So you want your wife or girlfriend to dominate you...what do you do next? The questions comes up often on my blog, how do I get my wife or girlfriend to dominate me?The biggest mistake that most guys make when asking their wife to dominate them is to make it all about themselves.  “I want to you to dominate me…..I want you to control my orgasms…..I will do whatever you want.” Guys just assume the wife is going to enjoy dominating them. There are two major problems with this approach: 1) Your wife probably does not know what it means to dominate you, and 2) Most women do not get the same pleasure out of domination that guys get out of being dominated. [...]

Guided masturbation is an exciting and fun way to exert dominance over your husband. All boys have spent many years masturbating themselves exactly they way the want in order to achieve self-pleasure and orgasm. To suddenly find themselves standing before you naked and masturbating according to your commands is thrilling for them and as they quickly discover, very challenging. There are two simple rules he must follow: 1) Follow your orders exactly and 2) Do not orgasm unless given permission. These two rules force him into a strange new position that will no doubt fuck his mind inside and out until it is mush. He is used to stroking any way he wants with the goal of achieving orgasm but now all the dynamics [...]

I've learned a lot about the submissive mind over the years. I've become quite good at understanding how to push my husband's hot buttons, knowing what things drive him wild, and anticipating how he will react to various things. Like a well trained Ferrari driver, I can take his arousal from 0 to 60 in seconds and hold him there without letting him spin out of control. Controlling him and getting him to do what I want is second nature to me now. While I may know how to do all this, I still find the submissive mind to be a mystery. The biggest mystery being 'why does he react the way he does? Why does being forced to wear panties turn him [...]

There is nothing to those so connected and committed … so precious andpure … as the most reverent and sacred kiss of a foot. It embodies all that isessential and right, not only of egoless worship, but also unabashed adoration.Bent forward and down, lips softly caress the bare and flawless top, just beforeexquisite toes. They linger there as long as allowed, savoring the sublime scentand taste, before a subtle bob silently commands them onward. They slowlytraverse the length and breath, inspiring above ever increasing tingles of powerand sovereignty … along the side, around the heel, to the arch and then the sole,finally coming once again, now to the bottoms of those most divine toes. Withgreat beneficence, permission is granted to fully lave and [...]

Thanksgiving is a wonderful time to pause from the day-to-day activities, take a step back and appreciate the good things in life.  For the dominant wife, it is an opportune time to show off your well-trained husband in front of your family and friends. This does not have to be done in an aggressive or overt way, although some of you may enjoy the public display of control. Actions speak louder than words. The well-trained husband will serve his wife and guests, with particular attention to the women, without being told. He will clean this house in preparation for guests, set the table, clean the table, and do the dishes. He will give special attention to the female guests, ensuring they have drinks, [...]

How your day starts often sets the tone for the rest of your day. If you have a very positive experience in the morning, it can energize you and put you in a great mood for the rest of the day. Likewise, a bad experience can ruin your day and make you feel miserable. Most people tend to create morning routines to start the day, especially during the work week. This helps with getting to work on time, being productive, and not forgetting things. Some people, like me have the quick and easy routing of waking up at the same time every morning, getting dressed, drinking the first cup of coffee, eating breakfast, and heading out to work.  Others will get up early [...]

Several of the topic suggestions from my last post were related to the 24/7 Wife Led Marriage (WLM) lifestyle and how it works. There are many facets to the lifestyle and addressing them all in one post is not possible. My blog is a good resource for learning about the lifestyle so if you are interested in how it works, then it is worth your time to go back and read the older posts. In this post I will touch on some of the key aspects. For many of you a WLM is a fantasy and may seem like it could never be reality. Others may view WLM as crazy and not realistic. I absolutely can relate, because I remember reading about the [...]

It is fun to fantasize and imagine what could be, even though it may never be...or who knows maybe your fantasies will come true. In the spirit of this fun, I have added a new section to my blog for erotic stories.  Just look to the menus on the right, page down, and you will see it.Thank you to "Onewhoadores" for being the first contributor to this section. If you would like to submit an erotic story, send it to mzkaylee101@gmail.com and let me know what name you would like it published under.Please note that I will not be editing stories. They will be published "as-is" so take the time to spell check, format, and edit your submission prior to sending to me.This [...]

There are many reasons why women involved in an female led relationship may incorporate tools into the relationship such as orgasm management, chastity, pegging, and discipline. Most of those reasons I’ve already detailed in some of my previous posts on this site, and those previously discussed items revolve around enhancing sexual and domestic enjoyment for both partners in the relationship. What I have not touched upon in those previous posts are some additional, not widely discussed, more practical reasons why the female partner and for that matter also the male partner, may find benefit from using these FLR practices.As we all know many men, particularly those of middle aged years and beyond, but also surprisingly large numbers of younger men, experience various issues [...]