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If you have found this series for the first time.  Stop reading and begin here.

At this time Immediately change your affirmations and daily spankings to Level 3

Lets recap, to make sure you are ready for this step.

By now, your husband should be doing most of the dishes and laundry, leaving only the deeper clean stuff for you.  Don’t worry, when we are done, he will be doing it all if you wish.

You also are

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Many people that have discovered femdom leave their relationships right here.  The goal was to have a more attentive husband that paid attention to you, respected you, helps you around the house, and has become a better lover.  At this point you should have all that.

For some though, they can’t help but keeping to push the boundaries.  Often these types of relationships are initiated by the man, but the woman is the one that starts to embrace the power, and keeps pushing limits.

A word of caution.  If you want to go further than where you are at this point, be careful.  Some actions cannot be undone, and if you are thinking of doing anything that you will lose complete respect for your man, I would caution you.  It is a gift he has given you in his submission.  Especially since in your case, you were training him to do something he wasn’t really up for in the beginning.

Fortunately, many of these sissy femdom stories you read on the internet are more fantasy than reality, and most woman still crave their men to be very masculine and strong.  The things you have done up to this point only intensified your feelings towards each other, and that was the goal in the first place.

However, if you keep the next steps to fantasy, and stay monogamous in your relationship, or bring in other people and both people are willing and excited about it, then by all means.

The exercises I will tell you to do here, are not for any other reasons than to intensify control for the woman, and increase submissiveness of the male.  These things can be an incredible turn on for both parties if both consent fully to what they will experience.

Now I will divide the 3 major things in an average life, and how each should be handled at this time.

Household Chores.

1510795_origYou should be referring to your husband as your house bitch.  Be careful not to say this to other people.  His ego is still there.  You have not removed it completely yet.  But in your privacy, you should let him know that he is your house bitch, and that all chores that you want him to do, he will do, naked, and butt plugged, and he will thank you for the privilege.  Here are chores that he should master during the next few weeks.

  1. Dishes, and counter cleaning
  2. Laundry, whites, darks, bedding.
  3. Bathroom cleaning, mirrors, tubs, showers, toilets.
  4. All floors, vacuuming, and washing hard surface flooring once per week. (preferably by hand on his knees.  This actually does a better job, and makes him feel more submissive)
  5. Grocery Shopping, errand running.
  6. Taking kids to school if necessary.
  7. Anything else your household requires.

If you still want to participate in doing chores and helping out, then you should.  However, if you are getting turned on by the control, then you should not.  Your man wants you turned on.  It makes him feel good, and it makes it easier for him to take on all the chores.  It makes him feel wanted, loved, and appreciated when you are horny for him.  If making him your house bitch makes you horny, then have him do all the chores.

When he is doing a big clean, and he is on his hands and knees cleaning the hard floors, its always a good idea to wear your strap on fully clothed and walk around the house.  This will make him go crazy.  Then take him when you want to, as often as you want too.  He is your bitch now.  Make it so.

Discipline.

By now, the daily spankings should get him in the habit of wanting them.  He will actually miss them when he does not get them.

However, it is time to take this to a whole new level.

Discipline is not supposed to be fun.  It is supposed to correct unfavourable behaviour.  Therefore at this level, it is time for you to correct behaviour you are not pleased with.

Teach him now that if he displeases you with his behaviour, you will spank him as hard, and as long as you feel it takes to correct the behaviour.  This is not when he is pleading you to stop. It is when his ass is beaten to a pulp, and if you can get him to cry, then it is there.  Some men will not cry from physical pain, but you will certainly know when he has learned his lesson.

Then provide the after care that is needed with a severe beating.  If you have done this right, sitting down should hurt for a couple of days.  Save these types of spankings for when he has really done something to piss you off.

I completely submit to my wife and my life is better because of it.

Sex.

By now, this is all about your pleasure.  Your pleasure is his pleasure.  In fact, he will get as much from your orgasms as you do.  He will feel like a man knowing that he is finally being an extraordinary lover with his tongue, toys, or anything else you have taught him to do to please you.

His orgasms should be minimized.  He should never get more than once per week, and many femdom sites say even as little as once every 3 – 4 months.  He will appreciate them more the less he has them, and he will also remain under your spell the more cum he is full off.

However, it is unhealthy for sperm buildup to go unreleased for more than a month.  It can actually cause prostate cancer, so it is a good idea to become a master at prostate milking.

For the purpose of this article, we will not go into what that is or techniques.  I will write a different article later on and link to it on this page.

Basically it is the process of draining the cum via prostate stimulation from anal penetration.

The man does not experience an orgasm, but you keep him healthy and drained from time to time.  This will keep in submissive.

Also, you can learn the art of ruined orgasms.  Again, a link to it later.

The main point is that you will find the perfect blend of you getting sexual pleasure vs his sexual pleasure, and in any femdom relationship it is clear that yours is more important, frequent, and your husbands main priority besides his chores.

Here are some goals for you to accomplish that will make him truly your house bitch sex slave.

  1. When he cums, make him eat it, no matter where it is.  If it is inside you, he cleans you up.  If it is on the floor, you make him lick it up.  The first time you do this, it is best he is tied up, and you feed it to him by scooping it off his body, and putting it in his mouth.  Re-inforce that you are very happy when he does it, and use triggers that you know that make him very happy after he has done this.  Do this every time he does this until he automatically goes to clean it up without you asking.
  2. Eventually teach him how to cum when you are spanking him.  Keep on edging him until he is close while you spank him.  You do this long enough, he will eventually associate the pain with pleasure, and you will be able to spank the cum out of him.
  3. Teach him to cum with anal stimulation only.  This may mean a long time in chastity, and daily fucking in the ass, but eventually if he does not have release, and you are fucking his ass daily, he will cum when you fuck his ass.  Use a feeldoe, so that you can cum everytime you fuck him, and this can become your new sex way.  Eventually he will crave to be fucked in the ass as much as any sex activity.  You may like it more, especially if you do not cum from traditional vaginal intercourse.
  4. Get him a hollow strap on to go over his cock to make him be able to fuck you as long as you want without him getting any pleasure.  This way you to get to have a cock of any size you wish, as often as you wish.

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