  Nothing too bad, please -  I've never done [...]

One of my favourite bloggers, Vanessa Chaland at Queening Chairs just posted two rather exhibitionist videos!!!In the first, Force Masturbation - Cuckold Training - Humiliation Video she is seen bare naked with her cucky in front of her.He is being instructed to masturbate for her. He is told to ruin his orgasm and to deposit his sperm where she is pointing. He must then get down on his knees and lick it all up and swallow it so he can "get used to the taste" for when she has her boyfriends over later.If that wasn't enough (!), Naughty Vanessa posts a second video, Letting My Cuckold Fuck Me Video, where her lucky cucky gets to spend six whole minutes fucking his Queen who [...]

The other day my husband came to me and admitted to a recent and very embarrassing actual wrong-doing. He requested punishment from me, and I obliged him, involving my sister as well, and even a friend of hers. Because it related to his crime, and many of my blog readers are interested in it, I chose to extend his punishment with a weekend-long diapering, together with all that entails.This is how it happened.He came to me and said, "I got into trouble today at my massage..."My husband takes legitimate registered massage therapy from a woman we shall call Sarah here. He's been going to her regularly every couple of weeks for almost ten years. It helps him to avoid seizing up around the [...]

As I began recounting in Tucked Husband Fucked in Front of Sister-in-Law, my sister Sue wanted kink, so I obliged. I made my husband shave from stocking tops to head, taped his genitals away with packing tape, drew a vagina in magic marker on his pubic area, dressed him and made him up thoroughly as a woman, and had him serve us on his tiptoes and with a vibrating butt plug inserted and taped into place. Here was his outfit for the evening.After dinner I promised him a paddling (to tears) in front of Sue, followed by a display of cock sucking on his knees, and then by a good fucking. I told him I wanted to see him put on a real [...]

My older sister Sue texted me the other day and said "I need some kink."Well, she came to the right place! I called her and asked her what she had in mind. She said she'd leave it to me, but that she desperately needed to see a man put in his place. Yup, definitely came to the right place!So, I thought about it. I decided david would be put en femme, would serve us a meal and tidy up, and then suffer through a spanking across my knee followed up with a very thorough session of anal intercourse courtesy my strap-on dildo, all with Sue watching.I also had another idea that had been tumbling around in my evil little brain for a while... [...]