Below is a post from Debbie in response to my original post on "The Happy House Husband."  Enjoy!  (Thanks Debbie!)David has long been doing the household chores. He does the vacuuming, dusting, cleaning, washing, and ironing, in addition to taking care of my mother and sister. He's a submissive do his doing chores is not only beneficial to me but it is a point of fulfillment and pride to him. I seldom compliment him on the cleanness of the house or the perfection of the pleats he's just ironed but when I do it's obviously very satisfying to him. It motivates him to do even more. A piece of advice though, Women shouldn't be complimenting or thinking their husbands too often; why should [...]

In an earlier post, a reader commented how it was obvious his friend was in a FLM because he was afraid to let his wife know how much he paid for a stereo, fearing his wife's disapproval.  Below, our guest contributor, David share some real life experiences of his own. Thanks for sharing David. In our home Ms. Debbie doesn't permit me to make major purchases without her knowledge or participation. The last item she permitted me to select was a new iron; of course she deferred to me since, in our home, I do all the ironing so she let me chose. It was funny but we went into three stores and at each one the sales person originally directed their sales pitch [...]

Please welcome our next guest poster, Debbie. Debbie was kind enough to share some background about her WLM with her husband David and their early foray into cuckolding. Thanks Debbie! Enjoy.....I'm in a woman-led marriage with my submissive husband, David. I'm not new to femdom. My mother and aunt exercised iron clad authority telling their husbands what to do, how to do it, and when. And if their husbands didn't follow suit there was absolute hell to pay. Neither my mom or aunt worked outside the home but they didn't work inside the home either. Mom didn't do housework; she'd say she didn't want to risk breaking a nail doing something that her husband should be doing. Chores were strictly the responsibility of [...]

It has been several weeks since I assigned full laundry duty to Thomas.  Laundry is the last of the "big" chores that I was still doing.  I say "big" because of the time commitment involved with keeping up with laundry in a house of 4 people. I have to admit I was concerned about putting too much work on him but it has all worked out well.  He had a few slips ups in the beginning but now he is in a good routine and I have not had to help at all for the last few weeks. What is fascinating to me is that he seems happy and proud of taking on this responsibility. If this scenario played out in a traditional [...]

It makes me very happy that we have had so many people submit guest posts and that many of you are commenting on the posts. The comments are just as important as the posts. Often times it is in the comments where we learn the most and where there is discussion that make us think deeper into a subject. For me, comments are also rewarding and motivation to continue posting. It takes a lot of thought and time to write a good post and when I post something I am hopeful that others will see value in it and comment on it. I am sure the guest writers feel the same way.I truly appreciate the contributions from our guest writers. It is great [...]

I am very grateful to Mary for sharing the below post. Her and I have been corresponding for quite a while and I know she has ventured into cuckolding with her husband.  There's been some discussion in the comments of previous posts about cuckolding and so I asked her if she could write about her experience with it. I am sure you will enjoy this post. Thanks for taking the time to write this post Mary!  -KayleeFemale Dominance and "Cuckolding"In truth I was always pretty "dominant" with guys. I think I was just that way from the very start. I guess I liked the feeling of "directing" guys.  I did not really think about it all that much back then - high school, [...]

My husband had his second mindfuck orgasm last night!!!I call it a mindfuck orgasm when his physical orgasm occurs spontaneously with absolutely and completely no sort of physical contact to either his cock or ass or any other part of his body when that occurs. His cock is fully locked up in his chastity device when this happens and he has not received any sort of direct physical stimulation in the immediate time leading up to that event. His orgasm just sort of occurs out of the blue as a natural result of sexual over stimulation to his mental faculties after he has been denied physical orgasms for an extended period of time.The first and only other time he had one of these [...]

Below is a guest post from Ron S, who is currently in a FLR with his wife and is a new guest writer on the blog. Enjoy.  -Mz KayleeAre All Women suitable for a FLR?For all the men that desire to have their women lead the relationship, you have to first ask yourself, is she capable of doing so? Let’s examine some crucial points that are important for that to happen. First, and foremost, is that she should love you. It is the love she has for you that would make her even want to consider leading, and It is recognizing that love, that enables one to consider giving up control.She should be intelligent and well educated with good problem solving and decision [...]

With the New Year approaching, I can't help but reflect back on the past year. 2018 was a wonderful year for me in my female led relationship (FLR) with my husband; there was positive changes and growth for both of us.The biggest area of growth for me was in being able to keep a consistent level of control and authority over Thomas throughout the year. There are times during the year when I get busy with work and other activities. I have always been challenged with exerting my leadership with Thomas during these times because I get so caught up in work and activities that I start to neglect him and we have less intimate time together. The effect on him is that [...]

Please welcome a new guest writer, Diana. In the post below Diana talks about defining general roles and the idea of a society where FLR/femdom is more mainstream. I've not thought too much about a FLR driven society. This topic was also touched on the last post. I'm thrilled that others are bringing fresh ideas for discussion to the Think Tank.  Thanks Diana for your sharing your opinions on this..... KayleeNew Gender Roles of the XXI Century (By Diana)I think to have a sane society based on Female Authority and modeled after Female Role Models, Girls and Women should be encouraged to lead, be outgoing and even somewhat competitive (but the Female way is that of cooperation, not competition, so not too much [...]