Online Slave Training For those that can’t session in person or simply want to start or continue ongoing training via a digital format, the following online options are available. Click the links for more information about each program. Email/task program – $100 per week or $350 per month – most popular Keyholding and online chastity programs – $100 – $475 per month Skype or Zoom sessions – video calls – $90 per 30 minutes Phone sessions – $60 per 30 minutes Custom Audio – $100 up to 20 minutes in length Custom FemDom POV Video – $200 up to 20 minutes in length Online training works extremely well for a variety of submissive types and interests including chastity training, orgasm control,  JOI, cum play, anal [...]

Image by StockSnap from Pixabay   The concept of being cuckolded is quite common among men.  I hear it a lot in My industry – men fantasizing about their wives being with other men.  I agree it’s a hot fantasy but in practice I advise against it.   So much can go wrong that can end up tearing a couple apart, but it doesn’t mean you can’t safely enjoy the fantasy.  It just takes effort and imagination. While doing some distance training with a couple it was revealed that the man had a long held cuckold fantasy and that the wife was resistant.  I gave them My stock advice to keep it in the fantasy realm but I also coached them on how to [...]

Chastity Keyholding for serious submission In order for Me to be your keyholder you must be serious about being in chastity and be willing to give up control of your orgasms for a negotiated period of time.  If you are looking for someone to lock you up so you can then beg for release in a few hours or days, that is chastity fetish play, and this program is not for you. Chastity Key Holding programs: Basic key holding – $100 per month Limited interaction.  One ordered orgasm per month.   Intermediate key holding –  $250 per  month Interaction every 10 days with specific instructions when unlocked.  Membership to My FemDom video content site, AynRules.com,  Exposure on social media (if negotiated).  One supervised [...]

There is serious chastity and there is play chastity.  Chastity fetish play is just that, play.  If you are looking for someone to control your orgasms on a short term basis to make you excited, enhance your libido and then listen to you beg – then short term chastity fetish play is for you. I often use this type of orgasm control prior to a session.  A submissive locks up a few days (to a few weeks) prior to serving Me in person.  I tease him and deny him by making him look at photos or videos of Me, unable to touch, and he soon becomes desperate to do as I command.   It keeps the sub focused on his upcoming service and puts [...]

Image by Free-Photos from Pixabay As a professional Dominant the only thing I have for sale is My time.  Unfortunately too many want to steal it.  By stealing I mean: Calling to discuss your kinks, ask questions that are available on My website or just chat.  I charge for those types of calls and have a NiteFlirt account set up just for this purpose.  I stopped answering My phone because 9 out of 10 callers are there to attempt to steal. Emailing and requesting an extended session (Dommes are going to be really nice to you if you dangle a 3-4 hour session in front of them, right?) in the future and then attempting to ask questions, exchange photos, etc. leading up to [...]

Installment #24 – My first overnight Hush training session  – by slaveboy jaime The Hush is a vibrating anal plug that offers control at both close range and long distance.  This means that Mistress Ayn can order me to insert the Hush and play in the privacy of Her FemDom Mansion but also to take control when She is 700 miles away.  She can create patterns or order me to access established patterns of vibration at varying speed.  A few initial sessions showed me that the Hush was a safe, exhilarating, and addictive anal play toy. The use of the Hush took a dramatic step forward when Mistress Ayn ordered me to insert the Hush late one night and then go to bed [...]

I work extensively with couples so when one of My regular couples contacted Me about distance training during COVID, I jumped at the chance to have this experience together.   We agreed that the month of training would be a combination of My controlling them while coaching and pushing them to create more exciting scenes with each other.  Because they are Switches we were able to pass the baton of domination back and forth throughout the month. We ended up with some pretty fantastic scenes that included creative build up, intense teasing and denial, pushing limits like cum eating, mind fuckery and an amazing cuckold fantasy that really had both their juices flowing.  Here are some excerpts from their review on the Buzz. “Mistress [...]

Now that things are beginning to reopen in Georgia, so am I – slowly and with additional screening and protocols in place.  I have always been a relatively low volume Domme.  My tribute is a little higher and My average session length is 2 hours, so I typically don’t see multiple subs per day – especially now.   Seeing a Domme is probably much safer than getting your haircut, going to the gym or even going to your grocery store.  The number of individuals using the facility daily is extremely small and our health consciousness and attention to detail is not something that we just adopted due to the virus. Ironically a well kept Dungeon is one of the cleanest environments you can be in.  [...]

These are different times.  For the time being, COVID-19 has put a crimp in the ability to do in person sessions.  During the lockdown it’s even been difficult for subs to find privacy to do phone and Skype sessions, but it doesn’t mean the need for submission has gone away.  If anything, shelter in place, has caused many people’s kink to resurface or get stronger.  As a stop gap measure, I started offering email/task sessions and amazingly both the participants and I have found it to be more fun than we anticipated.  The frequent check ins, the control during day to day activities and the general naughtiness of it has not only been entertaining but it has brought Me closer to many of [...]

Installment #23 – The Role of Fear in Our (Mistress Ayn-slaveboy) Relationship In most relationships (as in life) fear is something that is desperately avoided.  Generally, fear is understood as a weak emotion that should be controlled.  Yet, i am learning in my relationship as Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy that fear is something that must be embraced. In O/our relationship, my fear spawns from the reality that Mistress Ayn is completely in control of all things, especially what happens to me.  Even long distance, She dictates chastity release, panties wearing, nipple piercings, anal play, and so much more.  When in Her presence, She determines what i eat and drink, wear, behave, whom i serve, and so much more.  She decides everything and i simply [...]