I’ve said this before, but you know, it bears repeating: people, particularly women, notice when you can’t be bothered to talk to anyone you don’t want to fuck and we hate it. That’s not the only reason you should talk to people who aren’t hot dominant women or who *gasp* are dominant women but don’t particularly turn you on, though. First of all, people have friends. If you’re not a dick, they might introduce you to said friends. I don’t know why this doesn’t occur to more people – do you think everyone you see at a munch or play party is secretly a robot who goes straight home afterward and plugs themselves into their charging station? To be fair, it is normal to [...]

Thank you whoever found my blog by searching for “how do i know if i’m masochistic or just submissive?” that’s a really good question It’s really easy to mix these up and depending on how you define “masochistic” there’s a lot of gray area. I personally like Carolyn’s definition, which is that masochistic just means that you can use pain to get where you want to go. It doesn’t mean you enjoy the sensation of pain, just that you have reasons for wanting to experience it. Some people really enjoy the endorphin rush from a good beating, some people love the way pain gets them out of their heads and into their bodies, some people like to see how much they can take [...]

In case you had better things to do all week than check my blog for updates every single day, I did another spite week of posts that have nothing to do with my kink. In order, they are: Spite week returns!Spite week: cocktails!Spite week: homesick for AzerothSpite week: sacred moon time my pasty white assSpite week: weird spooky fictionSpite week: the message podcast Enjoy, and remember that I, like all dominant women, am a human fucking being who has interests that have nothing to do with my kink. Source: Not Just Bitchy Spite week: recaphttps://www.femdomtraining.ca/spite-week-recap/

My husband recommended The Message podcast to me and now I’m recommending it to you It’s more of an audio miniseries than a regular podcast, which I actually quite like because there’s a defined story that ends. It’s pretty short, you can burn through the whole thing in an evening if you need to know what happens next. The Message is a sort of sci-fi thriller about a message received from outer space. That kills people who listen to it too much. Enjoy! Source: Not Just Bitchy Spite week: the message podcasthttps://www.femdomtraining.ca/spite-week-the-message-podcast/

Lately I’ve really been enjoying North of Reality, a delightfully odd and sometimes creepy short fiction site. It’s written by Uel Aramchek, who turns out weird little stories remarkably consistently. Some of my favourites are With Bourbon and Lemon Juice, Saguaro Dreams, Baraqel’s Prism, The Gravedigger’s Alamanac, and Thirteen Experiments Involving Parrots. Source: Not Just Bitchy Spite week: weird spooky fictionhttps://www.femdomtraining.ca/spite-week-weird-spooky-fiction/

Weirdly, I fucking love this ad: Doing anything but lying in a sad little heap cuddling a heating pad and grimly swallowing painkillers while you’re on your period is pretty fucking badass and people who menstruate deserve more credit for that. I don’t actually want to be mean to the weirdos out there who for some reason enjoy bleeding from their genitals, so I’m going to put the rest of this post behind a read more tag. If you’ve ever un-ironically said “sacred blood,” don’t click through. Sadly, on the article where I saw that video some fucking hippie who was clearly tripping balls replied to a comment about how that video was very different from the usual terrible cliched ads with: True but another [...]