Why you should dominate your man and embrace femdom

In a world where traditional gender roles have long dictated the dynamics of relationships, the concept of female dominance—often referred to as "femdom"—is emerging as a powerful and empowering framework for modern partnerships. Far from being a niche or taboo topic, embracing female leadership in romantic relationships can foster mutual respect, deepen emotional intimacy, and create a dynamic where both partners thrive. This post explores why taking the lead as a woman in a relationship can be transformative, offering insights into the benefits, challenges, and practical ways to embrace this dynamic with confidence and care. What Does It Mean to Dominate Your Man? When we talk about "dominating" in the context of a relationship, it’s important to clarify that this isn’t about control [...]

Sunday Bumday

It’s no secret that I like to post images of my boobs. But today I thought I would flip things a bit. An older image of my butt from a few years back. I like to think it hasn’t changed, but it probably has! Image courtesy of a very good friend. Have a great Sunday everyone.

By |2025-06-21T16:23:46-07:00June 21st, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|3 Comments

Relinquishing Control

I published this story on Medium a little while ago. I was feeling generous, so I thought I would share the whole story with you. Photo by Tomas Andreopoulos on Pexels.com “I don’t want to be involved.” Mel finished applying her lipstick and straightened her skirt. “Really?” Brad shrugged, buckled his work pants and reached for his shirt. “Mmmm.” Mel slid her hands around his waist and under his waistband. “What time did you say your first job is?” Taken by surprise, Brad struggled with his shirt, trying to get it in place before giving up and throwing it in the corner. Bare chested, he turned to face his wife. “Don’t you have that early meeting?” Brad’s mind whirled. His wife had just [...]

By |2025-06-20T14:24:31-07:00June 20th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Relinquishing Control

I published this story on Medium a little while ago. I was feeling generous, so I thought I would share the whole story with you. Photo by Tomas Andreopoulos on Pexels.com “I don’t want to be involved.” Mel finished applying her lipstick and straightened her skirt. “Really?” Brad shrugged, buckled his work pants and reached for his shirt. “Mmmm.” Mel slid her hands around his waist and under his waistband. “What time did you say your first job is?” Taken by surprise, Brad struggled with his shirt, trying to get it in place before giving up and throwing it in the corner. Bare chested, he turned to face his wife. “Don’t you have that early meeting?” Brad’s mind whirled. His wife had just [...]

By |2025-06-20T14:24:30-07:00June 20th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

TMI – Senses

Welcome to another edition of TMI where you can never find out enough!! 1. Do you believe in ESP (extrasensory perception)? Do you have those abilities? I believe in premonitions or sensing that something is going to happen. I don’t really think I possess those abilities, though. 2. Do you laugh when someone tickles you? Mr Jones is very ticklish. When tickled, he does this very different, girlish kind of laugh, which I take pleasure in extracting from him. I am not that ticklish and given that I have tickled him so often, I work hard to not react when people tickle me. I won’t say that I am always successful, though. 3. Do you like teamwork? Team work makes the dream work. [...]

By |2025-06-17T14:23:45-07:00June 17th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

The Click

Photo by Tirachard Kumtanom on Pexels.com Something that vanilla people often find surprising is that I don’t fuck every swinger that I know. Even more surprisingly, I don’t fuck every swinger that I am friends with. There are people that I fuck that I am not friends with and probably never will be. And, perhaps because I am a complex human, there are people I fuck that I am really good friends with. Being in this lifestyle is sometimes a really effective way to grow your emotional intelligence and experience a range of relationships that you wouldn’t in the vanilla world. So what is it that determines these different relationships? These people have the same values as me. We have all turned our [...]

By |2025-06-14T03:23:47-07:00June 14th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

TMI Randomness

This set of questions was originally posted on 23 June 2015 on TMI Tuesday 1. What would you eat for your “last supper”? I really enjoy trying different cuisines and I can’t think of one that is my absolute favourite. I would love to be someone else’s last supper, though. Either with sushi, as pictured, or food of their choice. 2. Name 3 interesting and unique things to do in your town/city/region. A few years ago, we hosted a few Japanese homestay students who were visiting Australia on an English immersion program. It was a very interesting experience, to say the least. On the weekends, we would try to get them out to experience different things. As is the way some of the [...]

By |2025-06-09T14:23:46-07:00June 9th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Monday Erotica – Cloudburst

Get your week started right with a sexy story Photo by Nothing Ahead on Pexels.com “Let’s blow this popsicle stand.” Mike rested his butt on the edge of Molly’s desk and draped his arm along the partition. Experience had taught him that this vantage point would give him a nice view of Molly’s spectacular cleavage. Especially when she leaned forward over her keyboard. “What?” Molly frowned at her screen, completely lost in her work. “It is sunny out there,” Mike straightened up a little as he noticed Molly’s co — worker across the corridor frowning in his direction. “I just thought you might like to get some air.” “Stupid, stupid program!” Molly threw herself back in her chair in disgust. As if she [...]

By |2025-06-08T14:23:47-07:00June 8th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

That’s Gay

I have been existing on the periphery of a Medium process called “Just start writing”. Today’s exercise was to write about something we explained recently. Technically, we aren’t posting, but because this is Pride Month, I wanted to share this with you all. Photo by Carlos de Toro @carlosdetoro on Unsplash In his piece ‘Same Love” Macklemore comments about the phrase ‘that’s gay’. When that expression came into common use. I wasn’t familiar with the song. I was well on my Lifestyle journey and unapologetically exploring my bisexuality (Pansexuality??). Until that point, I wasn’t really familiar with very many gay people or had much to do with gay culture. Even so, I knew that persecution of these people is wrong. The Macklemore lyrics [...]

By |2025-06-06T00:23:46-07:00June 6th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

TMI Tuesday

I loved TMI Tuesday when it was running. In my contemplation of what I want to do with this blog, I have decided to use some old sets of TMI questions that tickle my fancy. So welcome to TMI Tuesday revisited. This set of questions is from 14 July 2015 1. What places have you visited in the last year that you know you will never visit again? This time a year ago I was travelling across the Canadian Rockies. I absolutely want to go back there. The second part of that journey was a cruise through the Alaskan Inside Passage to Anchorage. It is highly unlikely that we will ever do that again. 2. We often hear, “You can do anything you [...]

By |2025-06-03T15:23:45-07:00June 3rd, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments