Photo by Tirachard Kumtanom on Pexels.com Something that vanilla people often find surprising is that I don’t fuck every swinger that I know. Even more surprisingly, I don’t fuck every swinger that I am friends with. There are people that I fuck that I am not friends with and probably never will be. And, perhaps because I am a complex human, there are people I fuck that I am really good friends with. Being in this lifestyle is sometimes a really effective way to grow your emotional intelligence and experience a range of relationships that you wouldn’t in the vanilla world. So what is it that determines these different relationships? These people have the same values as me. We have all turned our [...]

This set of questions was originally posted on 23 June 2015 on TMI Tuesday 1. What would you eat for your “last supper”? I really enjoy trying different cuisines and I can’t think of one that is my absolute favourite. I would love to be someone else’s last supper, though. Either with sushi, as pictured, or food of their choice. 2. Name 3 interesting and unique things to do in your town/city/region. A few years ago, we hosted a few Japanese homestay students who were visiting Australia on an English immersion program. It was a very interesting experience, to say the least. On the weekends, we would try to get them out to experience different things. As is the way some of the [...]

Get your week started right with a sexy story Photo by Nothing Ahead on Pexels.com “Let’s blow this popsicle stand.” Mike rested his butt on the edge of Molly’s desk and draped his arm along the partition. Experience had taught him that this vantage point would give him a nice view of Molly’s spectacular cleavage. Especially when she leaned forward over her keyboard. “What?” Molly frowned at her screen, completely lost in her work. “It is sunny out there,” Mike straightened up a little as he noticed Molly’s co — worker across the corridor frowning in his direction. “I just thought you might like to get some air.” “Stupid, stupid program!” Molly threw herself back in her chair in disgust. As if she [...]

I have been existing on the periphery of a Medium process called “Just start writing”. Today’s exercise was to write about something we explained recently. Technically, we aren’t posting, but because this is Pride Month, I wanted to share this with you all. Photo by Carlos de Toro @carlosdetoro on Unsplash In his piece ‘Same Love” Macklemore comments about the phrase ‘that’s gay’. When that expression came into common use. I wasn’t familiar with the song. I was well on my Lifestyle journey and unapologetically exploring my bisexuality (Pansexuality??). Until that point, I wasn’t really familiar with very many gay people or had much to do with gay culture. Even so, I knew that persecution of these people is wrong. The Macklemore lyrics [...]

I loved TMI Tuesday when it was running. In my contemplation of what I want to do with this blog, I have decided to use some old sets of TMI questions that tickle my fancy. So welcome to TMI Tuesday revisited. This set of questions is from 14 July 2015 1. What places have you visited in the last year that you know you will never visit again? This time a year ago I was travelling across the Canadian Rockies. I absolutely want to go back there. The second part of that journey was a cruise through the Alaskan Inside Passage to Anchorage. It is highly unlikely that we will ever do that again. 2. We often hear, “You can do anything you [...]