When it comes to winter time, one of my favorite things about having a slave husband is that he keeps my car warm for me. On cold mornings he gets up, starts my car and makes sure all snow or ice is cleared away before I leave for work. He is also required to place my work bag in the care for me. This past weekend it was very cold outside and so I made him drive me around for errands that I had to do. At each place, he dropped me off and picked me up at the door. While I was inside he remained in the car and kept it warm for me. That was his only purpose for me. I [...]

A few reminders about this blog:1 You are welcome and encouraged to submit guest posts on topics related to wife led marriage, female led relationships, and female domination in general.  Please make sure your posts are thoughtfully written and spell checked before submitting. Posts can be sent to MzKaylee101@gmail.com. Include a Title with your post and how you want your name to appear.2. I encourage you to complete a profile page, which is a Q&A template about you. Profile pages are in the margin on the right side of the blog. The template is at the top of the list. Simply fill it out and e-mail to MzKaylee101@gmail.com. I also suggest that you read the existing profiles. There is a lot of great [...]

In this post, I will address one of the topics brought up in my Topic Ideas post: https://femdomthinktank.blogspot.com/2021/10/topic-ideas.html .Suggested topic: "The role of a male chastity cage in and FLR.. Is it really a necessity? Is voluntary chastity acceptable or do you feel the man will always cheat?"Before addressing the questions posed, it will help to provide some background information on chastity for those who are not familiar with it. Chastity, by strict definition is the refrain from having sex. While most WLM/FLR couples do not enforce 100% chastity, it is very common for couples to use chastity as a tool to control when the male can have sex and also to prevent him from masturbating. This is typically referred to as orgasm control. Orgasm [...]

It seems to be a tradition for me to write a New Year's post as a reminder to include your Wife Led Marriage (WLM)/ Female Led Relationship (FLR) in your 2022 goal planning and 2022 resolutions. This is the time of year that many people look forward to the coming year and think about what will they do better and how will they improve as a person. CNN recently shared the top resolutions for 2022. Drum roll please......Exercise moreEat healthierBe a better personSave more moneySpend more time with familyGet a new jobQuit smokinghttps://www.cnn.com/videos/us/2021/12/24/new-years-resolutions-ath-enten-vpx.cnnNothing surprising here, is there? These are the typical ones you hear year-after-year. Wouldn't it be great if people thought about resolutions for their marriage?  It's not something I ever thought [...]

So you want your wife or girlfriend to dominate you...what do you do next? The questions comes up often on my blog, how do I get my wife or girlfriend to dominate me?The biggest mistake that most guys make when asking their wife to dominate them is to make it all about themselves.  “I want to you to dominate me…..I want you to control my orgasms…..I will do whatever you want.” Guys just assume the wife is going to enjoy dominating them. There are two major problems with this approach: 1) Your wife probably does not know what it means to dominate you, and 2) Most women do not get the same pleasure out of domination that guys get out of being dominated. [...]

Guided masturbation is an exciting and fun way to exert dominance over your husband. All boys have spent many years masturbating themselves exactly they way the want in order to achieve self-pleasure and orgasm. To suddenly find themselves standing before you naked and masturbating according to your commands is thrilling for them and as they quickly discover, very challenging. There are two simple rules he must follow: 1) Follow your orders exactly and 2) Do not orgasm unless given permission. These two rules force him into a strange new position that will no doubt fuck his mind inside and out until it is mush. He is used to stroking any way he wants with the goal of achieving orgasm but now all the dynamics [...]

I've learned a lot about the submissive mind over the years. I've become quite good at understanding how to push my husband's hot buttons, knowing what things drive him wild, and anticipating how he will react to various things. Like a well trained Ferrari driver, I can take his arousal from 0 to 60 in seconds and hold him there without letting him spin out of control. Controlling him and getting him to do what I want is second nature to me now. While I may know how to do all this, I still find the submissive mind to be a mystery. The biggest mystery being 'why does he react the way he does? Why does being forced to wear panties turn him [...]

There is nothing to those so connected and committed … so precious andpure … as the most reverent and sacred kiss of a foot. It embodies all that isessential and right, not only of egoless worship, but also unabashed adoration.Bent forward and down, lips softly caress the bare and flawless top, just beforeexquisite toes. They linger there as long as allowed, savoring the sublime scentand taste, before a subtle bob silently commands them onward. They slowlytraverse the length and breath, inspiring above ever increasing tingles of powerand sovereignty … along the side, around the heel, to the arch and then the sole,finally coming once again, now to the bottoms of those most divine toes. Withgreat beneficence, permission is granted to fully lave and [...]

Thanksgiving is a wonderful time to pause from the day-to-day activities, take a step back and appreciate the good things in life.  For the dominant wife, it is an opportune time to show off your well-trained husband in front of your family and friends. This does not have to be done in an aggressive or overt way, although some of you may enjoy the public display of control. Actions speak louder than words. The well-trained husband will serve his wife and guests, with particular attention to the women, without being told. He will clean this house in preparation for guests, set the table, clean the table, and do the dishes. He will give special attention to the female guests, ensuring they have drinks, [...]

How your day starts often sets the tone for the rest of your day. If you have a very positive experience in the morning, it can energize you and put you in a great mood for the rest of the day. Likewise, a bad experience can ruin your day and make you feel miserable. Most people tend to create morning routines to start the day, especially during the work week. This helps with getting to work on time, being productive, and not forgetting things. Some people, like me have the quick and easy routing of waking up at the same time every morning, getting dressed, drinking the first cup of coffee, eating breakfast, and heading out to work.  Others will get up early [...]