Well summer has finally arrived in Canada-land. My husband and I were outside cleaning up the patio. We had just bought a fancy new garden hose as our old one had sprung leaks. His job was to hook it up and figure out how it worked. Not so easy as it is an "X Hose". First you turn on the water, and the hose expands. And then you flip a valve, and the water flows. Very complicated for a hose.I was doing some planting and must have looked very hot and sweaty, so my darling, darling husband thought it would be "fun" to try out the new hose on me. He didn't drench me or anything. It was just a quick squirt that [...]

A very sexy scene the other night that started out with a potentially missing wallet...david was at work, it was midday, and he had gone out by himself to grab a quick standup lunch. That's when he noticed that his wallet was missing. I'm sure most of you are familiar with that sinking feeling. He thought back to where it could possibly be. He and I had gone out the night before and he remembered getting some cash out of his wallet to pay for parking. Sometimes he is careless with his wallet in that situation, and just throws it into the door pocket. He thought it might be there but he was not at all confident in that.So he hurried back to [...]

For some reason, recently I have gotten into comment exchanges regarding my being "overly sadistic" with my david, and risk harming him psychologically. Other choice comments are "If I find out my wife was capable of doing that to me, or that she was turned on by seeing me in that state, I would get rid of her in a hot second." and "In other words, even if I said I wanted that, I would not feel good knowing that she enjoyed it."While my first thought was that point of view is narrow minded and intolerant for an ostensibly kinky person, I decided to cover my bases by checking in with david on the severity level of his spankings.So quite outside of any [...]

My 'lill sketch slut asked if he could interview me and if I would post the responses on my blog. Happy to!1. How early on did you discover your own kinks, were their early life experiences where you look back and think: 'That was one of the first times my response was definitely dommy!'?I didn't know I was for sure kinky in this way until my husband asked me to spank him about five years ago.  But I was kinky in other ways, for sure. One man asked me to pee on him when I was quite young. I did it and found I enjoyed it a lot. He even licked me as I was peeing and that felt soooo good! For some [...]

A couple of notable communications lately from bloggy readers.Glenmore I received an email from a fellow blogger Glenmore who is both a story-writer and an artist. I have him linked in my blog role to the right. the blog is called Glenmore's Adult Spanking Stories & Comics. It features many illustrated stories. He wanted to let me know that one of them was inspired by my blog! It is Bathbrush Encounter - Illustrated FM Spanking Story. He says "Reading blogs like yours gives me lots of ideas and inspiration, so I have written an illustrated story which is loosely based on your various adventures." With Glennies permission I include a few of the images from that story... I think you will be able [...]

I took david to the mall the other day to buy some pants. He was down to just two ratty pairs of more casual pants so he really needed more. He kept putting it off and so I just took him. And you know with me there will always be some adventure involved. I did not disappoint.We got to the mall and he was instantly surly. What's with males and clothes shopping anyways????  I guess it did not help that parking was a nightmare. We went into one shop, but they didn't have anything suitable. I saw another shop and I headed in there. david complained that it was no good before we even got in. I had to practically drag him in. [...]

It was very interesting allowing the sorts of comments I received on the My Spanked Bottom post. Lots of subbie guys saying what they would do to me if given half a chance. I played along in my responses, and it was tolerable only in the sense where I disassociate it from me being the sub, and instead just collect ideas as a Domme and then imagine my own sub's reactions to being treated like that. If I ever flipped the switch, and thought of myself as the sub I just got very annoyed at the males, and thought "Really? Really that's what you want to do to me? To a dominant woman? Really? Disgusting."To get rid of that nasty taste, I suggested [...]

One of the joys of my "job" as Blog Mistress is to direct subbie bois who email me to do embarrassing and painful things to themselves, and then send me the most humiliating photos proving it. I then ask if I can publish them, and more often than not they cannot refuse (or don't really want to - getting off on the humiliation of a public exposure here - which is all part of their "punishment").Case in point. eSubbie kim who wrote to me asking,I've noticed you have given a few email instructions from the comments following your blogs. It would be amazing if you were able to Dom me in some way. Well, it's so easy to oblige such a polite boi, [...]

An impromptu scene came up the other day that involved david's trainer severely blistering his ass with my little hardwood paddle. He's always wanted a "real" spanking, so I thought I would see if I could make that happen.His trainer does not know how much of our kinky relationship is play, and how much is real-life FLR. She thinks it's a mix, and I like to keep her guessing.But the real life spanking thing is not at all how this scene started. The thing started with me deciding that david needed to get an exercise session in all femmed up. I spent a bit of time pulling The Art of lill jo page together and one of the images called to me.I let [...]

I had sex with my husband the other day. It was a "69", but "girl style" for him, and it got him spanked.We went to bed a bit early. Put on some music. We got naked as two little bunnies, got under the covers, and started kissing and fondling one another.I whispered to him to put his butt plug in. We keep it charging by the side of the bed. It has a little button that I can push to make it vibrate and I can control its intensity. This drives him wild when combined with other stimulus. He got his butt plug and some lube, and I watched intently as he strained and popped it in.I picked up the baby oil I [...]