Welcome to another edition of Filthy Questions. If you are interested you can find my source of inspiration at the blog of Alex McDonald.

32. Have you ever propositioned a total stranger?

This is an interesting idea. I have had sex with people whose names I never found out. I have had sex with people I just met before we exchanged details. Is this having sex with a stranger? Technically yes but I guess it feels a bit like a cop out. We both went to a place where this was normal behaviour. We both knew that was what we were there for. It is a bit of a swinger fantasy to go to a regular vanilla bar and pick up someone. I have never been brave enough to do that.

33. What does your ideal one-night stand look like?

These days I am not much into one-night stands. I am all about connection. I want a one year stand. Or even a five-year stand. I want a connection / arrangement / friendship that is about passionate sex when our lives intersect. To get truly hot sex, there has to be familiarity. Understanding of which buttons work the best and how to read the person to know when to slow down and when to speed up. This doesn't come in a one-night stand.

34. How long does it take to get yourself off on average?

Not usually that long. Often when I masturbate, the itch is strong, and I take the shortest route to climax. Maybe one day I will have the time and space to learn to edge myself and really make a meal out of a self-pleasure session.

35. What is the weirdest thing that turns you on?

I am a swinger. I write about sex. I read about sex. Many things that other people think are weird, I think are normal. So here are some things that turn me on that maybe some of you think are weird.

• Sex: having good sex is satisfying, but it also seems to make my pussy hum in a way that makes me want more.
• The sound of a man orgasming: Not fake porn orgasms but genuine orgasms from someone I am fucking. OMFG!! so hot. In the past, I have recorded sessions and listened to his climax over and over again.
• V-lines on men: The sexiest thing on a man's body. Just makes me want to run my tongue over it and see where it leads.